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In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks and hormone disruptions), and how it can influence consent and decision-making in intimate situations.

Discover tips for navigating swinger events sober, building confidence, and enhancing experiences without alcohol. Whether you're curious about cutting back or just exploring a healthier lifestyle within swinging, this episode is packed with insights, humor, and actionable advice to keep you informed and empowered.

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In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or reflecting on your own journey, this candid discussion will inspire and entertain. Tune in for honest conversations, personal growth, and a touch of humor!

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Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger University

Can New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your relationship.

✨ What you'll learn:

• What NRE is and how it impacts your emotions and decisions.
• The hormonal chemistry behind NRE and its addictive allure.
• How to reintroduce novelty and passion into long-term relationships.
• Tips to navigate NRE safely while preserving trust and communication in your marriage.

Discover how swinging can amplify connection, spark curiosity, and keep your relationship thriving—without crossing the line.

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Discover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI prevention (including the dreaded HSV/Herpes), and expert tips for elevating your sex life. Whether you're looking to ignite passion in your relationships or expand your understanding of intimacy, this episode is packed with practical insights and advice. Tune in to this must-listen conversation and unlock your best sex life with guidance from a true expert!

🕑Key Moments:

00:00:00 - Welcome and introductions
00:01:42 - Ashley Manta, award-winning sex educator
00:07:23 - Sex and Cannabis and Swinging
00:16:52 - Consent in the non-monogamy community
00:31:56 - Some facts about STIs and the myths of "We're Tested and Clean"
00:46:46 - Skilled lovers vs. Novelty
01:09:17 - Wrap Up and Discount Codes

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Have you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal with new partners. Whether you're new or seasoned, you'll learn how to interpret subtle cues, handle ambiguous situations, and ensure you're always prepared for exciting possibilities. If you have ever struggled approaching a prospective date, you won't want to miss this episode!

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Are terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics?

Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the challenges and stigmas tied to "DTF" and "FWB," and uncover how labels impact relationships. Whether you're navigating ENM, curious about swinging, or just seeking insight, this episode has something for everyone.

🔑 Key Moments:

• 00:00:00 - Introduction: Is "DTF" a bad thing?
• 00:00:26 - Aren't we all DTF?
• 00:03:00 - The stigma of being DTF in the lifestyle
• 00:07:15 - Defining "friends with benefits" vs. true friendship
• 00:08:43 - Stigma and Shame surrounding sex
• 00:10:05 - Urban myths - They're muscles so exercise them!
• 00:12:30 - Navigating challenges in FWB relationships
• 00:18:45 - Are labels hiding deeper truths about swingers?
• 00:24:00 - Practical tips for forming meaningful connections
• 00:34:00 - The Friend Zone
• 00:39:03 - Wrap Up and Questions For You

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In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compatible partners.

Discover the fine line between healthy disclosure and TMI, and learn why "kissing and telling" in the swinger community is often more than gossip. Join us as we tackle questions like:

• Why might it be essential to share some details with trusted friends?
• How does sharing sexy stories strengthen bonds in the lifestyle?
• When should you stay silent to avoid unintended harm?

Highlights:

• Origins & Social Standards: Why "kissing and telling" has been taboo since 1695.
• Swinger vs. Vanilla Perspectives: How relationship dynamics shape our views on privacy and openness.
• When to Share: Tips for safely navigating disclosure in tight-knit communities.
• Public Service Announcements: When sharing can prevent harm or protect others.

Tune in to hear real-life examples and valuable advice to make informed choices in your relationships.

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Highlight Summary

1. Intro to "Kissing and Telling" - Ed and Phoebe discuss how "kissing and telling" impacts social dynamics in both the vanilla and swinger worlds.
2. History and Double Standards - An exploration of how society's double standards affect men and women differently.
3. Boundaries in Sharing - Understanding when it's okay to share details and when it's best to keep things private.
4. Why Sharing Matters in the Lifestyle - Reasons why sharing can help create safety, trust, and better experiences within the swinger community.
5. Public Safety Concerns - Examples of when sharing information serves the greater good.
6. Practical Tips for D

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Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, and the valuable lessons we learned about boundaries, trust, and safer sex practices in the lifestyle.

💥 Highlights:

• [0:30] The invite: How we got into an exclusive swinger group
• [4:20] Entering wonderland: The Alice-themed party details
• [10:15] The theater experience: A full-swap first
• [14:45] Lessons in trust and safer practices in swinging
• [20:00] Reflection: What we’d do differently & key takeaways

This episode is perfect for anyone curious about the lifestyle or looking to understand the importance of boundaries and open communication in intimate experiences.

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