Episodes

  • Your Permission to be Selfish

    Your Permission to be Selfish
    Apr 8 2022
    Is it okay to be selfish? Is it okay not to be? If someone were to tell you that they would give you $5 million and all you had to do is use it on yourself and no one else, would you do it? How do you expect to grow when you are sharing all that you have with others? Is okay to be selfish in a relationship? We, as a society, need to move away from the mindset that selfishness is an innate wrong. Join me as I go on this journey of discussing the need for selfishness.

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    6 mins
  • Are You Codependent?

    Are You Codependent?
    Apr 1 2022
    What exactly is codependency? For the sake of this episode, we are going to define codependency as being any relationship where one party is willing to give their all to their partner without any reciprocation. Those who are codependent often require or seek, the validation of others to feel fulfilled. Codependency is not conducive to having a healthy relationship.

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    6 mins
  • I Am A Proud Side Piece

    I Am A Proud Side Piece
    Mar 25 2022
    Why is it that some men and women are comfortable with being the side piece nowadays? Some are willing to walk with honor of knowing they are involved with someone that is taken. For some reason, there is this voice screaming out “because the person they are with allows them to”. In a way, the side piece has been granted the right to feel comfortable. Some side persons are comfortable with being a side person because they do not want commitment. Some are using the intimate partner in order to have them fulfill a specific need. If you are thinking, "But they’re with another person’s partner!", we suggest that you join us as we unpack this issue.

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    10 mins
  • I Need A FWB

    I Need A FWB
    Mar 18 2022
    I believe that friends with benefits is definitely possible. I also believe there is not a healthy expectation towards establishing a friends with benefits (fwb) type of relationship. There is the notion that these relationships are bound to fail, they are manipulative, or the persons involved are just fearful of commitment. But these things exist in all forms of relationships. In my opinion, a fwb relationship must begin with a healthy mindset from the beginning with clear boundaries and expectations. Now, what does this all mean? Find out in this episode. Subscribe to the podcast and follow the Silent Letter's blog.

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    5 mins
  • Knowing My Wants and Needs

    Knowing My Wants and Needs
    Mar 11 2022
    The question I have for you is “Are you willing to be honest with yourself, and are you comfortable with doing introspection?” First, you have to understand that sometimes your wants do not always match what you need in a partner or partners. Sometimes, what you need turns out to be something you no longer want. Sometimes we find partners who fit either category. This episode describes the intricacies behind figuring out what a person wants in a partner and what is it that they need. Prepare yourself for an internal dive. Subscribe to the podcast and follow the Silent Letter's blog.

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    10 mins
  • Why Be Celibate?

    Why Be Celibate?
    Mar 4 2022
    Why do you recommend celibacy? Celibacy has been defined as the act of making a vow to abstain from sexual activity. This question was in reference to a suggestion made within the Essential Guide on How to be a Hoe. This episode goes deeper into why celibacy is recommended and compares celibacy to taking a vacation. If you are a person who is contemplating taking that step in your life, we suggest giving this episode a listen. Subscribe to the podcast and follow the Silent Letter's blog.

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    6 mins
  • Welcome Message

    Welcome Message
    Feb 8 2022
    The Silent Letters Podcast is an extension of Slaytor’s Playhouse’s advice column. Like the blog, the podcast focuses primarily on responding to letters related to love, sex, romance, and relationships. However, the podcast airs some of our coaching sessions. Though everything we say during our podcast may not be what each and every person wants to hear, just know the advice is situational and catered to a specific person. With coaching, we do not tell others what they need to do, however we provide them with suggestions of what they can do. Our coaching sessions are not a replacement for therapy. We focus on the future and look to the past for guidance only.  If you desire to have a coaching session with us please schedule your appointment on our website. If not, feel free to submit your letter to our advice column. And welcome to Silent Letters!

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    1 min