In this intimate episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her experience facilitating a sensual, kinky massage for a couple exploring new depths of their relationship. From setting boundaries to introducing light bondage and sensual techniques, Jess emphasizes the importance of communication and consent in creating a safe and pleasurable environment. The episode dives into themes of surrender, trust, and the transformative power of touch, showing how intentional intimacy can ignite connection and passion between partners.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the tone, emphasizing the mature and educational nature of the discussion.

[00:02:00] - The Couple’s Story: Jess shares how she met the couple and their goals for the massage session.

[00:08:00] - Creating the Playground: A detailed discussion on setting boundaries, establishing consent, and crafting a safe space for exploration.

[00:15:00] - Surrendering Control: The wife’s journey from being a Type A personality to embracing surrender and letting go.

[00:25:00] - Sensual Techniques: Jess describes using light flogging, massage oils, and toys to enhance sensation and arousal.

[00:40:00] - The Husband’s Perspective: How observing his wife’s pleasure and participating in the session deepened their connection.

[00:50:00] - Reflections on Intimacy: Jess reflects on the beauty of being trusted to guide such intimate experiences.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: Explore workshops, after-hours content, and community discussions.

• Midori’s The Art of Play: Techniques for creating intentional, consensual intimate experiences.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational tool for exploring desires and boundaries.

• FetLife: Mentioned as a resource for finding local kink communities and safe spaces to explore.

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In this thought-provoking episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the dynamic world of takers and submissives, exploring the nuances of power exchange and the Wheel of Consent. They unpack the differences between taking and allowing, giving and receiving, and how these roles play out in both intimate and non-intimate settings. Lisa shares her journey of transitioning from an "allower" to a receiver, while Jess reflects on the transformative experiences that come with true service submission. The episode provides actionable insights for listeners curious about embracing their desires and fostering deeper connections through clear communication and consent.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for a conversation about power dynamics, consent, and the joy of exploring desires.

[00:05:00] - Lisa’s Reflections on the Wheel of Consent: Exploring her shift from allowing to confidently asking for what she wants.

[00:18:00] - The Submissive’s Perspective: Jess discusses the beauty of pure service submission and the devotion it can bring.

[00:33:00] - The Caging Ceremony: Lisa shares her experience planning a caging ritual with a new submissive, highlighting communication and trust.

[00:40:00] - Power in Vulnerability: The trio reflects on how consent and clear dynamics foster intimacy and empowerment.

[00:50:00] - Final Thoughts: Encouraging listeners to embrace curiosity and step into their authentic desires.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: For workshops, community access, and exclusive after-hours content.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational resource for understanding roles in consent and pleasure.

• Midori’s Workshops: Renowned for exploring feminine dominance and personal empowerment.

• Books:
- More Than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert: A guide for navigating ethical non-monogamy.
- The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: A cornerstone text for relationship exploration.

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Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) take a close look at kink, breaking down misconceptions and presenting it as an inviting and creative avenue for intimacy. From the gentle allure of feather-light touches to the intricate beauty of shibari, they highlight how kink allows for personal exploration of sensation, curiosity, and connection. Jess recounts memorable moments from her time as a dominatrix, while Lisa shares her first experience with needle play and the freeing concept of "not yucking someone else’s yum." This episode encourages listeners to embrace kink as a joyful, empowering space for self-expression and connection.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the tone for a curious and playful conversation about kink.

[00:02:00] - What is Kink?: Jess defines kink as anything outside conventional sexual norms that brings arousal and excitement.

[00:05:00] - Blindfolding Basics: Jess explains how removing sight heightens other senses, amplifying pleasure and connection.

[00:18:00] - Lisa’s Shibari Journey: From the sensuality of soft ropes to the gentle sting of nylon ties, Lisa shares her experiences with shibari.

[00:25:00] - Not Yucking Someone’s Yum: The group emphasizes the importance of accepting others’ preferences, even when they differ from your own.

[00:33:00] - Pervertibles & Creative Play: Everyday items like spatulas and seatbelts take on new life in kink.

[00:40:00] - The Joy of Exploration: Wrapping up with encouragement to explore kink safely and joyfully.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: Your go-to for after-hours content, workshops, and links to tools like J-Lube and Warburton Wheels.

• Midori’s Workshops: A space to learn about shibari, flogging, and other practices.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A guide to exploring desires and boundaries.

• J-Lube: A highly slippery lubricant often used in veterinary settings, praised for kink play.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares a personal story about an empowering experience in her journey as a dominatrix, where she explored her boundaries while being the receiver in a kink environment. She describes a scene where, surrounded by respectful male submissives, she could set clear boundaries and experience a profound level of care and attention, challenging traditional notions of power dynamics. The hosts discuss the importance of consent, open communication, and self-discovery within BDSM. They emphasize how kink can be a space for personal growth and healing, providing an opportunity to break stereotypes and explore one’s authentic desires in a safe environment.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces the episode and reflects on her dominatrix journey.

[00:03:00] - Setting Boundaries in BDSM: Jess discusses the importance of consent and establishing boundaries before play.

[00:14:00] - Jess’s Public Orgasm Story: A vulnerable yet empowering moment of receiving pleasure in a safe, consensual environment.

[00:18:00] - Service Submission Explained: The trio explores the dynamics of submissives fulfilling a dominant’s desires, from emotional to physical acts of service.

[00:25:00] - Lisa’s Submissive Play Reflections: Lisa shares her journey of discovering joy in service and non-sexual acts of submission.

[00:33:00] - Redefining Kink & Empowerment: How kink communities foster personal growth, communication, and respect.

