Can depression really sabotage your sex life and relationships? Unpack the eye-opening truths behind this connection in our latest episode. We begin by exploring a 2021 study revealing a shockingly high occurrence of sexual dysfunction among those battling major depressive disorder. Learn how symptoms like anhedonia, low self-esteem, and irritability can extinguish sexual desire, and discover the paradox of antidepressants, which can sometimes make things worse. We'll discuss strategies to counteract these side effects, such as tweaking dosages or opting for alternatives like Wellbutrin, and emphasize the vital role of empathy and understanding from partners.

Moving beyond the bedroom, we scrutinize how depression impacts memory and perception, causing past experiences to appear darker than they were. Hear personal stories about the relief gained from understanding concepts like confabulation and learned helplessness. We'll shed light on the neurological underpinnings, focusing on the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex and its importance in reward processing. This episode doesn't just stop at explanations—we delve into comprehensive treatments like therapy, medication, ketamine, and transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) that offer a path to restoring brain function and reclaiming life. Tune in to deepen your compassion and awareness for those navigating the labyrinth of depression.

What if exploring your deepest desires could lead to a life of empowerment and freedom? This week, the Joosi Sex Podcast is thrilled to feature the fascinating Misstress Val Eldritch, a Sensual Domina who transitioned from the corporate world to the liberating realm of sex work. Listen as Alisa and Val recount their captivating journeys, sharing the challenges and triumphs they faced along the way. From her preference for the term "Domina" to her unique practice of full-body sensual massage, Val offers insights into the softer yet powerful dynamics she maintains with her clients.

Val doesn't just talk about techniques; she delves deep into the emotional connections and consent that form the backbone of her work. She reveals how her background in Ayurvedic massage contributes to creating a holistic, stress-relieving experience for her clients. With heartfelt anecdotes and personal reflections, Val underscores the necessity of a respectful and caring environment where clients can safely explore their fantasies and kinks. We also address the societal paradox where sex work is both consumed and stigmatized, and the courage it takes to navigate such a landscape.

But that's not all. This episode also explores themes of unity and empowerment among sex workers, shedding light on the emotional labor involved and the importance of building trust and rapport. Val provides a raw look at the complexities of the industry, from dealing with substance use to advocating for better regulation and support. Whether you're curious about the nuances of BDSM, the ethics of financial domination, or the emotional highs and lows of sex work, this episode promises an enlightening and empowering conversation.

Have you ever questioned whether you’re "gay enough" to claim your identity? Join my guest Carlie and I on the Joosi Sex Podcast as we challenge stereotypes about swingers and dive into the intricacies of bisexuality and open relationships. I share my personal struggle with sexual identity and the profound impact of living authentically. Discover the importance of being open about one's orientation and how it can positively transform your life.

Celebrate Pride with us as we recount the emotional journey of coming out. By sharing my own experiences of publicly acknowledging my bisexuality and the mixed reactions that followed, we highlight the complex dynamics of family and societal acceptance. Hear about the heartfelt reconciliation with a mother and the overwhelming support from those around me, illustrating the highs and lows of this transformative process.

Shifting gears, we explore ethical non-monogamy and the importance of honesty and openness in relationships. Through personal stories, we discuss the fluid nature of relationships, different forms of ethical non-monogamy, and the significance of creating safe spaces for self-expression. Unpack the misconceptions surrounding open and closed relationships and learn how personal fulfillment can come from diverse sources. This episode is a celebration of love in all its forms and the journey toward living a life true to oneself.