In this episode, the girls catch up after New Year's Eve: Elle's was intimate with a handful of friends checking things off their fuckit lists, and Vee's was more community-based at a big party in New York City. Part audio smut, part deep chats, the girls give all the details from the orgies to the reflections afterwards.

Elle’s New Years Eve gang bang! (1:39)

Being used vs being worshipped when being fucked. (5:25)

Tuning out the orgy: how to zone in. (11:50)

Elle’s evolving desire from pre- to post-pregnancy. (14:25)

Stay tuned- GGD community coming in 2025! (21:45)

Volunteering at sex parties, and how to approach someone you’re interested in. (22:50)

Impact play to leave marks: using new implements (lollipop stick, dragon tail whip, evil stick, long-tail flogger). (26:44)

Why impact play? The benefits of massage and erotic touch, vibrational spanking, and cathartic impact play that leads to “crygasms”. (32:41)

Power Play Scene: 3 dommes. (37:29)

Domming takeaways. (42:05)

Sexy Scenes from Elle’s New Years Eve. Double stacking and dirty talk. (43:46)

Group sex participation: adding to the scene even if you’re not having sex. (45:55)

2025 intentions: “the year of the pussy” and scissoring, dating, shibari and impact play and increased pain tolerance. (47:44)

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In this conversation, Dr. Marie Thouin PhD and author of What Is Compersion?, discusses the concept of compersion, which is the joy one feels for others' happiness, particularly in the context of non-monogamous relationships. The discussion explores the spectrum of emotions from jealousy to compersion, the importance of self-worth and agency, and the factors that can foster or hinder the experience of compersion.

Chapters

Introduction to Compersion and The Origins of Her Book What Is Compersion? (00:00)

Defining Compersion: A Dive into the 3 parts. (5:02)

The Spectrum of Emotions: Jealousy to Compersion. (8:22)

Navigating Compersion: The Belief that Compersion Should be the Ultimate Goal in ENM: Toxic Positivity vs. Authenticity. (9:24)

Is Compersion Necessary for a Healthy Non-Monogamous Relationship? (12:21)

The 6 Pillars to Cultivating Compersion: Is Compersion like a Muscle that Anyone Can Train? (15:15)

The 1st Pillar:

Choosing Non-Monogamy From a Place of Values and Integrity. (15:15)

If A Partner Is Doing Polyamory For Their Partner And Didn’t Necessarily Choose It, Can They Achieve Compersion? (17: 28)

The 2nd Pillar:

Building Security Within One Self: Financial, Emotional, and Spiritual Autonomy. (20:45)

Building Inner Security in Self. (22:43)

Are Some People More Compersive than Others? (27:27)

The 3rd Pillar:

Security in the Relationship. (32:30)

If You Are Practicing Non-Hierarchical Polyamory or Solo Polyamory, How You Can Create Security? (32:22)

The 4th Pillar:

Positive Metamour Relationships: your partner’s partner (Very Important). (39:13)

What If Your Partner Does Not Want You to Meet Their Metamors? (46:36)

What If the Metamour Does Not Want to Meet You? (49:04)

Growth Edges: Embracing Good Pain. (51:13)

The 5th Pillar:

Perception of Benefits from your partner’s Other Relationships. (54:36)

The 6th Pillar:

Community Belonging: The Role of Support in Non-Monogamy. (57:46)

Cuckolding and Erotic Compersion: Is the Feeling Self-Centered or Other-Centered? (01:04:50)

Final Thoughts: Don’t Pressure Yourself to Feel Compersion. (01:08:50)

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Instagram @drmariethouin

Website: https://www.mariethouin.com for free 30 minute session, webinars, Your Compersion Worksheet

Her Book : What Is Compersion? (Diverse Sexualities, Genders, and Relationships)

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In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up, and Vee recounts her sexcapades diving back into the BDSM scene! From being tied up and flogged on a second date to power play in Mexico City on vacation, she gives all the dirty details of her recent scenes. Then the girls discuss Elle's experience with Flintts Mints to cure her dry mouth, and tapping into your inner dominant or submissive side through different modes, including primal play. Get ready for some smut with a side of depth!

Vee seeks out Vacation Sex in Mexico City. (0:37)

Power Play scene and being a "good girl". (4:59)

Flintts Mints: Elle discusses which strengths are best for every situation. (20:13)

Bondage and Impact play scene, including spanking, flogging, and sensory deprivation. (23:58)

Primal Play: Vee and J go to a workshop to unlock their base instincts. (33:58)

Finding your D/S Persona: trying different modes to unlock your inner Dominant or Submissive. (40:25)

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