In today’s episode, we’re exploring a fascinating concept that impacts everything from group projects to team sports to your workplace: social loafing and public recognition.

Now, I know many of you have been there. You’re part of a group, and while some of your teammates are giving it their all, others are, well… not. Maybe they’re contributing less than expected, or perhaps they’re outright slacking off. You might have even found yourself in that position. But why does this happen? Why is it that when we’re part of a group, we sometimes put in less effort than when we’re working solo?

Today, we’ll uncover the psychological science behind social loafing, explore real-world examples, and talk about the factors that can either amplify or reduce this phenomenon. By the end of the episode, you’ll have a deeper understanding of why social loafing occurs and what you can do to prevent it. We will also delve into the drawbacks of public recognition, particularly how it can sometimes backfire, and what we can do as leaders, managers, and teammates, to encourage collaboration without enabling slacking off.

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Hello & Welcome to The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast. Each week Dr. Allison Sucamele will be taking the science of positive psychology, adding a little humor, and through evidence-based research, providing you with tools and strategies to help you live a life of peace and purpose.

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In this episode, I will explore the psychology of an emotionally mature partner—what it means, why it matters, and how emotional maturity impacts relationships.

Whether you’re currently in a relationship, thinking about what you want in one, or reflecting on past ones, understanding emotional maturity is a crucial piece of the puzzle. Emotional maturity isn't something you're born with—it’s developed over time, shaped by life experiences, self-reflection, and the ability to navigate the complexities of human emotions in a healthy way.

So, what does it mean to be an emotionally mature partner? And how can we cultivate more emotional maturity in our relationships?

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Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS
Box Breathing

Other Important Resources:
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Hello & Welcome to The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast. Each week Dr. Allison Sucamele will be taking the science of positive psychology, adding a little humor, and through evidence-based research, providing you with tools and strategies to help you live a life of peace and purpose.

At first glance, altruism, acting out of concern for the well-being of others, sounds like a virtuous, selfless pursuit. But what happens when that desire to help goes too far? What happens when it becomes unhealthy, harmful, or even counterproductive? We’ve all heard about people who “burn out” from too much giving or who become entangled in toxic relationships that look like charity but are deeply exploitative.

Today, we’ll unpack toxic altruism, how it manifests in various aspects of life, and what we can do to strike a healthier balance between helping others and taking care of ourselves.

Please note the content provided on this podcast and website, The Lemon Tree Coaching, is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician, therapist, or another qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health condition or treatment.

Also, the views and opinions expressed by podcast guests or contributors are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the podcast host or the website. While we strive to provide accurate, evidence-based information, mental health is complex and varies from person to person. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, please reach out to a mental health professional or contact your local emergency services.

By using this website or listening to the podcast, you agree to take full responsibility for your own mental health and well-being.

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The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
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Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS
Box Breathing

Other Important Resources:
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Hello & Welcome to The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast. Each week Dr. Allison Sucamele will be taking the science of positive psychology, adding a little humor, and through evidence-based research, providing you with tools and strategies to help you live a life of peace and purpose.