• The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability.

  • By: Erin Croyle
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The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability.

By: Erin Croyle
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  • The Odyssey podcast explores the unique journey we're sent on when a loved one has a disability. We dig deep into the joys and hardships. We celebrate how amazing the odyssey of parenting, caregiving, and disability are. But we don't shy away from the tough stuff either. Each episode will explore topics that hit a little different because of our life experience. Our guests' perspective will sometimes bring comfort and other times challenge the way we see the world. centerforfamilyinvolvementblog.org
    2023
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  • Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 2

    Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 2
    Oct 1 2024
    Meaningful inclusion is possible, if we’re being honest though, it’s so rare that most folks don’t even know what it looks like. In part two of this episode on inclusion in public schools (be sure to check out part one!), Erin Croyle has educator and advocate Trina Allen break down what co-teaching is, how it works, and what can be done to make truly inclusive education a reality. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: Talia A. Lewis' Working Definiciton of Ableism. How much are students with disabilities actually included? This breakdown demonstrates there is much work to be done. National Center for Education Statistics releases various annual reports and as well as topical studies. More on the Ithaca City School District. Inclusion benefits EVERYone. Learn more about the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). TRANSCRIPT: 01:00:07:11 - 01:00:39:01 Erin Croyle Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host. The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when a loved one has a disability. I joined the caregiver club 14 years ago when my first child was born with Down syndrome. My journey weaved its way here, working for the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's Partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:39:03 - 01:01:09:07 Erin Croyle This podcast highlights the joys and hardships we face. Celebrating how amazing the odyssey of parenting, caregiving and disability can be. While examining the spiderweb of complex issues, we're tangled in, The fight for meaningful inclusion in our schools is a struggle for so many of us. In our last episode, I spoke with special education teacher advocate, activist and parent Trina Allen. 01:01:09:09 - 01:01:31:21 Erin Croyle We left off talking about how gut wrenching advocating for an inclusive education can be, especially as our kids get older. And we're picking up right there with Trina telling us not only that it can be done, but how we can do it. 01:01:31:23 - 01:01:47:19 Erin Croyle I know of a number of parents who have children who stop working and are like full on tutors for their kids to keep them on that diploma track. The thing is, like a kid with Down syndrome is one kid with Down syndrome. 01:01:47:22 - 01:01:50:04 Trina Allen Thank you! 01:01:50:06 - 01:02:17:19 Erin Croyle Yes, Autism is one kid with autism. CP And so when you have a student who is at a grade level in grade school trying to do seventh grade math, I don't know as a parent where the line is. I think that our schools, once we get to a certain level, it's not parents failing, but it's their schools not offering enough options for kids with more significant needs. 01:02:17:19 - 01:02:34:24 Erin Croyle Instead, they just shove them into a cookie cutter classroom. I don't know. I guess I don't even know what my question is. All I know is that. Trina Allen Fix it! Erin Croyle They reach a certain age and there's no choice anymore, right? No other option anymore. Trina Allen So while we're on the fight for inclusion, it cannot be on the back of our individual child and listening to what he needs in the moment is the biggest fight of ableism. Listening to him is the biggest fight of Abel's that you will ever do with him. The issue of what needs to happen is that that math class needs to not be based on an outcome of these particular things. 01:03:03:03 - 01:03:27:24 Trina Allen That math class needs to be structured on. These are the standards, and every single kid in it is at a different place and it needs to be supported in that way. And so do I think it can be done? my God. Math is like the easiest. You know, it becomes more complicated in like history and English, but it doesn't have to be if the design is universal. 01:03:28:01 - 01:03:47:17 Trina Allen Now, that's a lot of curriculum, though. That's a lot of things that need to be made and change, and that curriculum needs to be not adapted for your son. That curriculum needs to be created with him and created with the kid at a different level and created with a kid at the different level and created with the kid in a different level. 01:03:47:19 - 01:04:27:00 Trina Allen And it needs to be individualized. And that is doable with time and space. And what I do like about the current district that, you know, that we both are dealing with is that's the goal. And when the systems have not created all of those levels of curriculum and are displayed by the slide show and are displayed in all those quiet ways that are as equal and that are that his production is as integrated and valued ...
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 1

