Episodes

  • (LIMITED TIME RELEASE) 3 Steps To Cultivate UNSHAKEABLE Self-Love, Become Your Own Best-Friend, Cheerleader, & Advocate

    (LIMITED TIME RELEASE) 3 Steps To Cultivate UNSHAKEABLE Self-Love, Become Your Own Best-Friend, Cheerleader, & Advocate
    Feb 1 2025

    From Self-Hatred, Beating Yourself Up & Negative Self-Talk to Becoming Your Own Best-Friend, Cheerleader & Advocate So That You Can Have Your BEST Year Yet!

    In this FREE Live Transmission, you will learn... → my proven 3-step process to cultivate UNSHAKEABLE self-love → what blocks us from unconditional love and abundance → the impact of trauma and the wounded inner child on our lives and relationships → the KEY to deep healing, transformation and living your BEST life → the roadmap from self-hatred, self-sacrifice and negative self-talk to SELF-LOVE, becoming your own best friend, cheerleader and advocate Join us for The Sacred Art Of Loving Yourself Here: https://www.moniquecarmela.com/the-sacred-art-of-loving-yourself TODAY FOR ONLY $297
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    1 hr and 53 mins
  • 150: The 10 Good Girl Conditioning Programs, Embracing Your Sexuality, Feminine Power & Magnetism w Alex Harvey

    150: The 10 Good Girl Conditioning Programs, Embracing Your Sexuality, Feminine Power & Magnetism w Alex Harvey
    Dec 25 2024
    In this episode of the Good Girl Unleashed podcast, host Monique welcomes Alex Harvey, a coach dedicated to helping women live authentically and embrace their true nature. The conversation dives deep into the concept of 'good girl conditioning'—a set of societal programs that restrict women from expressing their true selves and achieving their full potential. Alex outlines ten key conditioning programs that often impede women's empowerment, ranging from beliefs around sexuality and attractiveness to the notion that success must come through struggle. Both Monique and Alex share personal anecdotes and insights on overcoming these limiting beliefs through acceptance, self-awareness, and the transformative power of sexuality and sensuality. They also discuss the broader implications of these conditioning programs on various aspects of life, including business, relationships, and personal growth. Additionally, Alex introduces her upcoming offerings, including a Sex Magic Ritual system and a comprehensive 12-month curriculum designed to help women harness their innate power and creativity. This episode is a profound exploration of the journey towards self-liberation and living from a place of true authenticity. Timestamps 00:00 Welcome to the Good Girl Unleashed Podcast 00:53 Introducing Alex Harvey: Empowering Women 03:03 Understanding Good Girl Conditioning 06:55 Generational Impact and Personal Stories 13:26 Sexuality and Personal Transformation 22:12 Embracing All Aspects of Self 38:40 Understanding Psychological Threats 39:13 Embracing Fear and Vulnerability 41:10 Manifestation and the Power of Subconscious 44:08 The Role of Tension in Manifestation 46:34 The Truth Behind Positive Thinking 48:19 Embracing Pain for Transformation 56:04 Good Girl Conditioning Programs 01:05:10 Upcoming Programs and Offerings 01:08:44 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Alex Harvey is a transformational coach who empowers women to break free from societal expectations, unleash their creativity, and align with their soul’s purpose. Through her workshops, retreats like Creatrix Bali Retreat, and coaching programs, Alex combines neuroscience, Tantra, and intuition to help women manifest with ease and step into their full power. IG: https://www.instagram.com/alexh.co/

    Resources / Other Links

    Listen to Alex's Podcast Episode:Break Free From Good Girl Conditions: The 10 Programs

    The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself with Monique Carmela

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • 149: Day 3 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Polarity, Intimacy & Human Design; How Separateness Supports Togetherness

    149: Day 3 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Polarity, Intimacy & Human Design; How Separateness Supports Togetherness
    Dec 18 2024
    Unlocking Deeper Intimacy: Human Design, Slowness, and Embodiment Practices Join us for Day 3 of the Opening To Deeper Intimacy Masterclass with Monique Carmela

    Day 3: Polarity & Intimacy, & Human Design

    ✹Exploring the need/desire for togetherness and separateness and how separateness is what allows for closeness

    ✹What is Human Design and how it can support you understand yourself and those you are in relationship with more deeply, offering awareness, understanding, and supporting harmony, connection and intimacy.

