• Episode 17: Creating Your Sensual Space
    Feb 7 2024

    Summary

    In this episode, Lou Hargrove discusses the importance of creating an authentic central space. She emphasizes the need to have a sensual and sacred space in our homes, where we can feel cozy and renew ourselves. Lou suggests carving out a personal corner or room in our homes for this purpose. She also highlights the elements that contribute to a sensual space, such as fabrics, scents, colors, and personal touches. Lou encourages listeners to prioritize their own preferences and create spaces that make them feel good. She concludes by inviting listeners to share their experiences of creating sensual spaces.

    Takeaways

    Create a sensual and sacred space in your home where you can feel cozy and renew yourself.
    Carve out a personal corner or room in your home for your own central space.
    Include elements like soft fabrics, inviting scents, calming colors, and personal touches in your sensual space.
    Prioritize your own preferences and create spaces that make you feel good.

    Chapters

    00:00 Creating Your Authentic Central Space
    02:00 Carving Out Your Own Central Space
    03:15 Elements for Your Sensual Space
    05:37 Personalizing Your Space
    07:05 Creativity and Sensuality
    10:20 Creating Sacred Spaces
    12:14 Maintaining a Cozy Space
    14:05 Awareness through Your Space
    15:39 Unseen Spaces Matter
    16:51 Creating a Flow in Your Space
    17:26 Conclusion

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    17 mins
  • Episode 16: Effectively Communicating Your Desires and Needs to Your Partner
    Jan 31 2024

    Summary

    In this episode, host Lou Hargrove discusses the importance of communicating desires and pleasures with your partner. Lou emphasizes the need to first understand and articulate your own desires before expecting others to fulfill them. The conversation explores the thin line between assertion and aggression in communication and the importance of creating a safe space for open dialogue. Building intimacy and trust, having hard conversations, and using 'I' statements and feedback are also discussed. The episode concludes with the reminder to recognize when something needs to change and the importance of understanding your own pleasures and desires.

    Takeaways

    Before communicating desires, it is crucial to know and articulate your own desires and pleasures.
    Communication should be assertive, not aggressive, in order to maintain a healthy relationship.
    Creating a safe space for open communication is essential for building intimacy and trust.
    Using 'I' statements and giving feedback can enhance communication and understanding in a relationship.
    Recognizing when something needs to change and understanding your own pleasures and desires are important for personal growth.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction: Communicating Desires and Pleasures
    00:56 Knowing Your Desires and Pleasures
    03:19 Communication: Assertion vs Aggression
    04:41 Creating a Safe Space for Communication
    06:35 Building Intimacy and Trust
    08:02 Having Hard Conversations
    10:13 Using 'I' Statements and Giving Feedback
    11:33 Recognizing When Something Needs to Change
    12:24 Understanding Your Pleasures and Desires
    12:54 Conclusion

     

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    13 mins
  • Episode 15: Embracing Self-Reflection: Discover Your True Self
    Jan 17 2024

    Summary

    In this episode, host Lou Hargrove discusses the importance of self-reflection and its role in building an intimate relationship with oneself. Self-reflection is a practice that helps individuals understand who they are, what brings them joy, and what hinders their personal growth. Lou emphasizes that self-reflection should be a daily practice rather than a once-a-year event. She explores various methods of self-reflection, including journaling, meditation, and taking walks. Lou also highlights the connection between self-reflection, understanding belief systems, toxic relationship patterns, and overcoming limiting beliefs. She encourages listeners to seek professional support if needed and provides prompts for self-reflection, starting with gratitude and growth. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize self-care and build a strong foundation of self-love.

