Hard Times No More Relationship Podcast

By: Allesanda Tolomei-Hard
  • Summary

  • Allesanda Tolomei- Hard A.K.A. Mrs. Hard of www.mrs-hard.com is your grounded, empathetic, compassionate wellness coach. She shares her experience to help you heal challenging personal and family relationship problems with tried-and-true methods to set healthy boundaries and detach with love.

    If you are ready to experience fulfilling, meaningful connections you are in the right place. You can transform difficult relationships and find happiness without putting aside your needs or waiting for others to change. Let people-pleasing and codependence fall away and say goodbye to hard times for good.

    © 2024 Hard Times No More Relationship Podcast
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  • Present, Grounded, & Free: Yoga as the Path to Inner Peace with Jodi Shields -Ep. 44
    Sep 28 2024

    In this episode, I’m joined by my dear friend and office roommate, Jodi, who has been a massage therapist for almost 20 years and is also a dedicated yoga teacher. Jodi shares her wisdom on how yoga and massage therapy can help us become more present in our lives, relieve stress, and cultivate a loving relationship with ourselves. Tune in to learn more about how tuning into your breath, body, and mind can support your well-being and lead to a calmer, more balanced life.

    We also talk about our upcoming Awaken Retreat with Dr. Debbie Victoria-Seale, happening on Saturday, October 5th, from 1-5 PM in downtown Napa. This half-day retreat is designed to help you rest, restore, and rejuvenate with a restorative yoga practice, guided meditation, and tools for grounding your energy.

    You'll hear about:

    1. Yoga as a Path to the Present Moment:
    Jodi emphasizes the power of yoga in helping you stay connected to the present. By tuning into your breath and body during yoga postures, you learn how to release stress and anxiety, fostering a greater sense of inner peace.

    2. The Synergy of Yoga and Massage:
    With nearly two decades of experience as a massage therapist, Jodi discusses how understanding the body through massage deepens her yoga teaching. She talks about how combining both practices helps people release tension, strengthen their bodies, and feel more connected to themselves.

    3. Meeting Your Body Where It’s At:
    Jodi highlights the importance of honoring your body’s current state without judgment. In both yoga and life, meeting yourself with compassion can reduce stress and lead to more meaningful self-care.

    4. The Benefits of Restorative Yoga:

    Restorative yoga, which Jodi will be teaching at the Awaken Retreat, is a deeply grounding practice that helps calm anxiety and promotes relaxation. Jodi shares how this slower, more supported style of yoga allows your body to open and heal in its own time.

    5. Awaken Retreat:
    We talk about the upcoming Awaken Retreat on October 5th. Participants will experience a rest-focused workshop, guided meditation, a 45-minute restorative yoga session with Jodi, and an energy-grounding class with Dr. Debbie. It’s the perfect opportunity to reconnect with yourself, reduce stress, and rejuvenate your soul. Click Here To Sign Up!

    Mentioned in this Episode:
    - Awaken Retreat: Happening on Saturday, October 5th, from 1 to 5 PM in 828 School Street, downtown Napa. A half-day retreat to rest, restore, and rejuvenate with yoga, meditation, and energy work. Limited spots available.
    Click Here To Sign Up

    -Connect with Jodi:
    - Yoga Classes: Join Jodi for weekly yoga classes at our studio in downtown Napa or Napa Hot Yoga.
    - Private Yoga & Massage Therapy: Book a private session with Jodi for personalized yoga or orthopedic massage therapy.
    Click Here To Visit Jodi's Website & Sign Up For Classes

    **Links**:
    -Follow Jodi on Instagram: @LibraVitae
    - Follow Allesanda on Instagram: @Mrs.Hard_TimesNoMore


    Don't let anxiety control you any longer. Take the first step towards a joyful life without fear. Sign up for my free 3-day coaching series—Stepping Off The Chaos Roller Coaster: 3 Simple Steps For Anxiety Relief

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Finding Calm Amidst Chaos: Stress Relief and Spiritual Tools with Dr. Debbie- Ep. 43
    Sep 12 2024

    In this episode, Allesanda Tolomei-Hard, a.k.a. Mrs. Hard, is joined by Dr. Debbie Victoria-Seale, an intuitive healer and holistic chiropractor. Together, they explore the powerful connection between your physical and spiritual selves, offering insights into how you can navigate the chaos of everyday life with greater calm and clarity.

    Dr. Debbie shares her expertise on the importance of grounding and resetting your energy systems, especially during times of heightened stress and uncertainty. She explains how running your energy can help shift your body from a state of fight-or-flight to one of rest and digest, promoting both physical and spiritual well-being.

    You will learn practical tools for incorporating moments of mindfulness and energy work into your daily routine, even if you have a jamp-packed busy schedule, causing stress and anxiety.

    Dr. Debbie and Allesanda also discuss the significance of tuning into your body's needs and honoring the natural rhythms of life, particularly as we get ready to transition into the slower, more reflective season of fall.

