• Stop Fighting, Start Loving: Game-Changing Wisdom from 'Us'

  • Jan 6 2025
  • Length: 21 mins
  • Podcast

Stop Fighting, Start Loving: Game-Changing Wisdom from 'Us'

  • Summary

  • In this episode of the Live Free Love Life podcast, host Mindy Neal reviews the transformative relationship book 'Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship' by Terrence Real.

    Mindy discusses how the book's insights on individualism and relational living can overhaul your approach to love and connection. Key concepts include recognizing patterns from childhood, understanding the adaptive child and wise adult within us, and a five-step formula for handling conflict constructively. Mindy also addresses common objections and provides real-world examples for practical application.

    ⌚ TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 Introduction: Transform Your Love Life

    00:26 Book Review: 'Us' by Terrence Real

    01:29 The Flaws of Individualism in Relationships

    04:25 Understanding the Adaptive Child and Wise Adult

    05:26 The Neuroscience of Relationship Conflicts

    06:12 Attachment Theory and Trauma in Relationships

    07:20 Five Behaviors That Destroy Relationships

    10:03 Real's Five-Step Formula for Conflict Resolution

    10:47 Janet Hurley's Feedback Wheel for Difficult Conversations

    12:29 Addressing Common Objections to Relationship Change

    13:42 Real-World Applications of Real's Principles

    16:22 Quotes to Transform Your Relationship

    18:45 Reflective Questions and Conclusion

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