Episode Summary:

Cheers to the New Year 2025! 🥂 In this refreshing New Year Special episode Nikita and Pooja discuss fresh starts, goals, and the pressure of New Year’s resolutions. They reflect on how 2024 flew by (to some!), share their thoughts on setting achievable goals versus lofty resolutions, and explore the idea of new beginnings anytime — not just at the start of the year.

From discussing personal anecdotes of career changes and fitness goals to funny takes on the “New Year, New Me” mindset, this episode has just the right dose of inspiration as well as a reality check for those looking to embrace change at their own pace and be realistic about it.

Key points:

The Importance of Fresh Starts: The hosts discuss why every day, week, or month can be a new beginning.

Realistic Goals vs. Resolutions: They talk about breaking the cycle of overly ambitious resolutions and focusing on tangible, measurable goals - something that you can put on a checklist and that gives you the satisfaction of ticking it off when done!

Real Transformations: They ponder over how external events often lead to lasting transformations rather than making resolutions.

Hosts’ Goals: The duo talks about working out more this year with Nikita sharing that “just cardio without weight training makes it easier to gain all the weight back quickly”. Get more info about this on this video shared by Elina from Diet Funda - https://www.instagram.com/share/reel/BAWL4yinO3

Personal Stories:

Pooja talks about her journey of changing careers and setting clear intentions.

Nikita talks about her accidental discovery of easing into routines for sustainable change, like skincare habits.

Additional Links and Resources:

DietFunda’s reel explaining sustainable weight loss

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Episode Summary

In this cosy and festive episode of Let's Pour and Ponder, your favourite duo, Pooja and Nikita, bring you their usual gleeful chat session that’s sure to brighten your holiday spirit! From unwrapping thoughtful gifts to engaging in hilarious games, they take you a lighthearted journey through the joys of the holiday season. With mulled wine and mugs of hot chocolate in hand, they think about 2024 in reflection and also express gratitude for all the things that did go right! Finally, Pooja and Nikita even put their wits to the test in a few rounds of playful games and challenges.

Key points

1. Reflections

Pooja and Nikita reflect on their experiences in 2024 so far. Pooja describes the year as busy and feels she has been crankier as a result. Nikita discusses her personal experiences, describing how she began the year at a low point due to experiencing a low mood episode during the winter months.

2. Gratitude

The hosts express gratitude for various things in their lives. While Nikita is thankful for her child's nursery and the teachers there, Pooja is thankful for the idea that led to the creation of the podcast. Pooja also acknowledges the viewers who watch the podcast without commenting ;) and appreciates the friends who provide feedback and support, particularly those who share the podcast with others. Both agree that they are grateful for the positive reception the podcast has received so far, and they look forward to taking more creative risks in the future.

3. Games

Now what’s a Christmas episode without a bit of fun and games?

a) A-Z game: The first game involved naming gifts - one for each letter of the alphabet, with each person getting a point for each valid gift they could name. Round two was similar, but they had to name festive items, not limited to Christmas.

b) What would you do?: Next up the duo played a game called "What Would You Do," where they drew cards with hypothetical situations and described what they would do in the situation, while wearing funny Christmas glasses.

Additional Links and Resources:

Mulled wine recipe - https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/mulled-wine-recipe/

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Episode Summary

In this episode of Let’s Pour & Ponder, Pooja and Nikita dive into the world of social media influencers, gurus, and online coaching trends. They explore how the internet has made “everyone an expert” and question what qualifies someone to guide others, while unpacking how marketing has become the ultimate superpower—enabling people to sell anything, even chapati-making courses!

The duo reflects on the rise of niche courses, from parenting to crafting, and share frustrations with repetitive trends like makeup transition reels. With a touch of 2000s Bollywood nostalgia (cue Asoka), they discuss how creativity in content has evolved and even brainstorm their own “how to podcast” course, laughing at the absurdity of selling expertise while still learning the ropes themselves. This episode is a candid, funny, and insightful look at guru culture on Instagram and beyond.

Key Points:

1. Defining Influencers and Content Creators and Influenzas

Here Pooja and Nikita discuss the distinction between an influencer and a content creator. An influencer intentionally promotes products, services, or ideas to sway opinions or decisions, often for compensation. In contrast, content creators focus on producing engaging or entertaining content without necessarily aiming to influence behaviour. While influencers are also content creators, not all content creators are influencers. The terms are closely linked, but the negative connotation surrounding “influencer” leads some people to prefer labels like “content creator” or “digital creator.”

2. Personal Perspective

Pooja also shares her preference for the term “blogger,” emphasising that her journey began with a focus on blogging. But also admits that regardless of labels, influencing even one person makes someone an influencer. The conversation also reflects on intentions, ethical practices in collaborations, and the broader implications of being part of this digital space.

3. Parenting Experts and the Gentle Parenting Movement

Nikita and Pooja then discuss how parenting content has exploded on social media, with numerous accounts promoting the idea of gentle parenting. While this movement offers valuable insights for modern parents, there’s an inherent challenge in gauging the authenticity of these experts. The conversation highlights how parenting in our generation often stems from mimicking our own upbringing and how the shift to more mindful parenting is necessary yet sometimes commercialised.