    Key Takeaways:

    >> Grounding and Energy Reset: Discover simple yet powerful techniques to ground yourself and reset your energy throughout the day.

    >> Managing Stress: Learn how to shift from a state of constant stress to one of relaxation and healing, using tools that align your physical and spiritual health.

    >> Importance of the Parasympathetic State: Understand the value of taking short, intentional breaks to restore your energy and improve your overall well-being.

    >> Spiritual Tools: Dr. Debbie introduces spiritual practices like cord cutting and energy running, which can help you clear negative energy and reconnect with your true self.

    >> Preparing for Fall: Explore how the transition to fall is an ideal time to slow down, reflect, and prepare for the inner work that comes with the winter season.


    Special Announcement:

    Join Allesanda and Dr. Debbie for the Awaken Retreat on Saturday, October 5th, from 1:00 PM to 5:00 PM in downtown Napa. This retreat, focused on rest, restoration, and rejuvenation, will include a workshop led by Allesanda, a restorative yoga session with Jodi Shields, and a special spiritual healing class with Dr. Debbie on intuitive healing. Space is limited to eight participants, so be sure to sign up early to secure your spot!
    Sign Up for the Awaken Retreat

    Links Mentioned:

    >> Dr. Debbie’s Website: https://drdvsdc.com/meet-dr-debbie

    >>Follow Dr. Debbie on Instagram
    DebbieVictoriaSeale Or Debbie_Victoria_Clairvoyant

    >>Mrs. Hard’s Website: mrshard.com

    >>Follow Allesanda on Instagram
    Mrs.Hard_TimesNoMore

    Don't let anxiety control you any longer. Take the first step towards a joyful life without fear. Sign up for my free 3-day coaching series—Stepping Off The Chaos Roller Coaster: 3 Simple Steps For Anxiety Relief

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Rewiring Your Brain for Worthiness & Joy -Ep. 42
    Aug 23 2024

    Join Allesanda Tolomei-Hard, a.k.a. Mrs. Hard, as she explores the transformative power of embracing your worthiness and living a life of joy. If you’ve ever struggled with self-worth or found yourself waiting for external circumstances to change before you allow yourself to experience happiness, this episode is for you.

    Mrs. Hard shares her personal stories, practical insights, and powerful techniques to help you rewire your brain and cultivate a deep sense of worthiness and joy in your life, regardless of external situations.


    Episode Highlights:
    >> The Power of Worthiness:
    - We’ll discusses the concept of inherent worthiness as a birthright.

    - How believing in your worthiness can completely transform your life and relationships.

    >> Identifying Limiting Beliefs:
    - Explore how subconscious agreements formed during childhood influence your self-worth.

    - Mrs. Hard shares personal experiences of how her upbringing and societal expectations shaped her self-worth and how she overcame these limiting beliefs.

    >> The Journey to Joy and Worthiness:
    - The process of shifting from external validation to internal fulfillment.

    - Understanding the "seesaw" analogy: balancing discomfort and fear of change to move toward a more fulfilling life.

    - Practical steps to break free from old patterns and embrace joy in everyday life.

    >> Rewiring the Brain for Joy:
    - Introduction to the Recticular Activating System (RAS) and how it influences focus and perception.

    - Techniques for tuning your RAS into joy, gratitude, and worthiness through daily practices.

    - The importance of falling in love with the process of personal growth and self-discovery.

    >> Upcoming Workshops and Events:
    - Announcement of the "How to Be Your Own Best Friend" workshop on Sunday, September 8th, focusing on releasing perfectionism and people-pleasing.
    Register HERE!

    - Invitation to the "Movement and Meditation" event on Sunday, August 25th at The Garden Brewery in downtown Napa, featuring a bodyweight workout and guided meditation.
    Sign Up HERE!


    Key Takeaways:
    - Embrace the belief that you are inherently worthy, just as you are.
    - Understand the impact of limiting beliefs on your self-worth and learn how to shift them.
    - Rewire your brain to focus on joy and worthiness through consistent, daily practices.
    - Stop waiting for external circumstances to bring you happiness—start cultivating joy and fulfillment now.


    Let’s connect!
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    1:1 Stress Relief Coaching Session:

    Let’s talk about how I can help you support your specific situation to receive anxiety and create peace in challenging relationships.
    Schedule Your Free Session HERE!


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    If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might benefit. Your support helps empower others on their journey to worthiness and joy.


    Contact:
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    Have questions or want to share your story? Email Mrs. Hard at HardTimesNoMoreCoach@gmail.com
    -Follow Mrs. Hard on social media for more insights and updates:
    Instagram: Mrs.Hard_TimesNoMore

    Don't let anxiety control you any longer. Take the first step towards a joyful life without fear. Sign up for my free 3-day coaching series—Stepping Off The Chaos Roller Coaster: 3 Simple Steps For Anxiety Relief

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    35 mins

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