"I feel like a lot of people think marriage is the end goal."

In this episode, Alyssa and Nadia explore the complexities of relationships, particularly in the context of college life. They discuss the pressures of finding a lifelong partner, the societal expectations surrounding marriage, and the varying perspectives on intimacy before marriage. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of friendships in the face of romantic relationships, the impact of social media on dating, and the challenges of modern dating apps. Throughout, they reflect on their own experiences and the generational shifts in attitudes towards relationships and commitment.

college relationships, commitment, marriage pressure, intimacy, friendship dynamics, dating apps, social media influence, modern dating, relationship advice, generational perspectives

takeaways

• Relationships in college can feel more intense than in high school.

• There's a societal pressure to find a lifelong partner during college.

• Many young people feel uncertain about the path to marriage.

• Intimacy and compatibility are often debated topics among peers.

• Marriage is seen by some as an outdated institution.

• Friendship dynamics can shift when one partner becomes too involved in a relationship.

• Dating apps can feel overwhelming and unmotivating for some.

• Social media influences perceptions of relationships and marriage.

• The concept of marriage varies greatly among different generations.

• It's important to maintain friendships even when dating someone new.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Relationships in College

02:54 Perspectives on Sex and Marriage

05:25 The Role of Commitment and Societal Expectations

08:24 Friendship Dynamics and Relationship Changes

10:52 Advice and Perspectives on Dating

13:30 The Impact of Breakups and Friendships

16:13 Dating Apps and Modern Relationships

18:35 Future Aspirations and Marriage Discussions