• 234. How to adjust your mind 'in the moment' when your expectations are unmet in motherhood
    Nov 6 2024

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    25 mins
  • 233. Behind the scenes: Toddler skipping naps, big emotions, going to comedy show, mold testing, dealing with strep
    Oct 30 2024

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    Welcome to behind the scenes fall edition. This is a little peek into my life and what goes on behind the mic on a regular basis.
    In this episode I share about:

    • Dealing with a toddler who does not nap anymore
    • Big toddler meltdowns
    • Going to comedy show with a friend
    • Finding mold in my house + what I plan to do
    • Treating strep naturally and failing
    • Family reunion in MN


    Thank you so much for being here. If you want help with your explosive and hurtful anger patterns: BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION and let's chat about how you can become the calm and peaceful mama you desire to be.
    Mentioned in the episodes:

    • Crib tent
    • John Crist pre-meal prayer
    • John Crist saying no video

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    2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program
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    3. BOOK A FREE CALL if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns.

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    How to 10x your Emotional Capacity Levels as a Mom
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    32 mins
  • 232. Is anger sinful? Anger vs rage and how you can stop explosive anger patterns.
    Oct 23 2024

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    At what point does anger become sinful? Is it wrong to feel angry toward your children? Why is it hard to stop yourself when you feel rage?
    In this episode you will learn:

    • What normal anger looks like
    • How rage is different from anger
    • At what point anger becomes sinful
    • Ways to decrease explosive anger


    God created you with emotions. Anger if not managed well can quickly become destructive to relationships with your loved ones.
    Want help in breaking explosive rage episodes? I can help you. Book a free consultation call and let's have a conversation about how you can change your legacy.
    Mentioned episodes:

    • 208: Warning signs you will blow up soon
    • 228: Anger normal or do you need help?
    • 161: How anger is affecting relationships with your loved ones and what you can do about it

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    Next Steps:
    1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame
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    2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program
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    3. BOOK A FREE CALL if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns.

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    MINI-COURSE BONUS
    How to 10x your Emotional Capacity Levels as a Mom
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    Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
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    30 mins
  • 231. Trigger: Kids interrupting/needing you when you are focused on something. How to respond instead of react.
    Oct 9 2024

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    One of my big triggers in motherhood is when I am focused on something and my kids come and 'interrupt me' and now I 'have to' stop doing what I was doing to attend do them. If you feel massively triggered with interruptions by your kids, this episode is for you.
    In this episode you will learn:

    • Why you feel triggered when you are trying to focus on something
    • What you can do proactively to feel less triggered
    • In the moment strategies
    • How to adjust your expectations


    Kids 'interrupting' is a part of being a mom. If you find yourself often feeling angry, reactive and harsh with your kids- I can help you. BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION call and let's talk about how we can work together to break reactive anger patterns and help you become the mom you want to become.
    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Triggers Book
    • Ep 330: Trigger: Running late/Time pressure and kids not cooperating.


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    Next Steps:
    1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame
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    2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program
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    3. BOOK A FREE CALL if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns.

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    MINI-COURSE BONUS
    How to 10x your Emotional Capacity Levels as a Mom
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    Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
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    40 mins
  • 230. Trigger: How to stay patient when you are running late/experiencing time pressure and kids don't cooperate.
    Oct 2 2024

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    I have two big triggers that lead me to feeling very frustrated. Interruptions when I'm trying to focus and time pressure/running late. Those two are the times when I feel the most triggered by my kids. And the reality is, if you are a mom you will face these on a regular if not daily.
    In this episode you will learn:

    • Why do we feel time pressure
    • What thoughts are contributing to frustration
    • What you can do proactively to have smoother transitions
    • Empowering thoughts 'in the moment' when kids are not cooperating and you are running late.


    This is something I am still working on daily. It's not an overnight change, it's a lifelong journey to be the mom you want to be. If you find yourself reacting in anger when you are running late with your kids and acting out in harsh ways...and you want to start making changes today...I can help you. BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION call and let's talk about how I can support you.

    Listen to related episodes:

    • 133: Ready to stop being busy all the time? 5 signs it's time to slow down and prioritize what matters
    • 55: How to set boundaries to create time and feel more restored
    • 140: Stressed? 4 mindset shifts that will lower your stress today

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    1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame
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    2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program
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    3. BOOK A FREE CALL if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns.

