• When We're Not Hustling: Sex Workers Talking About Everything But

  • By: Jessie Sage
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When We're Not Hustling: Sex Workers Talking About Everything But

By: Jessie Sage
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  • When We’re Not Hustling is a twice monthly podcast that explores the lives and identities of sex workers outside our personas. Each episode features a long-form interview with a sex worker, where we talk about everything but work: personal philosophies, ambitions, family, relationships, passions, hobbies, mental and physical health, identity, spirituality, meaning-making, and more. On this show, we learn who sex workers are outside of the work they are known for. When We’re Not Hustling is an exploration of the people behind the fantasies.
    2024
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Episodes
  • S3 E1: After The Hustle - Jack Parker

    S3 E1: After The Hustle - Jack Parker
    Jan 10 2025

    Welcome to After The Hustle! Formerly known as the After Party, this rebranded podcast kicks off with guest host Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, a burlesque performer, sex worker, and educator from Seattle, joining hosts Jessie Sage and Emily Foster. Together, they explore topics like FatCon, a conference celebrating fat liberation and community, and Jack Parker’s anthology on the trans-masculine sex work experience. Tune in for conversations that celebrate diversity, foster understanding, and shine a light on the intersections of sex work, polyamory, and marginalized identities.

    In This Episode:

    00:01:11: Introducing Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, Burlesque Performer
    00:02:37: Overview of FatCon: A Fat Liberation Conference
    00:04:40: Discussing Jack Parker and His Book
    00:06:22: The Interest in Trans-Masculine Sex Work
    00:12:13: Attraction to Masculinity Without Male Socialization
    00:14:38: The Market for Trans-Masculine Sex Work
    00:16:43: The Arguanauts and Trans-Masculine Partners
    00:21:26: Relationship Changes Through Transition and Hormones
    00:28:56: Appreciating Jack Parker's Anthology Work

    People:

    Guest: Jack Parker

    Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster,

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

    When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.
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    30 mins
  • S3 E1: Men at Work: The Trans Masc Experience in Sex Work with Jack Parker

    S3 E1: Men at Work: The Trans Masc Experience in Sex Work with Jack Parker
    Jan 6 2025

    In this conversation, Jessie Sage interviews Jack Parker, a writer and sex worker, about his experiences and the creation of the anthology Working Guys: A Transmasculine Sex Worker Anthology, which features stories from transmasculine sex workers. They discuss the diverse experiences within sex work, the importance of representation, and the impact of the anthology on the community.

    In this Episode:

    00:03: Introduction to When We're Not Hustling Podcast

    01:27: Exploring Lives of Sex Workers Beyond Work

    02:44: Season 3 Updates & Schedule Changes

    03:09: Rebranding of After Parties to After the Hustle

    03:20: Jack Parker's Interview & Anthology Discussion

    05:10: Jack Parker's Background & Writing Career

    06:18: Discussing Writing & Sex Work Experiences

    08:05: Jack's Anthology: Working Guys and Its Impact

    14:11: Challenges and Realizations in Publishing the Anthology

    28:39: Jack's Transition and Changes in Client Dynamics

    Guest:

    Jack Parker is a sex worker and writer who writes on topics around sex work. He also has experiences as a peer support for sex workers, and has provided training programs on how best to support sex workers.

    You can find Jack:

    Website: jackviolet.com

    X: @MxJackParker

    Bluesky: @MxJackParker.bsky.social

    Recommendation:

    Book:

    Chav Solidarity by DP Hunter

    Podcast:

    Sherlock & Co Podcast

    The Rest:

    Host: Jessie Sage

    Producer: Emily Foster

    Music: Benjamin J Benamati

    Sponsor: Assembly Four

    Powered by Black Venom Digital

    When We’re Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund.

    You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • S2 E23: The Life of the Mind, Season 2 Roundtable

    S2 E23: The Life of the Mind, Season 2 Roundtable
    Dec 9 2024
    In this special roundtable episode wrapping up Season 2 of When We're Not Hustling, host Jessie Sage, producer Emily Foster, and guests Aviva Ruse, Amber Délice, and Madeleine Blair dive into the complexities of the mind. They discuss the connection between the brain, emotions, and personal experiences, exploring how the mind processes thoughts and feelings while balancing mental and physical experiences. The conversation touches on the challenges and pleasures of living in one's mind and the importance of grounding oneself in reality. They also examine emotional states like jealousy and envy, particularly in relation to those with seemingly simpler lives, and highlight the significance of rest, play, and creativity for maintaining mental health. Throughout the discussion, they share personal strategies for reconnecting with their minds, embracing their strengths, and offering practical advice for navigating life with a mindful approach. In This Episode: 00:00: Exploring the Nature of the Mind 02:53: The Mind as a Processor: Perspectives & Experiences 05:57: Navigating the Mind: Personal Experiences & Challenges 09:06: The Mind as a Pleasant or Unpleasant Space 12:08: The Balance of Mind, Body, and Emotion 15:02: Fostering a Life of the Mind 18:01: The Role of Habits in Shaping the Mind 20:49: The Importance of Grounding in the Life of the Mind 37:40: Navigating Emotional States & Self-Acceptance 39:02: The Burden of Intellect: Jealousy & Envy 43:59: Finding Balance: Rest, Play, and Creativity 47:51: Bridging the Gap: Reconnecting with the Mind 56:08: Embracing Individuality: Strengths & Coping Mechanisms 01:00:51: Advice & Reflections: Wisdom from Experience Guests: Aviva Ruse is a New England-born companion living in West Hollywood. Her bylines as Aviva include Tryst, The Fix, and Rogue Collective. She is currently shopping a collection of essays (and endlessly shopping for lingerie!). She blogs at dateavivaruse.com/blog. You can find Aviva: Aviva's Episode: A Funny Thing Happened at the Plastic Surgeon's Website: DateAvivaRuse.com X: x.com/avivaruse OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/rr639 Amber Délice is an independent provider and companion based in Boulder, Colorado (just a quick hop away from Denver). She is blessed to travel often and has clients who not only fly her to them but also come to visit for adventures in Colorado. She loves sensuality, writing, dance, immersive theater, travel, and poetry. She is also an ex-food and wine journalist. You can find Amber: Amber's Episode: Conversational Pilgrimages That Shape Our Lives Website: meetamberdelice.com X: @meetamberdelice Instagram: @meetamberdelice Madeleine Blair is a sex worker, writer, freelance editor, writing coach, and the founder and host of Sex Worker Writes, a hookers-only virtual literary salon. You can find Madeleine: Madeleine's episode:Poetry and Personas that Heal Website: madeleineblair.com X: @sensememories The Rest: Host: Jessie Sage Producer: Emily Foster Music: Benjamin J Benamati Sponsor: Assembly Four Powered by Black Venom Digital When We're Not Hustling is a 501(c)(3) non-profit project of the Social Good Fund. You can support our show with your tax-deductive donation HERE.
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    1 hr and 23 mins

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