    Are Inclusive Schools Even Possible? Part 1
    Aug 27 2024
    Imagine being treated as a guest in your own school. For many students, not only is that their reality - it's by design. In part 1 of this 2 part episode, Erin Croyle and special education teacher Trina Allen break down what needs to be done to create meaningful inclusion in academics, throughout our school communities, and beyond. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: Talia A. Lewis' Working Definiciton of Ableism. How much are students with disabilities actually included? This breakdown demonstrates there is much work to be done. What is the Affordable Care Act? National Center for Education Statistics releases various annual reports and as well as topical studies. More on the Ithaca City School District. Inclusion benefits EVERYone. Learn more about the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). TRANSCRIPT: Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host. The Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when a loved one has a disability. I started down this path more than a decade ago when my first child was born with Down's Syndrome. My journey weaved its way here, working with the Center for Family Involvement at VCU's partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:39:04 - 01:01:08:18 Erin Croyle This podcast does a deep dive into the joys and hardships we face. We celebrate how amazing the odyssey of parenting, caregiving and disability can be. But we tackle the tough stuff too. Inclusion could be one of the most complex. As guest Trina Allen points out, students with disabilities are often treated as guests in their own schools. Trina should know. 01:01:08:20 - 01:01:28:22 Erin Croyle She's a special education teacher who moved all the way across the country with her family to work at one of the few school districts she could find that is striving toward meaningful inclusion. Trina, thank you so much for joining me. 01:01:28:24 - 01:01:38:13 Erin Croyle Champions for inclusion are real life superheroes, and superheroes typically have some great origin stories. So let's start with yours. How did you get to this place? 01:01:38:16 - 01:01:59:07 Trina Allen Well, first off, it's an honor to be here. So thank you. And I've always worked with kids. I worked in group homes and transitional living programs, and I did hotline services and things like that. And it was it was what I intended to do. I tended to be a therapist and I went to school and got my bachelor's in psychology and was going to move on. 01:01:59:07 - 01:02:22:07 Trina Allen And then the art therapy, I wanted to be an art therapist and the art therapy program I was assisting in was shut down. And it was for a group of students that had really intensive trauma and really needed that. Therapy is a heartbreaking thing, but they offered me at the school to work and the program for autistic students. 01:02:22:09 - 01:02:48:19 Trina Allen And so I, I said, Yeah, sure. And within a month they offered me a teaching position and I was in no way prepared or qualified any fashion for that. And I jumped in right away and eventually got my master's in special education. And, and it was at the most secluded, the most restricted, most segregated placement for students who had been forcibly exited from the general public education. 01:02:48:19 - 01:03:20:16 Trina Allen And I didn't know that I didn't know anything at the time. I didn't know anything about histories of disability and resistance and pressure for inclusion. And so I left there when I realized I couldn't. I was there for years. It was very painful to see students who could not get what they need and who needed so much. Their support needs were being routinely denied and I did my very best in making this space as loving as it possibly could within the context of extreme deprivation. 01:03:20:18 - 01:03:38:24 Trina Allen It was terrible. And so I went to the district thinking that it would be better and I loved it, and it was still segregated and I did a lot of things to force that to change. As I understood more and more what my students needed and also listened to people listen to it. Disabled adults who were like, This is what needs to happen. 01:03:39:03 - 01:04:16:08 Trina Allen And the best that I could do was harm reduction. I had a reverse inclusion program and I thought that by proving it could work and it did, that it would make the systemic inclusion of my students easier. Like, Look, the kids are already in, I already did it. We got it. Let me let's now make it institutionalized as opposed to like just this thing that we tagged ragtag...
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • The Only Detox Worth Doing