    ✹Guided Embodiment Practice: Your Heart's Desire, connecting to your deepest desire and bringing this desire to life

    REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE: https://embodiedlove.moniquecarmela.com/intimacy In the final session on deepening intimacy, Monique starts with a 'drop-in' exercise to help shift from mental activity to a receptive state. This practice aims to engage participants more profoundly with the upcoming material, which is rich in energy and wisdom. The discussion covers the journey of understanding intimacy, emphasizing the importance of present moment awareness and the pitfalls of always striving to reach a future goal. The importance of slowness is highlighted as a key to both productivity and experiencing deeper intimacy, especially in sexual and emotional connections. The conversation shifts to the significance of alone time for self-intimacy and how knowing one's human design can enhance relationships. Practical advice is offered on balancing alone time and togetherness to foster deeper intimacy. Insights on managing energy dynamics within relationships, particularly through the lens of human design, are shared. Additional resources and opportunities for deeper exploration through courses and one-on-one sessions are mentioned. The session concludes with an embodiment practice to integrate the teachings. Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Opening Drop-In 01:56 The Importance of Being Present 04:37 Connecting with Your Current State 06:57 Embracing Calmness and Acceptance 09:06 The Power of Slowing Down 15:30 Understanding Human Design 18:14 Healing Through Relationships 22:51 Exploring Intimacy and Emotions 25:59 Exploring Deeper Intimacy 26:19 The Importance of Alone Time 26:58 Human Design and Energy Dynamics 29:04 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 29:45 Tools for Self-Intimacy and Healing 31:12 The Role of Community and Support 32:07 Balancing Alone Time and Togetherness 34:21 Understanding Human Design 44:03 Practical Applications of Human Design 49:27 Invitation to Deeper Work 52:27 Embodiment Practice

    Resources / Other Links

    The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself

    Learn more about working with Monique: Work with Monique

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    58 mins
  • 148: Day 2 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Fears & Energetic Blocks Keeping You Stuck & How To Access Deeper Intimacy

    148: Day 2 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Fears & Energetic Blocks Keeping You Stuck & How To Access Deeper Intimacy
    Dec 17 2024
    How to overcome fears, challenges and energetic blocks so that you can ACCESS Deeper Intimacy NOW Join us for Day 2 of the Opening To Deeper Intimacy Masterclass with Monique Carmela

    Day 2: Fear of Change / Fear of Intimacy

    ✹Exploring common fears, deeply ingrained belief systems and patterns, and energetic blocks that keep people stuck in their relationships and prevent deeper intimacy and connection

    ✹How to overcome these challenges so that you can feel secure within yourself, feeling safe is the key to deeper intimacy

    ✹Guided Embodiment Practice: Cultivating Inner Safety, supporting you to release what's holding you back from deeper intimacy

    REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE: https://embodiedlove.moniquecarmela.com/intimacy In this episode of the Good Girl Unleashed podcast, the focus is on addressing fears and energetic blocks that prevent deeper intimacy. You will be guided through breathing exercises and encouraged to connect with your bodily sensations to increase your capacity for intimacy, pleasure, and connection. Key concepts include the importance of expanding one's capacity to feel, dealing with triggers, and the significance of strong foundations for deeper connection. The episode also discusses overcoming self-worth issues, fear of rejection, and protective mechanisms. Monique shares personal experiences and strategies for cultivating self-love and intimacy. The episode concludes with an invitation to join the Sacred Art of Loving Yourself program for a deeper journey towards self-acceptance and transformation. Timestamps 00:00 Welcome to the Good Girl Unleashed Podcast 00:37 Day Two: Opening to Deeper Intimacy 01:27 Foundations of Self-Intimacy 03:13 Expanding Capacity to Feel 05:25 Common Fears and Energetic Blocks 09:28 The Power of Awareness 11:24 Navigating Intimacy Challenges 16:52 Protective Mechanisms and Self-Worth 22:53 Fear of Intimacy and Change 28:49 Invitation to Deeper Work 31:45 Challenging Learned Beliefs 32:18 Cultivating Inner Safety 34:11 Navigating the Fear of Change 35:17 Self-Sabotage and Protection 36:26 Recalibrating Neural Pathways 38:55 Building Strong Foundations 42:05 Practicing Self-Honoring 46:05 Understanding Emotional Triggers 51:19 Embracing Unique Experiences 54:12 Masterclass Conclusion and Offers