    Takeaways

    Self-reflection is a daily practice that helps individuals understand themselves and build an intimate relationship with themselves.
    Methods of self-reflection include journaling, meditation, and taking walks in nature.
    Self-reflection helps individuals understand their belief systems and toxic relationship patterns and overcome limiting beliefs.
    Seeking professional support is essential for deeper self-reflection and addressing unresolved traumas or challenges.
    Prompts for self-reflection can include gratitude and reflecting on personal growth.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Importance of Self-Reflection
    03:29 Methods of Self-Reflection: Journaling, Meditation, and Taking Walks
    09:59 Self-Reflection and Understanding Belief Systems
    11:55 Self-Reflection and Toxic Relationship Patterns
    13:35 Self-Reflection and Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
    16:16 Self-Reflection as a Getting to Know Yourself Practice
    17:22 Seeking Professional Support for Self-Reflection
    19:07 Prompts for Self-Reflection: Gratitude and Growth
    20:21 Closing Remarks and Future Plans

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    19 mins
  • Episode 14: "The Art of Falling In Love With Your Body"
    Oct 14 2023

    Sensual Elevations Podcast | Episode: The Art of Falling in Love with Your Body

    Do you ever stand before the mirror, gazing deep into your own soul, longing for a connection with the person looking back at you? In this intimate heart-to-heart, Lou Hargrove dives deep into the journey of body acceptance, self-love, and the spiritual ties that bind us to our physical forms. Drawing from personal tales, cultural practices, and evocative imagery, this episode will invite you to explore your relationship with your body. Why wait for another day, another dress size, another fleeting moment of approval? Discover the sacred rituals and daily practices to nurture, celebrate, and truly adore the beautiful body you’re in, right here and now. Because you deserve love, you deserve joy, and most of all, you deserve to fully embrace every inch of yourself. Join us, light a candle, set your mood, and let's begin transformative art of falling in love with your body

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    Website

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    21 mins
  • Episode 13: Learning to Love the Current Version of You
    Sep 23 2023

    In the latest episode of the Sensual Elevations Podcast, host Lou Hargrove explores the journey of self-love and embracing our current selves. Drawing inspiration from the metamorphosis of a caterpillar into a butterfly, she emphasizes the importance of shedding old beliefs without losing our essence. Lou challenges the common notion of "killing" our old selves to evolve, advocating instead for growth rooted in love and acceptance. Using the butterfly's transformation as a metaphor, she underscores that true growth doesn't necessitate self-destruction. Lou concludes by urging listeners to reflect on their personal growth motivations, emphasizing the power of positive self-talk.

     

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    Website

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    14 mins
  • Episode 12: The Beauty of Self Acceptance
    Sep 4 2023

    Welcome to another episode of the Sensual Elevations Podcast. In this episode, your host and self-intimacy coach, Lou Hargrove, dives deep into the essence of who we are, challenging the idea of "killing off" parts of ourselves for personal growth. Through the lens of personal loss, Lou emphasizes the importance of authenticity and embracing every facet of our being. She explores how we can hold onto our essence while shedding detrimental habits and beliefs. If you've ever felt pressured to fit a mold or questioned your self-worth, this episode will offer a fresh perspective on self-acceptance, growth, and the beauty of our individuality. Listen in for an intimate discussion on embracing the foundation of who we are and building upon it, rather than tearing it down.

     

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    Website

    https://rbsanctuary.com

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    19 mins
  • Episode 11: Owning Your Sensuality and Femininity Over 40
    Aug 26 2023

     

    Episode 11: Owning Your Sensuality and Femininity over 40

     

    In this week's episode of the Sensual Elevations Podcast, we challenge societal norms and confront a huge that shadow sensuality and femininity as we age. Dive deep with us as we celebrate the evolution of sensuality, emphasizing that it not only endures but flourishes with life's experiences. Uncover the truth behind age-old misconceptions and discover self-care practices designed to nourish and elevate your being, especially as you journey through the beautiful years beyond 40. This episode is an ode to every woman who believes in the timelessness of her essence and seeks to embrace it wholeheartedly. Join us in redefining and reveling in the ageless allure of femininity.

    Disclaimer: Somw subjects on this week's episode are of a sexual nature.

     

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    Website

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    25 mins
  • Episode 10: How to Practice Sensual Self Care (Master Class Replay)
    Aug 19 2023

    Episode 10: How to Practice Sensual Self Care (Materclass Replay)

     

    In this episode of the Sensual Elevations Podcast, host and self-intimacy coach Lou Hargrove delves into the topic of Sensual sSelf-care and the importance of being a more intimate relationship with yourself. In this replay of the Sensual Self-Care master calss. Lou discusses tips on how to start your own sensual self care practice. 

     

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    1 hr and 7 mins