    The Only Detox Worth Doing
    Aug 1 2024
    Looking to feel better? Want to help your children feel better? It might be time for a detox. And the one we’re talking about actually works. The Odyssey: Parenting. Caregiving. Disability. The Center for Family Involvement at VCU School of Education's Partnership for People with Disabilities provides informational and emotional support to people with disabilities and their families. All of our services are free. We just want to help. We know how hard this can be because we're in it with you. SHOW NOTES: Details on the United States Surgeon General’s Advisory About Effects of Social Media on Youth Mental Health. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy’s Op Ed Essay on why he’s calling for a warning label for social media. Here is a full review of the book The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt. Looking for ways to protect your family when they are online? Check out Erin’s article on how to make that happen: Time for Some Screen Cleaning. Want to share your own experiences attempting a digital detox? Send Erin an email! TRANSCRIPT: Welcome to The Odyssey. Parenting, Caregiving, Disability. I'm Erin Croyle, the creator and host of the Odyssey podcast explores how our lives change when someone we love has a disability. I was lucky enough to head down this less traveled road when my first child was born with Down's Syndrome in 2010. Now I work for the Center for Family Involvement and Lisa's Partnership for People with Disabilities. 01:00:34:17 - 01:01:06:12 Erin Croyle This podcast explores the triumphs and hardships we face. We celebrate the joys that the odyssey of parenting, caregiving and disability bring. But there's no sugarcoating of the tough stuff for so many of us. Everything feels harder than it should lately. Most everyone I know is just sort of getting by. That whole living your best life vibe that we had going around several years ago is mocked in a lot of circles. 01:01:06:14 - 01:01:22:15 Erin Croyle So what's going on and what can we do to change it? Dare I say, a detox is in order and the one I'm recommending is something virtually everyone needs. 01:01:22:17 - 01:01:46:01 Erin Croyle Is anyone okay right now? I'm living in this fog that's just clinging to every part of my being. My brain, my body, my soul. It lightens now and then and even lifts for a bit once in a while. But most of the time, it's so dense. I feel it pulling me down. When I talk to people close to me, most of them are in this metaphorical fog too. 01:01:46:03 - 01:02:10:05 Erin Croyle I'm sure that some of what my age said is feeling is partly part of middle age, but I see it in my children and other kids their ages. I see it in. I see it across the board. This is an unprecedented mental health crisis that we're in. Our whole country is living under a heaviness like never before. So how do we feel? 01:02:10:05 - 01:02:39:01 Erin Croyle Better. Look, I'm a journalist, not a doctor. Over the years, I've read, listened to, watched and or tried practically every bit of healthy living advice out there clean eating, running, tracking macros, fitness watches, apps, sleep hygiene, skipping breakfast, and sometimes lunch, also known as intermittent fasting. And even though I know that they're ridiculous, I love the idea of a detox. 01:02:39:03 - 01:03:12:01 Erin Croyle The problem is none of them work. Even if I feel better for a little bit once, whatever I've cut out comes back into my life. All that work is for naught except for one. As my daughter would say. Drum roll, please. The Digital Detox. My first true digital detox happened by accident nearly a decade ago. We were on a family vacation in Michigan's Upper Peninsula and we had absolutely no service. 01:03:12:03 - 01:03:41:09 Erin Croyle So imagine a week without a ping, a ring or a vibration interrupting a darn thing. There were no new notifications on social media. I didn't have the ability to post anything and therefore there was no need to see if there were any reactions. I didn't have any breaking news, no texts. It was amazing. That week was transforming. We live in an era of information overload that is beyond comprehension. 01:03:41:11 - 01:04:15:03 Erin Croyle The only way to realize this is to pull yourself out of it. Pretty much everything you pull up on your phone is designed to get you to use your phone or that app or that website even more. This podcast, same thing. Every entity has their own reasons to get you to go down the rabbit hole. Now, for the work I do, it's so that people with disabilities and their families, whether it's ADHD or cerebral palsy or mental health or Down's syndrome or whatever, it's to have meaningful content with relatable stories that we can all listen to. 01:04:15:05 - 01:04:44:08 Erin Croyle It's to connect people through digital media or in person, because this experience can be so isolating. It's providing information and resources for people with disabilities and...
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    36 mins

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