    Resources / Other Links

    Intimacy Masterclass

    The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself

    Work with Monique

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    1 hr
  • 147: DAY 1 of Opening to Deeper Intimacy: Embracing Your Authentic Self, The Key To Deep Connection, Love & EXQUISITE Intimacy

    147: DAY 1 of Opening to Deeper Intimacy: Embracing Your Authentic Self, The Key To Deep Connection, Love & EXQUISITE Intimacy
    Dec 16 2024
    The Key To Deep Connection, Great Love & EXQUISITE Intimacy Join us for Day 1 of the Opening To Deeper Intimacy Masterclass with Monique Carmela

    Day 1: Journey Back To Self

    ✹Exploring how coming back to self and embodying your authentic self is ACTUALLY what sets the foundations and allows you access deeper intimacy in your relationships

    ✹What triggers are revealing to you and how to navigate triggers and conflict effectively allowing you to remain open and connected in your relationships

    ✹ Guided Embodiment Practice: Journey Back To Self, understanding what holds you back in intimacy and how to open up to deeper intimacy within yourself - ONLY AVAILABLE TO MASTERCLASS REGISTRANTS

    REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE

    In this episode of the Good Girl Unleashed podcast, host Monique Carmela guides listeners through an exploration of connecting to their authentic selves to cultivate deeper intimacy and personal power. Monique shares her journey of overcoming struggles with intimacy, self-expression, and emotional vulnerability. The episode includes reflections on why we often resist receiving and opening up due to past wounds and traumas, and the importance of self-compassion and embodiment practices. Listeners are encouraged to engage in self-exploration, set intentions, and participate in a masterclass for deeper learning and transformation. The session includes a foundational teaching on observing one's internal landscape and how it manifests in relationships and external experiences. Timestamps 00:37 Setting the Space for Deeper Intimacy 02:27 The Journey of Receiving and Vulnerability 03:59 Breath and Embodiment Practices 06:55 Introduction to the Masterclass 10:52 Personal Journey and Insights 13:48 The Importance of Self-Intimacy 22:52 Navigating Relationship Challenges 24:59 The Power of Inner Work 34:41 Awareness and Transformation 35:01 Awareness and Resonance 35:42 Deepening Self-Intimacy 37:28 Embracing All Emotions 39:15 Authentic Self-Embodiment 50:29 Navigating Triggers and Conflict 59:26 Final Thoughts and Next Steps

    Resources / Other Links

    Intimacy Masterclass

    The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself

    Work with Monique

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • 146: Opening to Deeper Intimacy: A Journey to Self-Discovery; Prequel To The Masterclass & My Personal Story

    146: Opening to Deeper Intimacy: A Journey to Self-Discovery; Prequel To The Masterclass & My Personal Story
    Dec 16 2024
    The Good Girl Unleashed podcast focuses on connecting to one's authenticity, truth, and personal power. Monique introduces the upcoming Masterclass, 'Opening to Deeper Intimacy,' and shares her personal journey of self-intimacy, overcoming trauma, and achieving deeper connections in relationships. The discussion covers the impact of subconscious fears and beliefs on intimacy, the importance of embodying one's true self, and how these practices can transform various aspects of life. This episode encourages you to reflect on your needs, boundaries, and internal blocks, and shares what's in store for you in our upcoming masterclass... You're invited to join us if you're feeling called to delve deeper and open to deeper intimacy.

    Join us for Opening To Deeper Intimacy, Dec 17-19

    👉 Intimacy Masterclass

    Timestamps 00:00 Welcome to the Good Girl Unleashed Podcast 00:39 Introduction to the Masterclass on Deeper Intimacy 00:58 The Journey to Self-Intimacy and Authenticity 02:43 Understanding the Subconscious Blocks 03:25 The Importance of Self-Connection 05:28 Reflecting on Personal Experiences 08:43 The Continuous Journey of Self-Discovery 11:10 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 14:39 The Role of Embodiment Work 18:02 The Path to Conscious Relationships 22:34 Overcoming Personal Challenges 24:22 Building a Business and Personal Growth 26:41 Overcoming Fear of Going Live 27:23 The Trap of Comparison 28:02 Embracing Your Unique Journey 28:53 Struggles with Sexual Intimacy 29:54 The Importance of Self-Intimacy 30:55 Transforming Relationships Through Softness 33:56 The Power of Embodiment Work 34:16 Navigating Triggers and Healing 44:39 Invitation to the Masterclass