4. Life Coaches and Credibility Concerns

Life coaching has become a buzzword on Instagram, with many claiming to guide people toward personal and professional success. But what qualifies someone to be a life coach? The duo discuss the blurred lines between genuinely helpful mentors and those who capitalise on trends without significant expertise. From certifications to selling expensive courses, they explore how trust and transparency are often lacking in this space.

5. The Market for Everything

Lastly Pooja and Nikita reflect on the versatility of social media, and acknowledge that there truly is a market for everything—be it parenting courses, quilling workshops, or podcast guides. With the right marketing strategy, anyone can turn their passion into a business. This realisation sparked a fun brainstorming session about launching their own podcast course someday!

Join us for this laughter-filled yet thought-provoking discussion on Influencer culture, Social media Gurus, the power of marketing, and navigating social media’s ever-changing landscape.

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Episode Summary: Nikita & Pooja decode Nobody Wants This, the latest Netflix rom-com, where Kristen Bell and Adam Brody bring to life an effortlessly endearing and mature relationship through their characters Joanne and Noah.

In Part 2, they share their personal ‘cringe’ moments, and reflections on what it means to have a healthy, realistic relationship. From over-the-top texts to finding a balance between admiration and realism, Nikita & Pooja chat about what makes this show so captivating to women. They also discuss the healthy communication and vulnerability that Joanne and Noah embody, which many fans—them included—can’t get enough of.

Key Discussion Points:

Joanne’s family dynamic
The hosts discuss Joanne’s family dynamic and how it seems liberal yet dysfunctional. Both Pooja and Nikita agree that Joanne’s mom still seems to be in denial about the breakdown of her marriage, and how the parents’ approach to their relationship and marriage is a huge factor in how Joanne and Morgan make their decisions and approach relationships.

First Impressions and Real-Life Reflections The hosts discuss why Nobody Wants This feels so different from other rom-coms, highlighting how Joanne and Noah’s relationship reflects what so many people desire in real life.

'Icks' in Relationships From over-the-top gestures in public that feel forced to inconsistent communication, Pooja and Nikita explore the concept of “icks”—those small turn-offs that can add up in relationships and become deal breakers for some people.

Cultural Phenomena & ‘One-Upmanship’
Touching on recent events like Coldplay’s upcoming concert in Mumbai, the hosts humorously discuss how certain people dismiss popular interests as a way to stand out, leading to a lively discussion on pop culture elitism and ‘one-upmanship.’

Reflections on Healthy Communication in Relationships
The hosts discuss how Joanne and Noah’s openness and mature communication sets an ideal, if somewhat rare, standard for relationships. They talk about how setting clear expectations—rather than leaving things unspoken—can avoid misunderstandings and strengthen bonds.

Closing Thoughts and Audience Questions
Nobody Wants This is more than just a rom-com; it’s a reminder of the beauty in healthy, simple love. Joanne and Noah’s relationship might seem too good to be true, but the reality is, it’s something everyone can and should strive for.

So, we want to know: • What’s one trait you value most in a relationship? • Is there a quality you look for in a partner or cherish in your current relationship?

Share your thoughts in the comments below, and let’s keep the conversation going. We can’t wait to hear what you think!
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Hold onto your chai lattes because this week's episode is a wild ride through the viral Netflix show "Nobody Wants This"! Get ready for some serious talk about sister drama, hot rabbi romance, and a nuanced analysis into the pressures of cultural expectations - all with a healthy dose of laughter and a sprinkle of "ewww".

Also, this is only part 1 of this episode. Stay tuned for Part 2 because this conversation is just getting started! Consider this your SPOILER ALERT before you read further or listen to this episode.

Episode Summary

Join Pooja and Nikita as they unpack the Netflix series "Nobody Wants This," a show that hits close to home with its themes of family drama surrounding falling in love, and cultural differences and similarities. In this episode Pooja and Nikita analyse the complicated sister dynamic between podcast co-hosts Morgan and Joanne, questioning Morgan's motives and critiquing her dismissive attitude towards Joanne's new relationship.

The hosts also discuss the iconic kiss between the protagonists, Joanne and Noah, while pondering the realism of their whirlwind romance.

Things take a serious turn as they compare the show's portrayal of American-Jewish dating to the pressures of arranged marriages in India, highlighting the importance of personal choice and standing up to family expectations.

Key Moments in this episode

"Dumb Sister" Energy

Nikita doesn't hold back on her criticism of Morgan, pointing out that her constant negativity and sabotage of Joanne's happiness make her deserving of the "dumb sister" label. Pooja offers a different perspective, suggesting that Morgan's behaviour could stem from feeling left behind as Joanne explores a healthier relationship.

That Kiss Though!

Both hosts are completely smitten with the pivotal kiss scene between Joanne and Noah. They break down the anticipation, the build-up, and the sheer chemistry, offering a masterclass in how to create a truly memorable on-screen moment. Pooja even jokes about taking notes for her own relationship!

Instant Love or Red Flag?

