weeper

This was one beautiful book. I was attracted by the title and it did not disappoint. I did spend quite a bit of time wimpering because of the story and the pain and confusion of Sam. it was well researched

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Amazing

I loved this book so much. It made me smile , laugh, cry.... a lot. So moving, beautifully written. I want my sons to read it, I want any young people to read it.
Well done John Boyne

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A good message

I did not realise this was a book for younger readers but enjoyed it anyway.

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Gender identity tale from a sibling's viewpoint

Boyne has created some unforgettable characters and stories, for both adults and younger readers, some modern classics. He has never shied away from some very heart-rending themes.

This latest didn't quite hit the spot for me. In many ways, Sam's viewpoint is authentic - his confusion, anger and inability to comprehend his brother's metamorphosis. In others, the almost stereotypical way that their parents, school-friends and the media/society at large seem to view their matter is out-of-date, overblown and unrealistic.

Sam is 13, the second child of a Cabinet Minister and her assistant, brother to a popular football star. When 17-year-old Jason reveals to the family that he is in fact now identifying as a girl, Sam and his parents alike are bewildered, indignant.

With their parents trying to force normality back on the family and Jason resisting, Sam struggles with his agitation and ignorance (seriously - would this generation have learnt nothing of transgender issues in the 21st century classroom?), whilst undergoing some rather shocking clichéd bullying at school.

I really felt for Jason/Jessica, contending with the rampant intolerance and misinformation displayed here, most of which seemed incredibly old-fashioned. I actually wanted to hear from from her. Sam veered between naivety and just plain selfish/unenlightened. At thirteen, I felt he should have been more worldly, their parents definitely so, in the world of government and political posturing.

The parents are both grating and unsympathetic - focused on their careers over family most of the time, wanting to cover over problems to maintain appearances, but that storyline does yield some reward.

Sam himself has room for character growth. Jason/Jessica disappears for a large section of the book, leaving Sam to work through things without the influence of the person who has started his path towards maturity.

The audiobook gives Sam as narrator a young-sounding voice, more the child than the future man, which fits. As a reader/listener, I found his point of view more gullible than I would have expected from a modern-day teenager, but the format did suit the story and its telling. The voices of Sam's family come across as individuals that you can picture and it's a straightforward book to follow aurally.

This may prove a positive source narrative for basing gender identity discussions on with teenagers, for parents and teachers. It raises points that can help dispel myths and misconceptions, though I would be interested to know how the attitudes in here measure up to those of real teenagers, and how transgender individuals see their own experiences of opening up and how it compares.

For ages 12/13 and older.

With thanks to Nudge Books for providing a sample Audible copy.

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Absorbing, educational, inspirational

Didn't think I'd enjoy this as it's a subject I struggle with, but I was quickly drawn in to the characters and the dilemma's they all faced. very well written and highly enjoyable

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No one is an island.

I’m aware some trans folk have taken offence at this novel, sometimes even without having read it. Nevertheless I found it a moving story, intended for a young readership, of the effects on an affluent ambitious ultra respectable family of the elder child, aged 17, popular, sporty, high up the school pecking order, informing their wee brother, 13 year old Sam, dyslexic, low status in school, and high profile parents, that they are no longer Jason, but Jessica.
Sam takes a lot of flak, losing his protector at school, bullied on account of his non-conforming sibling, and now a sideline for his parents.
Being 13 isn’t joyful- body, brain, emotions all in flux.

I don’t think it demeans trans people for someone (gay male, cis) to write a novel with a narrator who is a pubescent brother of someone who is beginning transition. Statistically there will be more family members of trans folk than trans people themselves.
It’s rather limiting to restrict authors of fiction to their own personal experience, and I don’t see anything wicked in a writer considering what it might be like, to experience a major alteration in family dynamics, complicated in this household by press intrusion.

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A definite eye opener

I wasn’t to sure whether to buy this book for a couple of reasons,, I have never agreed with trans gender was the main one.
After finishing this story it’s a big eye opener and will learn not to judge other people.
John boyne has in my opinion written not just a really good story but a great insight into other people’s worlds.
Really enjoyed one of my favourites mainly for changing my opinions on such topics. Which I didn’t believe was possible!

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Overacted and unnatural narration spoils this story.

I had to stop listening to g to this. Not because of the story but because the narration really grated on me. It was overacted and very one dimensional in its interpretation so that you had to re-hear it, put more naturally, in your own head to experience any depth or nuance. I can’t really comment on the story - it was spoiled by the narration and I didn’t listen beyond the first hour.

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A missed opportunity

This is the third John Boyne book I've listened to in the space of a month and, as it's a YA novel, I am not its target audience but after so many negative reviews on other sites and having enjoyed Boyne's other books, I wanted to review it having listened to it and provide an opinion based on that.

Boyne wrote sensitively and with subtlety about growing up gay in ‘The Heart's Invisible Furies’; he has also written on the Holocaust, religious doubt and more, so I was pretty sure he would do credit to a story about being transgender, but having listened, if you'd told me ‘My Brother’s Name is Jessica’ was by a different author, I wouldn't have been surprised. Whilst some elements work, overall I found it heavy handed and lacking in Boyne's trademark humour and nuance.

Perhaps this is partly because of the novel’s point of view. It is told by 13-year-old Sam, brother of the 17-year-old Jessica. Sam is not terribly interesting or likable and his parents are even worse. The parent's reaction to Jessica's coming out is very extreme; they seemed so ignorant and reactionary as to have stepped out of a different era. This is 2019 and read as if it was set 15 years ago. Or maybe I've been living in Brighton too long! Boyne's solution is to make Jessica’s parents Tory politicians, which seemed an easy opt out – they are little more than caricatures. We don't get Jessica's viewpoint often. When we do get it, we feel for her, but I would have liked much more. I also found the insistence on calling the trans character not just 'Jason', but 'my brother Jason' over-egged.

The reading is good and this is an important subject, but I wouldn’t recommend it with the same enthusiasm I have Boyne’s other novels, though I’m interested in what other readers and listeners think.

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