In this episode, the girls catch up after New Year's Eve: Elle's was intimate with a handful of friends checking things off their fuckit lists, and Vee's was more community-based at a big party in New York City. Part audio smut, part deep chats, the girls give all the details from the orgies to the reflections afterwards.

Elle’s New Years Eve gang bang! (1:39)

Being used vs being worshipped when being fucked. (5:25)

Tuning out the orgy: how to zone in. (11:50)

Elle’s evolving desire from pre- to post-pregnancy. (14:25)

Stay tuned- GGD community coming in 2025! (21:45)

Volunteering at sex parties, and how to approach someone you’re interested in. (22:50)

Impact play to leave marks: using new implements (lollipop stick, dragon tail whip, evil stick, long-tail flogger). (26:44)

Why impact play? The benefits of massage and erotic touch, vibrational spanking, and cathartic impact play that leads to “crygasms”. (32:41)

Power Play Scene: 3 dommes. (37:29)

Domming takeaways. (42:05)

Sexy Scenes from Elle’s New Years Eve. Double stacking and dirty talk. (43:46)

Group sex participation: adding to the scene even if you’re not having sex. (45:55)

2025 intentions: “the year of the pussy” and scissoring, dating, shibari and impact play and increased pain tolerance. (47:44)

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In this conversation, Dr. Marie Thouin PhD and author of What Is Compersion?, discusses the concept of compersion, which is the joy one feels for others' happiness, particularly in the context of non-monogamous relationships. The discussion explores the spectrum of emotions from jealousy to compersion, the importance of self-worth and agency, and the factors that can foster or hinder the experience of compersion.

Chapters

Introduction to Compersion and The Origins of Her Book What Is Compersion? (00:00)

Defining Compersion: A Dive into the 3 parts. (5:02)

The Spectrum of Emotions: Jealousy to Compersion. (8:22)

Navigating Compersion: The Belief that Compersion Should be the Ultimate Goal in ENM: Toxic Positivity vs. Authenticity. (9:24)

Is Compersion Necessary for a Healthy Non-Monogamous Relationship? (12:21)

The 6 Pillars to Cultivating Compersion: Is Compersion like a Muscle that Anyone Can Train? (15:15)

The 1st Pillar:

Choosing Non-Monogamy From a Place of Values and Integrity. (15:15)

If A Partner Is Doing Polyamory For Their Partner And Didn’t Necessarily Choose It, Can They Achieve Compersion? (17: 28)

The 2nd Pillar:

Building Security Within One Self: Financial, Emotional, and Spiritual Autonomy. (20:45)

Building Inner Security in Self. (22:43)

Are Some People More Compersive than Others? (27:27)

The 3rd Pillar:

Security in the Relationship. (32:30)

If You Are Practicing Non-Hierarchical Polyamory or Solo Polyamory, How You Can Create Security? (32:22)

The 4th Pillar:

Positive Metamour Relationships: your partner’s partner (Very Important). (39:13)

What If Your Partner Does Not Want You to Meet Their Metamors? (46:36)

What If the Metamour Does Not Want to Meet You? (49:04)

Growth Edges: Embracing Good Pain. (51:13)

The 5th Pillar:

Perception of Benefits from your partner’s Other Relationships. (54:36)

The 6th Pillar:

Community Belonging: The Role of Support in Non-Monogamy. (57:46)

Cuckolding and Erotic Compersion: Is the Feeling Self-Centered or Other-Centered? (01:04:50)

Final Thoughts: Don’t Pressure Yourself to Feel Compersion. (01:08:50)

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Instagram @drmariethouin

Website: https://www.mariethouin.com for free 30 minute session, webinars, Your Compersion Worksheet

Her Book : What Is Compersion? (Diverse Sexualities, Genders, and Relationships)

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In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up, and Vee recounts her sexcapades diving back into the BDSM scene! From being tied up and flogged on a second date to power play in Mexico City on vacation, she gives all the dirty details of her recent scenes. Then the girls discuss Elle's experience with Flintts Mints to cure her dry mouth, and tapping into your inner dominant or submissive side through different modes, including primal play. Get ready for some smut with a side of depth!

Vee seeks out Vacation Sex in Mexico City. (0:37)

Power Play scene and being a "good girl". (4:59)

Flintts Mints: Elle discusses which strengths are best for every situation. (20:13)

Bondage and Impact play scene, including spanking, flogging, and sensory deprivation. (23:58)

Primal Play: Vee and J go to a workshop to unlock their base instincts. (33:58)

Finding your D/S Persona: trying different modes to unlock your inner Dominant or Submissive. (40:25)

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Welcome to the In Bed With Alexa x GGD crossover episode!

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) hosts her first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast, besties and lovers. They dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and Alexa first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and their adventures in double penetration and double vaginal penetration. They provide tips for those wanting to try non-monogamy, discussing how to advocate for your pleasure and ask for what you want. Vee and Elle also talk about the vibrant non-monogamous community they have built together. Tune in for an open and enlightening conversation about pleasure, connection, and community in the world of ENM.

