In this episode of The Identity Work Podcast, we dive into that persistent tug-of-war between seeking ambitious goals and feeling truly content where we are right now. We explore why it can feel like two opposing voices—one telling us to push harder, achieve more, and leave nothing on the table, and the other whispering that we’re already enough as is.

Expect honest reflections on navigating these dual urges, sprinkled with humor (like the time we lamented not being listed among the “sexiest podcasters,” but decided to find solace in our push-up prowess). We share personal stories, discuss the concept of seasons in life, and highlight how intentional reflection can help you see meaning in whatever stage you’re in.

You’ll hear strategies for embracing both your inner achiever and your restful spirit. Most importantly, you’ll learn that contentment and ambition need not be enemies.

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In this episode of The Identity Work Podcast, we dive into the habit of debating hypothetical future decisions and whether it's a waste of time or a helpful exercise. Adam shares his experience of spending countless hours pondering which business school to attend—Harvard or Stanford—even though he never applied to either. We discuss how high achievers often escape into future fantasies to cope with present stress, and how this can be both a source of joy and a hindrance.

We explore the fine line between hopeful dreaming and unproductive rumination, touching on how focusing on specific actions we can control brings us back to the present. Stephen relates this to his own experiences in dating, highlighting how overthinking future possibilities can overshadow enjoying the moment.

Join us as we balance embracing future aspirations and staying grounded in today. Where can you let go of 'what ifs' to find more meaning in your work right now?

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In this episode of The Identity Work Podcast, we explore my friend Max's transformative journey. Max shares how a severe back injury in college left him unable to sit for five years, forcing him to rethink his beliefs and approach to life and work. We explore how this experience shifted his perspective from idealism to pragmatism, leading him to question whether meaning is inherent or created.

Max candidly discusses his childhood love for adventure, his struggle with chronic pain, and his unconventional career path—from law to biotech startups to consulting. He opens up about the importance of relationships, new experiences, and the disciplines he adopted to manage his pain and reclaim his life. Join us as we unpack how Max turned adversity into an opportunity to create meaning on his terms.

Where can you begin to create meaning in your life today?

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