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    51 mins
  • 145: Creative Flow and Divine Feminine: Letting Go Of Perfectionism & The Toxic Masculine to Embrace Your Creative Feminine Flow with Ally Markotich

    145: Creative Flow and Divine Feminine: Letting Go Of Perfectionism & The Toxic Masculine to Embrace Your Creative Feminine Flow with Ally Markotich
    Dec 12 2024

    Today I am joined by Ally Markotich, an artist and author, to discuss the transformative power of creative practice and how it connects us to our inner wisdom and the divine. Supporting you to honour your creative impulses and find joy in everyday life.

    We explore how creativity can help overcome perfectionism and routine by fostering a deeper connection to the feminine and a more playful approach to life. Allie shares her journey of rediscovering her artistic side and the significant impact it has had on her family and personal growth.

    An absolute joy to bring this incredible episode to you to support you on your journey to living authentically you.

    Timestamps

    00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Allie

    01:21 Allie's Journey to Creative Practice

    03:29 The Role of Play and Creativity in Life

    07:46 Balancing Structure and Flow

    09:36 Overcoming Perfectionism and Embracing Creativity

    13:07 Honoring Your True Self

    20:17 The Power of Small Moments

    34:32 Sharing and Connecting Through Creativity

    37:24 Overcoming Creative Blocks

    38:53 Finding Creative Flow

    40:09 The Power of Surrender

    41:34 Balancing Family and Creativity

    45:00 The Long Vision in Creativity

    51:48 The Role of Mentors and Long-Term Containers

    55:21 Integrating Creative Practices

    56:57 Creative Shifts and Family Dynamics

    01:10:55 Sharing Your Creative Journey

    Ally Markotich is an artist and poet who creates from a place of heart and soul to spark sacred imagination, prayerful possibility and relationship with MotherGod.

    With playful approach and rich depth, she provides nourishment and inspiration through her expressive art, poetry and offerings. She is the author of Soul Kindling: Ignite Your Sacred, Creative Heart and lives in North Carolina with her husband, two sons and yellow lab.

    ✨ Sign up to receive your Sparkle Guide: A Whimsical Interactive Guidebook for Your Creative Practice – https://www.soulkindling.com

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    ✨ Free 7-Day Complimentary Creative Course: https://www.soulkindling.com/courses/in-the-beginning

    ✨ Insta: Instagram.com/soulkindling

    Learn more about Monique Carmela here: https://www.moniquecarmela.com/

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • 144: The Missing Piece: Harnessing The Power of Nonviolent Communication and Self-Understanding

    144: The Missing Piece: Harnessing The Power of Nonviolent Communication and Self-Understanding
    Dec 10 2024

    In this episode I share transformative insights gained from a nonviolent communication workshop and books by Alison Armstrong.

    Since watching a workshop on NVC by Marshall Rosenberg, I discovered the missing piece that causes so much pain, suffering, conflict and disharmony in relationships and the reason WHY we can’t seem to HEAR the other.

    There is a deep PAIN that so many of us hold deep within ourselves, the pain of unmet needs that have been held and buried for much of our lives.

    When we enter intimate relationships, often they trigger these deep unprocessed pains within us, this is an opportunity to heal and integrate but when we don’t have the tools it can prevent us from healing and thriving in relationships.

    I also share my own journey through personal growth, inner conflicts, and relationship dynamics, particularly focusing on addressing deep-seated wounds and unmet needs and highlight how understanding and expressing needs compassionately can shift relationships.

    We explore key topics include the patterns of emasculation, the impact of unmet needs, and strategies for healthier communication and requests in relationships.

    Let’s dive in!

    Timestamps

    00:00 Introduction and Recent Insights

    00:45 Discovering Nonviolent Communication

    01:12 The Impact of Alison Armstrong's Work

    02:34 Struggles with Trust and Emasculation

    04:21 Understanding and Expressing Needs

    06:41 Healing Unmet Needs and Relationship Pain

    10:52 Practical Recommendations and Resources

    11:08 Invitation to the Intimacy Masterclass

    12:08 Bringing Playfulness to the Journey

    Resources / Other Links

    Intimacy Masterclass

    Nonviolent Communication Workshop

    The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself

    Work with Monique

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    13 mins