• S3 E1: After The Hustle - Jack Parker
    Jan 10 2025

    Welcome to After The Hustle! Formerly known as the After Party, this rebranded podcast kicks off with guest host Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, a burlesque performer, sex worker, and educator from Seattle, joining hosts Jessie Sage and Emily Foster. Together, they explore topics like FatCon, a conference celebrating fat liberation and community, and Jack Parker’s anthology on the trans-masculine sex work experience. Tune in for conversations that celebrate diversity, foster understanding, and shine a light on the intersections of sex work, polyamory, and marginalized identities.

    In This Episode:

    00:01:11: Introducing Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, Burlesque Performer
    00:02:37: Overview of FatCon: A Fat Liberation Conference
    00:04:40: Discussing Jack Parker and His Book
    00:06:22: The Interest in Trans-Masculine Sex Work
    00:12:13: Attraction to Masculinity Without Male Socialization
    00:14:38: The Market for Trans-Masculine Sex Work
    00:16:43: The Arguanauts and Trans-Masculine Partners
    00:21:26: Relationship Changes Through Transition and Hormones
    00:28:56: Appreciating Jack Parker's Anthology Work

    People:

    Guest: Jack Parker

    Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster,

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

    When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.

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    30 mins
  • S3 E1: Men at Work: The Trans Masc Experience in Sex Work with Jack Parker
    Jan 6 2025

    In this conversation, Jessie Sage interviews Jack Parker, a writer and sex worker, about his experiences and the creation of the anthology Working Guys: A Transmasculine Sex Worker Anthology, which features stories from transmasculine sex workers. They discuss the diverse experiences within sex work, the importance of representation, and the impact of the anthology on the community.

    In this Episode:

    00:03: Introduction to When We're Not Hustling Podcast

    01:27: Exploring Lives of Sex Workers Beyond Work

    02:44: Season 3 Updates & Schedule Changes

    03:09: Rebranding of After Parties to After the Hustle

    03:20: Jack Parker's Interview & Anthology Discussion

    05:10: Jack Parker's Background & Writing Career

    06:18: Discussing Writing & Sex Work Experiences

    08:05: Jack's Anthology: Working Guys and Its Impact

    14:11: Challenges and Realizations in Publishing the Anthology

    28:39: Jack's Transition and Changes in Client Dynamics

    Guest:

    Jack Parker is a sex worker and writer who writes on topics around sex work. He also has experiences as a peer support for sex workers, and has provided training programs on how best to support sex workers.

    You can find Jack:

    Website: jackviolet.com

    X: @MxJackParker

    Bluesky: @MxJackParker.bsky.social

    Recommendation:

    Book:

    Chav Solidarity by DP Hunter

    Podcast:

    Sherlock & Co Podcast

    The Rest:

    Host: Jessie Sage

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    Sponsor: Assembly Four

    Powered by Black Venom Digital

    When We’re Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • S2 E23: The Life of the Mind, Season 2 Roundtable
    Dec 9 2024
    In this special roundtable episode wrapping up Season 2 of When We're Not Hustling, host Jessie Sage, producer Emily Foster, and guests Aviva Ruse, Amber Délice, and Madeleine Blair dive into the complexities of the mind. They discuss the connection between the brain, emotions, and personal experiences, exploring how the mind processes thoughts and feelings while balancing mental and physical experiences. The conversation touches on the challenges and pleasures of living in one's mind and the importance of grounding oneself in reality. They also examine emotional states like jealousy and envy, particularly in relation to those with seemingly simpler lives, and highlight the significance of rest, play, and creativity for maintaining mental health. Throughout the discussion, they share personal strategies for reconnecting with their minds, embracing their strengths, and offering practical advice for navigating life with a mindful approach. In This Episode: 00:00: Exploring the Nature of the Mind 02:53: The Mind as a Processor: Perspectives & Experiences 05:57: Navigating the Mind: Personal Experiences & Challenges 09:06: The Mind as a Pleasant or Unpleasant Space 12:08: The Balance of Mind, Body, and Emotion 15:02: Fostering a Life of the Mind 18:01: The Role of Habits in Shaping the Mind 20:49: The Importance of Grounding in the Life of the Mind 37:40: Navigating Emotional States & Self-Acceptance 39:02: The Burden of Intellect: Jealousy & Envy 43:59: Finding Balance: Rest, Play, and Creativity 47:51: Bridging the Gap: Reconnecting with the Mind 56:08: Embracing Individuality: Strengths & Coping Mechanisms 01:00:51: Advice & Reflections: Wisdom from Experience Guests: Aviva Ruse is a New England-born companion living in West Hollywood. Her bylines as Aviva include Tryst, The Fix, and Rogue Collective. She is currently shopping a collection of essays (and endlessly shopping for lingerie!). She blogs at dateavivaruse.com/blog. You can find Aviva: Aviva's Episode: A Funny Thing Happened at the Plastic Surgeon's Website: DateAvivaRuse.com X: x.com/avivaruse OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/rr639 Amber Délice is an independent provider and companion based in Boulder, Colorado (just a quick hop away from Denver). She is blessed to travel often and has clients who not only fly her to them but also come to visit for adventures in Colorado. She loves sensuality, writing, dance, immersive theater, travel, and poetry. She is also an ex-food and wine journalist. You can find Amber: Amber's Episode: Conversational Pilgrimages That Shape Our Lives Website: meetamberdelice.com X: @meetamberdelice Instagram: @meetamberdelice Madeleine Blair is a sex worker, writer, freelance editor, writing coach, and the founder and host of Sex Worker Writes, a hookers-only virtual literary salon. You can find Madeleine: Madeleine's episode:Poetry and Personas that Heal Website: madeleineblair.com X: @sensememories The Rest: Host: Jessie Sage Producer: Emily Foster Music: Benjamin J Benamati Sponsor: Assembly Four Powered by Black Venom Digital When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund. You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.
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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • S2 E22 AP: I'm a Dominatrix With a PhD, and There's a Lot of Us
    Dec 4 2024