[00:45:00] - Jess’s Takeaway: BDSM as a tool for empowerment, healing, and creating better human connections.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: For community access, exclusive content, and workshops.

• Wheel of Consent: Framework for understanding mutual agreements and personal boundaries in kink.

• Midori’s ForteFemme Workshops: Recommended for women exploring dominance and self-empowerment in BDSM.

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In this humorous and candid episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss the often-overlooked, real-life moments of intimacy, including the occasional fart during oral sex. The hosts share personal experiences and insecurities, exploring how bodily functions and unexpected situations can create embarrassment yet also bring intimacy and laughter. They discuss techniques for staying present, relaxing during intimate moments, and embracing imperfections to enhance connection. This episode encourages listeners to approach intimate encounters with humor, acceptance, and openness, emphasizing that these “real moments” can lead to deeper bonding.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome and Introduction: Jess opens the conversation with humor and honesty about intimacy's unfiltered realities.

[00:03:00] - Anxiety During Oral Play: The internal monologues about taste, smell, and being “good enough.”

[00:07:00] - Lisa’s First Squirting Experience: Navigating the joys and surprises of discovering new physical abilities.

[00:15:00] - Transparency in Intimacy: The liberating power of owning and discussing bodily functions with partners.

[00:25:00] - Farting Milestones: Jess shares a funny yet relatable story of accidental farts during passionate moments.

[00:40:00] - Body Positivity in Play: Embracing imperfections and focusing on connection instead of perceived flaws.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: For additional resources, workshops, and community discussions.

• Wheel of Consent: A framework for understanding boundaries and mutual consent.

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In this introductory episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) each share their personal journeys, explaining how they came into their respective roles within the podcast. Jess discusses her transformation from corporate life to becoming a dominatrix, finding empowerment through sensuality, and embracing play as a form of self-expression. Lisa recounts her experiences with polyamory, transitioning from a traditional marriage into a polyamorous lifestyle that enhanced her connection with her husband. Ella shares her more conventional background, joining the podcast to explore and understand new aspects of intimacy. Together, they introduce the show as a safe, supportive space for listeners curious about intimacy, empowerment, and self-discovery.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome and Introduction: Jess sets the stage for their journey into intimacy and exploration.

[00:03:00] - Jess’s Story: From corporate burnout to finding empowerment as a dominatrix and sensual bodyworker.

[00:08:00] - Lisa’s Journey to Polyamory: How her 34-year marriage evolved into a happy, open relationship.

[00:14:00] - Ella’s Naivety to Curiosity: A single mom stepping into new possibilities and playful explorations.

[00:20:00] - Why This Podcast: How candid, raw conversations with friends inspired them to create a safe space for listeners.

[00:25:00] - Introducing Future Guests: Sneak peeks of upcoming episodes featuring diverse perspectives.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website: For resources, community access, and exclusive content.

• More Than Two: A book on ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.

• Wheel of Consent: A framework for setting boundaries and understanding mutual consent.

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Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss navigating New Relationship Energy (NRE) and its impact on personal boundaries, autonomy, and relationship dynamics. They explore how NRE can lead to moments of self-abandonment, where individuals lose touch with their routines and identities as they dive into a new connection. Each host shares their experiences with balancing personal space, setting boundaries, and understanding what they want from relationships. Through candid discussions, they emphasize the importance of self-reflection and open communication in maintaining healthy, respectful relationships, especially within ethical non-monogamy.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for a vibrant discussion on NRE and ENM.

[00:08:00] - Lisa’s Weekend of Fireworks: Lisa reflects on the sparks and compatibility with her new lover, contrasting it with deeper connections in her polyamorous life.

[00:25:00] - Shibari and Surrender: Jess and Lisa explore the spiritual and sensual aspects of rope play, including Lisa’s recent class and its transformative impact.

[00:45:00] - The Cost of Abandonment: Jess shares her pattern of losing herself in relationships and the journey back to her own power and magic.

[01:10:00] - Navigating Jealousy and Possessiveness: Ella talks about setting boundaries and staying grounded while dating a partner with possessive tendencies.

[01:30:00] - Balancing Multiple Relationships: The trio discusses the challenges of time management, communication, and honoring each connection.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• More Than Two: A book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.

• Wheel of Consent: Framework for setting boundaries and understanding mutual agreements.

• The Playful Podcast Website: For access to community resources, workshops, and additional content.

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In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) provide updates on their relationships, sharing insights into how polyamory, boundaries, and personal growth have shaped their current dynamics. Lisa discusses the shift toward dating single men to avoid relationship restrictions, while Jess reflects on building trust and patience in her partnership with Josh. Ella shares her evolving comfort with asking for what she wants in intimate settings, and the hosts collectively explore the importance of clear boundaries, personal autonomy, and open communication in creating fulfilling, authentic connections.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] - Welcome and Disclaimer: Jess sets the stage for a reflective and intimate episode.

[00:02:00] - Lisa’s Updates: Insights on managing polyamorous rules, dating single partners, and redefining relationship dynamics.

[00:18:00] - Jess’s Journey with Josh: Celebrating the joys of a steady relationship and exploring fantasies together.

[00:33:00] - Ella’s Reflections: Growth in communicating desires and embracing the playful side of intimacy.

[00:40:00] - Tips on Navigating Fantasies: The hosts share practical advice on discussing and exploring fantasies with curiosity and consent.

[00:50:00] - The Power of Consistency: Jess and Lisa discuss how consistent connection deepens intimacy and trust.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• More Than Two: A book on ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.

• Wheel of Consent: Framework for understanding boundaries and mutual agreements.

• The Playful Podcast Website: For access to resources, workshops, and exclusive content.

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