Nikita expresses reservations about the speed of Noah's transition from a serious relationship to a passionate romance with Joanne. This leads to an interesting discussion about Noah's previous relationship, with Pooja offering a compelling theory that it was likely an arranged situation lacking true emotional connection.

Family Pressure & Cultural Clashes

The hosts draw parallels between the show's portrayal of American-Jewish family dynamics and known experiences with the pressures of arranged marriages in India. They commend Noah for having the courage to stand up to his family and make his own choices, a decision that resonates deeply with their own cultural context.

More Than Just "Cute"

Inspired by the show's central romance, the hosts reflect on the importance of finding a partner who goes beyond superficial qualities. They emphasise the need for emotional connection, shared values, and genuine compatibility to build a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

Get ready for Part 2 of this episode coming out next week, on Thursday, November 14, 2024

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In this Diwali special episode of Let’s Pour & Ponder, Pooja and Nikita dive into how they celebrate Diwali abroad and their experiences of adjusting to life in the UK after moving from India. From the complete newness of it all to the gradual process of finding comfort and calling the UK their home, they share the ups and downs, with a bit of humour and honest reflections on life abroad. They also touch on how migration has affected their health, routines, and lifestyle, and even explore what they like and don't like about living in the UK as Indian immigrants.

Episode Summary:

Nikita asks about what it's like to celebrate Indian festivals in the UK, away from family. While Pooja admits that Diwali is far less noisy and sparkly compared to India, when you find your 'friends like family' circle, you can have the best time whether it's Diwali Potlucks or Garba nights.

Pooja recounts her early days in the UK, highlighting the silence, cold, and snow that were initially both enchanting and challenging. The conversation then shifts to health, as both Pooja and Nikita share personal stories about migraines and pollen allergies.

They also discuss how difficult it can be to admit enjoying life abroad over life in India, challenging the societal expectations of patriotism and attachment to one’s homeland. The duo wraps up with a fun, rapid-fire session on what they like and dislike about living in the UK, touching on the NHS, the people, public transport, food quality, and the unique quirks of British culture.

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In this episode of Let’s Pour & Ponder, hosts Pooja and Nikita open up about the realities of managing friendships in your 30s, especially when faced with toxic dynamics. They discuss the emotional strain of being there for others, recognising when relationships become unhealthy, and how important it is to prioritise your mental well-being. This episode also honours World Mental Health Day, shedding light on the need for seeking professional help and breaking the stigma around mental health, especially in South Asian cultures.

Summary

Navigating friendships in your 30s can be complicated, especially when balancing emotional support with your own needs. Pooja and Nikita share their personal experiences of dealing with the challenges of setting firm boundaries in their friendships, and how emotional labour can take its toll. They reflect on how life changes - like becoming a parent or receiving a late ADHD diagnosis - affect relationships.

As we celebrate World Mental Health Day, the hosts remind listeners of the importance of seeking professional help, while also encouraging open conversations around mental health and well-being.

KEY POINTS:

1. Recognizing Toxic Behaviors in Friendships

The hosts discuss key signs that a friendship has turned toxic, such as constant name-calling, guilt-tripping, and refusal to acknowledge emotional boundaries. They highlight the emotional toll of supporting friends who do not reciprocate or respect boundaries.

2. The Importance of Setting Boundaries

Pooja and Nikita emphasize the need to set firm boundaries with friends, especially when their emotional needs become overwhelming. They reflect on how communicating boundaries or distancing yourself is crucial for maintaining mental health and self-care.

3. Mental Health Awareness and Seeking Help

The episode ties into World Mental Health Day, encouraging listeners to consider professional therapy or counselling when personal relationships start to feel emotionally draining. While friends can offer support, therapy provides a safe space for exploring deeper mental health issues.

4. Friendship Dynamics in Your 30s

With changes like parenthood or career growth, friendships can evolve or fade. The hosts explore how friendship priorities shift as we get older, and how it’s okay to be more selective with the people you allow into your inner circle.

5. Living with ADHD and Autism: The Impact on Social Relationships

Nikita shares her personal story of being diagnosed with ADHD and discovering she is on the autism spectrum. She reflects on how this new understanding of her neurodiversity has helped her understand herself better and how they may have impacted friendships all her life.

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Welcome to Let’s Pour & Ponder, where we (Nikita and Pooja) dive into all things real, raw, and relatable! Before we officially launch our first episode on 10/10, we wanted to introduce ourselves in a special way.

In this bonus episode, you’ll get to know us—how we met, became long-distance best friends, and why we decided to start this podcast together. From our first conversation to navigating life as women, moms, and friends in different parts of the world, we’re sharing the story behind our friendship and how Let’s Pour & Ponder came to be. 🍷✨

Whether you’ve been following us for a while or you’re new here, this episode is all about connection, laughter, and real talk. Expect some light-hearted moments, a few deep dives, and all the quirky, unfiltered fun we have when the mics are rolling. 🎧💬

Tune in, subscribe, and be sure to follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music or wherever you listen to podcasts. Also subscribe to our YouTube channel if you want to see our faces along the way. 🙌

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P.S. Yes, Biryani Guru is still open! Check them out here --> https://www.instagram.com/biryaniguru/