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    MINI-COURSE BONUS
    How to 10x your Emotional Capacity Levels as a Mom
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    Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
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    28 mins
  • 229. Powerful & empowering mindset swaps when you have negative thoughts in motherhood.
    Sep 25 2024

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    Did you know that we have 60 thousand thoughts a day...80% of them are negative and 90% of them are repetitive? Your mind is wired to have negative thoughts. If you find yourself having negative thoughts in your motherhood that contribute to frustration and anger...this episode is for you.
    In this episode you will learn to shift negative thoughts when:

    • You feel like your kids 'make' you yell/get mad
    • You feel more angry when you walk away and take a break
    • Your kids do things that trigger you
    • Your kids don't meet your expectations
    • You're feeling frustrated when things don't go your way


    Your thoughts lead to your feelings. Your feelings lead to your actions. Your actions lead to your outcomes. Mastering your thoughts is one of the most powerful things you can do.
    Mentioned in the episode:

    • Tessas IG page
    • Ep 124: Short fused and agitated easily? How to change your mindset in motherhood to have more patience with kids.
    • Ep 94: Is your mindset holding you back from the mom you want to be? How to let go of destructive ways of thinking and creating thoughts that are supportive

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    1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame
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    3. BOOK A FREE CALL if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns.

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    How to 10x your Emotional Capacity Levels as a Mom
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    19 mins
  • 228. Is your anger normal or do you need help? How to know when your anger is destructive and you need coaching support.
    Sep 18 2024

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    Maybe you keep thinking to yourself...this will pass. This anger will go away and one day I won't feel this way anymore. Yet you find yourself day after day struggling with reactive and explosive anger. There comes a time when you need help.
    In this episode you will learn:

    • 3 Types of anger
    • 5 signs you actually need help with your anger
    • Next steps to work together


    Friend, if you want to break generational anger patterns and start making changes TODAY then BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION call and let's talk about your struggle and if working together is a good fit.

    Listen to mentioned episodes:

    • 157. Praying for anger to go away? Discover the missing piece when it's not working
    • 112. Are you a Christian mom with anger problems? 3 powerful reasons how connecting with God on a regular basis will help your anger issues
    • 226. Why can't I just STOP feeling angry all the time??? The #1 reason you feel stuck and hopeless in your anger struggle.


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    Next Steps:
    1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame
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    2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program
    ⬇️
    3. BOOK A FREE CALL if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns.

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    MINI-COURSE BONUS
    How to 10x your Emotional Capacity Levels as a Mom
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    Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
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    22 mins
  • 227. Stuck in a negative attitude? How to have a better attitude when things are not going your way.
    Sep 4 2024

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    Attitude...anyone? When I was a kid, I remember hearing the phrase: Change your attitude. Yet...I had no idea HOW to do it. You probably relate to hearing that phrase when you were a kid, maybe you even catch yourself saying to your own kiddos...
    In this episode you will learn:

    • Why do we have a negative attitude to begin with
    • 3 steps to shifting your negative attitude
    • Personal life examples where I learned to change my attitude with practical mindset swaps


    You set the tone in your home. You set the example for your kids in how they speak and act. If you find yourself in a negative spiral with constant negative thoughts and reactive attitude- THERE IS HOPE! With God's help there is a way to change that. BOOK YOUR FREE CALL and let's chat how I can help you shift out of your negative mindset and set a positive example for your kiddos.
    Listen to related episodes:

    • 108: Feeling triggered with a crying baby? 5 tips to remain calm when your baby is screaming
    • 34: Experiencing mom rage toward a colic baby
    • 172: Empowering mindset swaps when you feel triggered with a crying baby

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    Next Steps:
    1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame
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    2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program
    ⬇️
    3. BOOK A FREE CALL if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns.

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    MINI-COURSE BONUS
    How to 10x your Emotional Capacity Levels as a Mom
    Leave a 5 star rating and review on the Podcast and email me (hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.com) a screenshot of the REVIEW for free access to my Mini-Course or buy it HERE for $27.

    Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
    Contact: hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
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    25 mins