• Ep 3.2 Desi Girls Decode 'Nobody Wants This' - Part 2: Healthy Communication, Real Love Lessons, the Ick, and more.

  • Nov 13 2024
  • Length: 40 mins
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Ep 3.2 Desi Girls Decode 'Nobody Wants This' - Part 2: Healthy Communication, Real Love Lessons, the Ick, and more.

  • Summary

  • Episode Summary: Nikita & Pooja decode Nobody Wants This, the latest Netflix rom-com, where Kristen Bell and Adam Brody bring to life an effortlessly endearing and mature relationship through their characters Joanne and Noah.


    In Part 2, they share their personal ‘cringe’ moments, and reflections on what it means to have a healthy, realistic relationship. From over-the-top texts to finding a balance between admiration and realism, Nikita & Pooja chat about what makes this show so captivating to women. They also discuss the healthy communication and vulnerability that Joanne and Noah embody, which many fans—them included—can’t get enough of.


    Key Discussion Points:


    Joanne’s family dynamic
    The hosts discuss Joanne’s family dynamic and how it seems liberal yet dysfunctional. Both Pooja and Nikita agree that Joanne’s mom still seems to be in denial about the breakdown of her marriage, and how the parents’ approach to their relationship and marriage is a huge factor in how Joanne and Morgan make their decisions and approach relationships.


    First Impressions and Real-Life Reflections The hosts discuss why Nobody Wants This feels so different from other rom-coms, highlighting how Joanne and Noah’s relationship reflects what so many people desire in real life.

    'Icks' in Relationships From over-the-top gestures in public that feel forced to inconsistent communication, Pooja and Nikita explore the concept of “icks”—those small turn-offs that can add up in relationships and become deal breakers for some people.


    Cultural Phenomena & ‘One-Upmanship’
    Touching on recent events like Coldplay’s upcoming concert in Mumbai, the hosts humorously discuss how certain people dismiss popular interests as a way to stand out, leading to a lively discussion on pop culture elitism and ‘one-upmanship.’

    Reflections on Healthy Communication in Relationships
    The hosts discuss how Joanne and Noah’s openness and mature communication sets an ideal, if somewhat rare, standard for relationships. They talk about how setting clear expectations—rather than leaving things unspoken—can avoid misunderstandings and strengthen bonds.

    Closing Thoughts and Audience Questions
    Nobody Wants This is more than just a rom-com; it’s a reminder of the beauty in healthy, simple love. Joanne and Noah’s relationship might seem too good to be true, but the reality is, it’s something everyone can and should strive for.


    So, we want to know: • What’s one trait you value most in a relationship? • Is there a quality you look for in a partner or cherish in your current relationship?

    Share your thoughts in the comments below, and let’s keep the conversation going. We can’t wait to hear what you think!
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