    In the Season 2 finale of When We’re Not Hustling, Jessie Sage, Emery Fields, and Emily Foster come together for an Afterparty episode to reflect on Olivia Snow’s interview. They discuss her insights on surveillance and sex work, the challenges of balancing personal and professional identities, and the complexities of the industry. The conversation also explores the idea of sex work as a queer identity and the need for solidarity across the community. Wrapping up the season, the hosts share reflections, gratitude, and holiday wishes for their listeners.

    In This Episode:

    00:05: Introduction to the After-Party Episode

    00:30: Season 2 Finale and Co-Host Introductions

    01:09: Reflections on Season 2 and Hosting Emotions

    02:32: Discussion on Olivia Snow and Academia

    06:23: Humor and Academia's Impact

    07:47: Understanding Risks in the Sex Work Industry

    14:19: Intelligence and Skills in Sex Work

    21:02: Lateral Whorephobia and Community Solidarity

    34:14: Sex Work as a Queer Identity Discussion

    44:37: Closing Remarks and Holiday Wishes

    People:

    Guest: Olivia Snow

    Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, Emery Fields

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

    When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.

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    46 mins
  • S2 E22: I'm a Dominatrix With a PhD, and There's a Lot of Us, With Olivia Snow
    Dec 2 2024

    In this episode of When We're Not Hustling, Jessie Sage interviews Olivia Snow, a writer, professor, and dominatrix, to discuss the intersections of academia, labor rights, and the surveillance of sex workers. Olivia shares insights from her research on algorithmic surveillance and how technology, particularly smartphones, profiles sex workers. The conversation delves into themes of class, labor, and societal perceptions of sex work, weaving in elements from Olivia’s dissertation on cannibalism and capitalism in 19th-century American literature. Together, Jessie and Olivia reflect on their experiences and the broader implications of their work, offering a nuanced look at the complexities of the industry.

    In This Episode:

    00:01: Introduction to When We're Not Hustling

    01:23: Podcast Overview with Host Jessie Sage

    02:44: Season Finale and Guest Introduction: Olivia Snow

    05:01: Olivia Snow on Academia and Sex Work Research

    06:53: Surveillance and Sex Work: A Discussion

    10:22: Historical Context of Surveillance in Sex Work

    12:30: Olivia Snow's Academic Background

    20:18: Cannibalism and Capitalism in American Literature

    28:02: Class Dynamics and Sex Work

    50:18: Sex Work, Queer Identity, and Community Dynamics

    Guest:

    Dr. Olivia Snow is a writer, professor, and dominatrix based in New York City. She’s currently a Visiting Assistant Researcher at the University of California, Los Angeles’s Department of Gender Studies and Center for Critical Internet Inquiry (C2i2), where she studies sex work, labor rights, tech, and policy. She’s written for WIRED, The Daily Beast, Jezebel, The Chronicle of Higher Education, The Nation, Slate, and Motherboard/VICE, and she’s been quoted in stories on sex work and whorephobia for Business Insider, Buzzfeed, CNN, The Daily Dot, Fast Company, Forbes, Glamour, The Guardian, Inside Higher Ed, Mashable, MEL Magazine, The New York Post, Paper Magazine, Polygon, Prism, TechCrunch, The Washington Post, and more.

