Mind the Gap

By: Michael Comyn
  • Summary

  • Welcome to “Mind the Gap,” the podcast where ancient wisdom and modern emotional intelligence converge. I’m Michael Comyn, and with 38 years of experience in emotional intelligence, I’m excited to bring you this exploration of how Stoic philosophy can illuminate our contemporary challenges.

    You might also recognize my voice from a different context—I’ve been the one reminding passengers to “Mind the Gap” on public transport across Ireland for the past 25 years. It’s a phrase that’s taken on a new meaning in this podcast, as we delve into the gap between our emotions and reality.

    In each episode, we’ll bridge the gap between the timeless insights of Stoic philosophers and the latest understandings of emotional intelligence. I’ll share practical tools and strategies to help you manage feelings, enhance self-awareness, and build resilience.

    Join me as we explore how these ancient teachings can provide clarity and guidance for today’s emotional landscape. Let’s close the gap together, turning everyday challenges into opportunities for growth, one episode at a time.

    2024 Michael Comyn
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Episodes
  • "Rage and Reflection: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Outbursts."
    Sep 21 2024

    In today’s episode, we explore the nature of anger and its impact on our lives, drawing connections between the ancient wisdom of the Stoics and our challenges in our modern world. From road rage to social media spats and the polarising voices of talk radio, we explore how anger manifests today and why it often feels like we’re living in a perpetual state of outrage.

    We’ll unpack key insights from Stoic philosophers like Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius, who viewed anger as one of the most dangerous emotions. This temporary madness distorts reason and causes harm. We’ll explore their timeless advice on keeping our cool, no matter the circumstances, and discuss how these ancient strategies are more relevant than ever.

    Key Topics Covered:

    1. Modern Anger Triggers:
    • Road rage and the anonymity of driving: How our cars become battlegrounds for anger.
    • Social media outrage: The addictive cycle of posts, likes, and arguments that keep us hooked and constantly on edge.
    • Talk radio and media: How provocative hosts and polarising news amplify anger and create an “us vs. them” mentality.
    1. The Psychological and Physical Toll of Anger:
    • Chronic anger’s impact on our bodies—stress hormones, high blood pressure, anxiety, and more.
    • How anger clouds judgment, damages relationships and isolates us.
    1. Stoic Wisdom for Managing Anger:
    • Seneca’s advice on delaying anger and avoiding unnecessary provocations.
    • Marcus Aurelius’s practice of negative visualisation—preparing for life’s challenges to stay grounded.
    • Epictetus’s reminder to focus on what we can control and let go of what we can’t.
    1. Bridging Stoicism and Modern Psychology:
    • The role of emotional intelligence in managing anger—recognising and understanding our emotions, responding thoughtfully, and fostering empathy.
    1. Actionable Takeaways:
    • Practical tips for applying Stoic principles to reclaim calm and respond to anger triggers with reason rather than reactivity.
    • Set boundaries with social media, news, and other anger-inducing influences.

    Why Listen?

    This episode offers valuable insights into why we get angry, how it affects us, and what we can do about it. Whether you’re struggling with road rage, feeling overwhelmed by the constant negativity on social media, or simply trying to keep your cool in a heated world, this discussion blends ancient wisdom with modern strategies to help you find a path to greater peace and self-control.

    Quotes to Highlight:

    • “Anger is like a ruin, which, breaking itself upon that which it falls, breaks down that on which it leans.” — Seneca
    • “You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.” — Marcus Aurelius
    • “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” — Epictetus


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    12 mins

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