How Vee and Elle met: Temptations lifestyle resort. (3:16)

How Vee and Elle started the podcast. (7:23)

Fucking older partners, and why women who advocate for their pleasure are sexy. (11:04)

Penis sounding at a daytime orgy. (15:10)

ENM journeys: how Elle got into the consensually non monogamous lifestyle. (22:33)

Shame and the importance of community. (29:11)

What are you curious about that you learned about through the lifestyle? DVP. (34:27)

Faking Orgasms? How to get reconnected when you’re in your head. (36:58)

Tips for play parties: what to do when you’re not the main part of the scene, and how to achieve orgasm with lots of people around. (43:22)

DP: first time stories. (45:30)

Anal: training and prepping. (51:28)

Elle’s and Vee’s advice for new people discovering ENM. (54:01)


Would you rather? (1:01:02)

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In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends.

“A glimpse into a lifestyle party,” and one of the challenges of bringing a third to a party. (1:46)

What’s the point of having themes? (5:35)

Sobriety: the challenges and benefits of staying sober for an entire lifestyle weekend. (9:10)

Sobriety and sexuality. (18:02)

Highlight: DP with strap ons? FFF threesome and goal-oriented fucking. (21:57)

Face-sitting: the benefits of being distracted/focused when you’re getting action both up top and down bottom. (26:46)

Highlight: Fivesome and creampie. (29:41)

Fuckit List item: DVP, and Elle’s tips for success. (32:06)

Breakthrough: Getting out of your head, and cumming in front of a group. (38:28)

Sybian vs Fuck Machine. (41:37)

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Elle and Vee catch up just the two of them for their 100th episode! They reflect on how much they've changed since beginning the podcast, and fill each other in on their latest sexcapades, learning moments and takeaways.

Putting Talk Into Action: Vee doing the work, Elle’s intentions to be a better student, gratitude for the guests. (1:10)

Elle’s tight pussy post-birth: how Vee and Elle have changed since the beginning of the podcast. (6:04)

The importance of taking care of yourself to have good sex! Desire level post-birth: how lack of sleep for new parents affects sex drive. (11:48)

Alcohol: letting go of alcohol allowed Vee to listen to her body’s signals. (16:33)

How to Be the Love You Seek check ins: Elle uses tools from Dr. Nicole LaPera’s book. (18:27)

Vee gets embodied: checking in with yourself - inside and outside of the bedroom. (20:03)

First date orgasms! Getting eaten out by a guy with a beard, and learning to let go with a new partner. (21:55)

Oral with a timer; giving your partner NRE (new relationship energy) no matter how long youve been together. (28:03)

Elle’s vacation sex: cock ring + connection + tipsiness + weed = anal sex! (34:51)

Balls hitting the ass during sex: yay or nay? (37:09)

Putting mens’ toys and condoms on for them. (42:15)

Setting intentions: cock cage, yoni massage, and tantra retreat. (44:10)

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In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with a psychotherapist who they refer to as Wonder Woman on this episode for the sake of anonymity. With specializations in sex therapy and ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, the girls pick her brain on everything from desire discrepancy to the most common issues within couples, from what a ketamine-assisted psychotherapy session actually looks like to neuroplasticity.

Psychotherapy vs. Psychoanalysis: what is the difference? (1:58)

Top reasons couples seek sex therapy counseling: both gay and cis-het couples, and individuals. (5:15)

Spontaneous desire vs responsive desire: a dive into libido differences and desire discrepancy. (6:25)

Is there a way to get spontaneous desire back? Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity. (13:33)

The Dual Control Model (Sexual Brakes and Accelerators): a concept from Emily Nagoski’s book Come As You Are and her 2nd book Come Together. (20:57)

Kink and shame: how to bring you kinky desires up to your partner and working through internalized shame. (26:12)

Kink as shadows: how roleplaying can help one work through shame with reframing and control. (30:02)

Kink isn’t always about processing something. Heteroflexible male-male play as a “taboo kink”. (31:27)

Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy: how to use it properly, and how it’s being done irresponsibly. (35:17)

How neuroplasticity works in the brain using the snow track analogy by Michael Pollan, author of the book How to Change Your Mind. (47:24)

Ketamine Assisted Couples Psychotherapy. (53:02)

Final Nugget: Keeping the idea of play and pleasure at the forefront. (53:57)

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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with paid companion Adele Bardot in a conversation which went somewhere they didn't necessarily expect it to go. And that's what this theme of going deep is all about: relinquishing control and sometimes talking about really intense stuff like the authentic self.

Elle and Vee invite you to think of this convo as an insight into how sex work and companionship can be truly great opportunities to dive deeper and seek answers to those questions of, "Who am I?" and "What is my purpose?" and "What brings me joy and lights me up?" and "How can I seek more of that?"

Getting into paid companionship. (1:49)

What does paid companionship entail? (4:56)

Sugaring: finding a sugar daddy on Seeking.com, and discovering the pros and cons. (7:50)

How our childhood informs where we end up. (11:19)

Authentic self: asking yourself who you are, not just in the roles you play but your core self. (15:31)

2024: a year of change. Discussing impermanence and grace through turmoil. (21:42)

Seeking joy and developing your hobbies lead to being able to hold a conversation with anyone and fit in anywhere. (25:37)

Greater connections with your partners once you have a greater connection to yourself. (27:55)

Applying self work to paid companionship. (31:12)

Memorable experiences with clients! (37:11)

What types of bookings might an escort receive? (40:18)

Vetting or questions for new clients? (45:22)

What do you wish you knew before getting into sex work? (47:12)

Ikigai: the Japanese concept of living your life's purpose. (48:57)

Links:

Website: theadelebardot.com

Instagram: @itsadelebardot

X: @theadelebardot

HBO sex show Vee referenced: This Is Life With Lisa Ling

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