    You can find Olivia:

    Website: doctrixsnow.com

    X: @MistressSnowPhD

    Instagram: @mistresssnowphd

    Recommendations:

    Pretty Baby, by Chris Belcher

    Chappell Roan

    The Rest:

    Host: Jessie Sage

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    Sponsor: Assembly Four

    Powered by Black Venom Digital

    When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • S2 E21 AP: Living in a Van and Doing Psychedelics Changed My Life
    Nov 27 2024

    In this episode of *When We're Not Hustling After Party*, Jessie Sage, Emery Fields, and Emily Foster discuss the appeal of van life and the challenges of minimal living. Emery shares his dream of a U.S. road trip and a simplified lifestyle, while Jessie reflects on her own experiences with van living, including the difficulties of maintaining cleanliness in small spaces. They explore the emotional significance of housing security, the comforts of home ownership, and the dynamics of solo versus group travel. The conversation shifts to psychedelics, examining their potential for self-discovery, ego reduction, and heightened self-awareness. The hosts differentiate between using substances for escapism versus exploration and consider the societal and legal controls on psychedelics. The episode concludes with reflections on the value of personal rituals, self-reflection, and the role of intention in fostering growth.

    In This Episode:

    00:02: Welcome to the Afterparty

    00:16: Guest Introductions

    00:33: Living in a Van

    01:25: Road Trip Dreams

    02:35: Minimalist Living Challenges

    05:09: Housing Security and Personal Space

    07:02: Travel Companions and Solo Journeys

    14:25: The Joy of Unplanned Adventures

    17:08: Perspectives on Psychedelics and Self-Discovery

    38:04: Legal System and Body Autonomy

    45:34: Closing Thoughts and Farewell

    People:

    Guest: Sinn Sage

    Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, Emery Fields

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

    When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.

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    46 mins
  • S2 E21: Living in a Van and Doing Psychedelics Changed My Life with Sinn Sage
    Nov 25 2024

    In this episode of When We're Not Hustling, Jessie Sage welcomes Sinn Sage, a longtime content creator and AVN Hall of Famer. Sinn shares her unique journey in the sex industry, from her early days as a stripper to producing indie porn and collaborating with her husband. The conversation explores her adventurous lifestyle, including living in a van, and her experiences with psychedelic medicine as a tool for personal growth and consciousness expansion. The episode highlights Sinn's multifaceted life and challenges societal stigmas around sex work, encouraging open and honest discussions.

    In This Episode:

    00:01: Introduction and Mission of When We're Not Hustling

    01:23: Meet the Host: Jessie Sage

    02:45: Introducing Guest: Sinn Sage

    03:43: Sinn Sage's Journey in the Sex Industry

    07:53: Life on the Road: Van Living Adventures

    17:37: Exploring Psychedelic Medicine

    27:25: MDMA and its Transformative Power

    37:07: Scientific Research and Benefits of Psychedelics

    47:02: The Impact of Psychedelics on Consciousness

    57:32: Reflections on Sex Work and Societal Stigma

    Guest:

    Sinn Sage is a longtime content creator, making high-quality custom videos and authentic porn with her friends and partner. She's also in the AVN Hall of Fame and has won two other AVN awards. She is also the host of the Sage Advice Podcast.

    You can find Sinn:

    Website: sinn-sage.com

    X: @sinnsage

    Recommendations:

    How to Change Your Mind, by Michael Pollan

    You're Wrong About, by Sarah Marshall

    Savage Lovecast by Dan Savage

    Good Girls Talk About Sex, by Leah Carey

    The Rest:

    Host: Jessie Sage

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    Sponsor: Assembly Four

    Powered by Black Venom Digital

    When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • S2 E20 AP: I Throw Sex Parties, and There's No Boys Allowed
    Nov 20 2024

    In this When We're Not Hustling After Party episode, hosts Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, and Emery Fields discuss Josie Oakley's episode, highlighting her dedication to organizing safe, inclusive sex-positive events and her activism with SWOP Pittsburgh. They explore how Josie’s work extends beyond event planning, advocating for reduced penalties for prostitution to make sex work safer and more accessible. The hosts examine the social dynamics and thoughtful guest curation that go into Josie's events, balancing newcomers with regulars, while discussing the importance of consent, self-awareness, and accountability. Reflecting on Josie’s honesty about her personal growth around past consent issues, they emphasize the need for open communication and self-reflection in fostering respectful relationships.

    In This Episode:

    00:05: Introduction to the Episode

    00:24: Meet the Hosts and Guest

    00:59: Hosting Sex Parties with Josie Oakley

    01:35: Similarities to Bartending and Event Hosting

    03:15: Social Dynamics of Sex Parties

    05:18: Gender Dynamics and Initiating Interaction

    08:53: Importance of Emotional Safety

    11:14: Trust and Curating Guest Lists

    15:28: Navigating Consent and Boundaries

    26:26: Validating Feelings and Effective Communication

    People:

    Guest: Josie Oakley

    Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, Emery Fields

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

    When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.

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    34 mins