Refs Need Love Too

By: David Gerson
  • Summary

  • An honest perspective from the 3rd team on the pitch... the referees. Through humor, analysis and education, we are slowly changing how people view referees and officials in all sports. We care and have a love for the game as much as any player or coach. Sometimes even more. Youth soccer (proper football) is a multi-billion $ industry in the US. Tremendous money is spent on players, competitions, travel etc., but almost nothing spent on developing the next generation of referees. I hope that this Podcast inspires, educates and humanizes the next generation of referees for their own development and appreciation from the players, coaches and spectators they need to work alongside.

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Episodes
  • Empowering the Next Generation of Adult Soccer Officials and Keeping them Warm in Cold Weather
    Oct 29 2024

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    Are you ready to conquer the challenges of refereeing in cold weather conditions? Discover why I, David Gerson, prefer the chill to the sweltering heat and hear all about my top tips for staying warm on the pitch. Learn how you can maintain your professionalism while keeping comfortable, with insights into acceptable cold weather gear for referees and grassroots officials. We’ll explore everything from hats to long pants, ensuring you’re prepared for any icy encounter on the field.

    Join me on a journey into the camaraderie and shared passion that binds referees from every walk of life. You’ll get a behind-the-scenes look at how we tackle tough calls, like potential penalties and debated offside goals, through effective communication and teamwork. With over ten years of experience under my belt, I’ll share stories of mutual support among referees and how we navigate the highs and lows together, always striving to uphold the integrity of the game we love.

    For those of you looking to start your refereeing journey, I’ve got words of encouragement and practical advice. Find out how to gain certification, build confidence through practical experience, and handle criticism like a pro. We’ll discuss the importance of fitness, impartiality, and of course, the joy of giving back to the sport. Plus, hear an inspiring story from Wyoming that highlights the human side of officiating and our impact on young players. Whether you’re experienced or just starting, this episode promises valuable insights and stories from the field. And don't miss a special announcement about a secret new item launching soon that could be the perfect holiday gift!

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    38 mins
  • Referee Resilience: Oregon Youth Soccer Addressing Abuse Head-on and Building Confidence as a Referee
    Oct 14 2024

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    Ever found yourself in the middle of a soccer match, caught between the roar of the crowd and the whistle in your hand? Join me, David Gerson, as I recount the highs and lows of grassroots refereeing, sharing my first-hand experiences on the pitch. Starting with the sweet taste of success in a seamless match, we quickly progress to the chaos of an intense game where a tactical foul ignited a firestorm of protests. Through these stories, you'll discover the art of maintaining authority amidst a sea of dissent and learn essential strategies for keeping unruly behavior in check while ensuring fairness.

    Safety and respect are paramount, especially when a player's well-being is on the line. Reflecting on a tense incident involving a young player's head injury, I underscore the critical responsibility referees have in prioritizing player safety, even when facing resistance from coaches. This episode also shines a light on the limited training referees typically receive and the immense value of mentorship in this role. By weaving in personal anecdotes and listener stories, we highlight the importance of patience and perseverance for both new and seasoned referees navigating the challenging dynamics of the game.

    Lastly, we confront the darker side of refereeing—verbal abuse from spectators and the lack of support from coaches. Through vivid scenarios, we explore the emotional toll such behavior can take on referees and stress the necessity of enforcing guidelines to curb abuse. The narratives of former critics turned referees serve as a powerful reminder of the transformative impact of empathy and understanding. As we wrap up, the focus shifts to fostering a culture of respect and appreciation for referees, celebrating the passion and persistence needed to thrive in youth sports environments.

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    36 mins
  • Strategic Officiating: Navigating Mass Confrontations and Being Thankful for the Beautiful Game
    Oct 5 2024

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    What if managing a soccer match could be as strategic as a chess game, with every move calculated for maximum safety and control? Join me, David Gerson, as I unravel the art of officiating amidst the beauty and chaos of soccer, especially in the challenging aftermath of Hurricane Helene. This episode promises insights into the delicate balance of passion and responsibility, focusing on strategies to handle mass confrontations on the field. From forming a "triangle of control" with fellow referees to harnessing the leadership of team captains, learn how quick, decisive actions can ensure the safety and integrity of the game.

    Drawing from over a decade of experience as a grassroots referee, I share the tools and techniques that have empowered me in my journey. Technology plays a pivotal role here, with the RefSix app transforming the way referees can enhance their performance. Imagine having instant access to metrics like distance covered and sprint stats, just like having your personal coach right on your wrist. The app not only aids in precise game management but also fosters a sense of community among referees, encouraging support and constructive feedback, which is crucial in a profession that can often feel isolated.

    The episode also shines a light on the often-overlooked issue of referee abuse, with practical advice on handling hostility and maintaining professionalism in the face of adversity. Hear stories of dedication, like that of a 55-year-old grassroots referee chasing his dream to reach the regional level, proving that age is just a number when it comes to passion and commitment. Finally, I express my gratitude to our listeners, whose support through ratings keeps this platform alive and thriving. Let's celebrate the privilege of being part of the soccer community, where every match is an opportunity to grow, lead, and inspire.

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    36 mins

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