What happens when you mix intimacy with psychedelics? Jess and I get personal and vulnerable as we recount our journeys navigating sex, substances, and consent. From the ethereal, boundary-melting experiences enhanced by psychedelics to the pitfalls of relying on alcohol for sexual encounters, we explore how these substances can transform or complicate our intimate lives. Through our own stories, we highlight how the dissolution of the ego can lead to profound connections but also stress the critical importance of trust and safety.

Our discussion takes a deep dive into the complexities of consent, particularly during adolescence and under the influence of substances. We share candid reflections on the struggles of growing up with religious backgrounds, the pressures to conform, and the misuse of substances like alcohol to manage these dynamics. Jess provides heartfelt insights into her early sexual experiences and how they shaped her understanding of validation and connection. We underscore the necessity of clear, enthusiastic consent and the continual practice of communicating boundaries to ensure mutual agreement.

Finally, we reflect on the empowering impact of sobriety on our sexual experiences. By embracing a sober lifestyle, we found deeper connections, clearer intentions, and the ability to genuinely tune into our desires. We discuss how setting boundaries and practicing body scanning have helped us engage in more intentional and mindful sexual encounters. Whether you're curious about the role of psychedelics in enhancing intimacy or seeking guidance on navigating consent and sobriety, our conversation offers a raw, honest exploration of the intimate and often unspoken aspects of sexual wellness.