#065 There's no guidebook for BDSM - but what if you could learn from experienced kinksters?

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We gathered 5 incredible kink educators to answer one key question: "What do you wish you knew before starting BDSM?" Hear invaluable insights from Evie Lupine, Sunny Megatron, Kayla Lords, John Brownstone, Amanda Dames, and Lazarus Redmayne. They share their wisdom on authenticity, community, and overcoming shame. Perfect for newbies and pros alike. Don't miss the full list of resources and your chance to connect with these experts!

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#064 Is your kinky bucket list feeling a bit uninspired? Let's spice it up together!

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We're diving deep into setting BDSM goals that push boundaries and bring excitement. Learn what a kinky bucket list is, why it's essential for growth, connection, and fun, and get creative ideas for beginners to advanced players. Whether you have a partner or flying solo, discover how to turn your dreams into reality with actionable steps. Ready to start? Tune in and take the first step today!

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#063 Can conflict in a Dom/sub relationship become a tool for deeper connection?
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We're diving into a common pitfall: trying to "win" arguments instead of focusing on your dynamic. We're sharing firsthand experiences and comparing them to vanilla relationship conflicts. Learn practical strategies and simple rituals to keep things smooth, like using D/s language and performing specific tasks. Tune in for more tools to strengthen your relationship!

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#062 Ever wonder how to truly crawl into your sub's mind or stay proactive as a sub without 'topping from the bottom? This Ask Me Anything episode is packed with your most thought-provoking questions. We’re covering:

1. How to deeply understand your submissive's mind
2. How to navigate BDSM as a person with a disability
3. How to stay proactive as a sub without overstepping boundaries
4. How to stay connected outside the bedroom to strengthen your relationship inside it
5. And, of course, the funniest (and most awkward) moment that’s ever happened in my dynamic!

Whether you're a Dom, sub, or somewhere in between, this episode will leave you with practical tips, relatable laughs, and a lots of “aha” moments. Join the Dom Sub Living community to submit your own questions for the next AMA and connect with 5,000+ kinksters just like you!

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#061 Curious about impact play but don’t know where to start? Or maybe you’re worried about doing it wrong? Don’t stress—you’re in the right place. In this episode, we'll guide you through 5 easy, beginner-friendly impact play ideas that are safe, fun, and perfect for building your skills. We’ll cover everything from hands-only techniques to using everyday tools like wooden spoons and paddles—all while prioritizing safety and connection. Ready to explore? Grab your favorite tool (or hands!) and start experimenting with confidence!

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#060 What's your role in the world of BDSM? Let's dive in and find out! Join us as we break down the ins and outs of BDSM roles. From Dominants and submissives to fun niche roles like primal play and rope bondage, there's something for everyone. Hear personal stories, get tips on discovering your role, and learn how to make BDSM uniquely yours. Whether you're just starting out or looking to deepen your experience, this episode's got you covered. Don't miss out—tune in now and start your BDSM adventure!

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#059 How do small, intentional acts of service transform a relationship? Join us as we dive into balancing parenthood, health, and wellness, all while serving from a place of strength. We've got tips on setting up intimate scenes, starting small with acts of service, and creating meaningful rituals. From helping with morning routines to mindful tasks like making coffee, you'll see how intentional service can really deepen your bond. Want to try it out? Grab our free list of 20 service protocols!

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#058 Worried about keeping your Dom/sub dynamic alive in public without drawing attention We've got you covered! Join us as we dive into 10 subtle and kinky ideas for maintaining your D/s connection in everyday settings. Learn creative tips from secret hand signals to special dress codes, ensuring your dynamic stays strong and thrilling, even at family gatherings! And stick around for our favorite sneaky trick at the end!

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