• Ep. 16 OCD Thought Loops
    Mar 19 2025

    Have you ever been trapped in an OCD thought loop—overanalyzing intrusive thoughts, trying to logic your way out, only to get pulled in deeper? You’re not alone. In this episode, I share my personal journey through OCD, the science behind thought loops, and the proven strategies that helped me break free.

    We’ll dive into:
    ✅ What OCD thought loops are and why they happen
    ✅ How OCD tricks your brain into compulsions
    ✅ The power of Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)
    ✅ Practical steps to disengage from intrusive thoughts and take back control

    OCD doesn’t define you, and you can retrain your brain to stop giving these thoughts power. Tune in for insights, encouragement, and actionable steps to start your recovery journey.

    Link to source material

    Free ERP OCD Tracker

    Free ERP Workbook with Hierarchy

    🎧 Listen now and start breaking free!

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    13 mins
  • Ep. 15 Cure OCD for Good!
    Mar 19 2025

    In this episode of [Podcast Name], we’re diving deep into OCD recovery—what it really takes to break free from intrusive thoughts and compulsions. We’ll bust some common myths, talk about how OCD hijacks your brain, and most importantly, explore how Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) can help you rewire your mind for lasting change.

    Recovery isn’t just about managing symptoms—it’s about rewiring your brain step by step. We’ll break down the process, talk about the power of tracking progress, and remind you that setbacks don’t define you. If you’ve ever felt trapped in the OCD cycle, know this: you can get out. And in today’s episode, we’ll show you how.

    Listen now to start your journey to real OCD recovery!

    Free ERP OCD Tracker

    Free ERP Workbook with Hierarchy

    Blog Post on this topic

    Blog Post on hierarchy

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    10 mins
  • Ep. 14: Why Do I Feel So Tired All the Time? The Link Between OCD, Burnout, and Exhaustion
    Mar 5 2025

    In this illuminating episode, we explore the deep connection between OCD and exhaustion. We discuss why people with OCD often experience profound mental, physical, and emotional fatigue, and offer practical strategies for breaking the cycle of burnout and finding relief.


    Key Points

    • OCD creates a constant state of mental alertness that acts like running a marathon with your mind all day
    • The physical toll of compulsions combined with sleep disruption leads to profound exhaustion
    • People with OCD are seven times more likely to struggle with insomnia
    • Up to 67% of people with OCD will also experience major depressive disorder
    • OCD and depression are often misdiagnosed due to overlapping symptoms
    • Many turn to maladaptive coping mechanisms like alcohol, which ultimately worsen symptoms

    If OCD is leaving you exhausted, take one small step today toward giving yourself the rest you deserve. Whether that's reaching out for professional help, prioritizing sleep, or finding healthier coping mechanisms, you don't have to live with constant burnout.

    Resources from this Episode:

    Episode Blog

    Study on Insomnia

    OCD and Depression

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    6 mins
  • Ep. 13: Let The Thoughts – How to Reframe OCD Thoughts and Quiet, Yes Quiet Them Down
    Mar 5 2025

    In this insightful episode, we explore a fresh perspective on managing OCD and how this approach can transform your relationship with OCD by viewing intrusive thoughts as separate from you and simply "letting them be" without engaging in compulsions.

    Blog related to video

    Key Points

    Introducing the "Let Them Theory" from Mel Robbins' book and its application to OCD management
    Personifying OCD as a separate entity (Toi calls hers "Gloria") to create helpful distance
    The parallels between this approach and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) therapy
    A practical 60-second exercise for practicing thought observation without compulsions
    How this mindset shift puts you in control rather than constantly defending against intrusive thoughts

    If you're struggling with OCD, try this approach, even for just 60 seconds at a time. Let the thoughts be there without engaging, and practice putting yourself back in control.

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    11 mins
  • Ep. 12: Who Am I Really? - How We Cover Up OCD and the Dangers of Doing So
    Mar 5 2025

    Episode Summary

    In this powerful episode, we explore the hidden struggles of living with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and why keeping it secret often worsens the condition. I share my personal journey of masking compulsions and the freedom she found in finally opening up about her diagnosis.


    Key Points

    • The stigma and misconceptions around OCD often lead people to hide their condition
    • Keeping OCD secret can increase isolation, delay treatment, and give the disorder more power
    • Many people with OCD become experts at disguising compulsions in public settings
    • Opening up about OCD, even to just one trusted person, can break the cycle of shame
    • Resources like the International OCD Foundation and NOCD can help educate others

    If you're struggling with OCD, take that first small step toward openness today. You don't have to face this alone.

    Resources:

    Blog Page for this episode

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

    Study on Insomnia

    OCD and Depression

    OUT of OCD Instagram

    OUT of OCD Youtube

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    10 mins
  • Ep. 11 A Bit of ERP
    Dec 10 2024

    In this episode we dive into the world of Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) with a healthy dose of humor and hope. I aim to demystify the process of facing OCD fears, transforming anxiety-inducing thoughts from terrifying monsters into manageable challenges. Whether you're just starting your mental health journey or looking for new strategies to manage intrusive thoughts, this episode promises to make ERP feel less like a mountain to climb and more like a quirky adventure in brain training.

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    6 mins
  • Ep. 11 Religious and Moral Scrupulosity OCD
    Nov 15 2024

    In this episode of The Out of OCD Podcast, Toi Hershman dives into a widely misunderstood OCD subtype: religious or moral scrupulosity. Toi draws from personal experience to explain how this condition affects individuals’ faith and mental health.

    Key Topics Covered:

    • What is Religious Scrupulosity?
      • A subtype of OCD involving intense fear of sin, blasphemy, or punishment.
      • Common compulsions include repetitive praying, excessive confessions, and seeking reassurance from religious leaders.
    • The Emotional Impact:
      • How scrupulosity drives people to avoid their faith or worship spaces.
      • The excruciating feelings of guilt, shame, and fear tied to this OCD subtype.
    • Treatment and Hope:
      • Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) as the gold-standard therapy, even for religious scrupulosity.
      • The importance of shifting focus from fear and punishment to love and grace.
    • Resources and Support:
      • The International OCD Foundation’s free online support groups and conferences like the “Faith and OCD” conference.
      • Encouragement for listeners to seek help and know they are not alone.

    “Remember, OCD attacks what you value most. But healing is possible, and you are not alone in this journey.”

    Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review if this episode resonated with you!

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    11 mins
  • Ep. 10: I Am Sooo OCD, and Other Dumb Things People Say to You
    Oct 25 2024

    In this episode, we take a deep dive into Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), challenging common misconceptions that trivialize this serious mental illness. Our host addresses myths like "OCD is just about being tidy," "Everyone’s a little OCD," and "People with OCD can just stop." Each myth is broken down to reveal the true impact of OCD on daily life, emphasizing that OCD isn’t about enjoying cleanliness or control—it's about managing intrusive, distressing thoughts through compulsive behaviors that are anything but a choice.

    Real-life examples illustrate how OCD can look different for everyone, often including mental rituals that go unseen. We also explore the frustrations faced by people with OCD when they encounter casual, dismissive language and jokes about their condition.

    Tune in to learn about the importance of empathetic language, advocacy, and informed conversations. For more resources, check out the International OCD Foundation and NOCD.

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxHGUuSz7Hv7FQrLIL7n6rw

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

    Resources:

    Free Workbook to Quit OCD: https://outofocd.com/free-workbook/

    Out of OCD Website: https://www.outofocd.com

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToiHershman

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outofocd/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/toi.hershman

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toihershman/

    Online support groups: https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/supportgroups/

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    15 mins