Our Guest for Today's Episode:

Carolyn Laredo

Joining us today is Carolyn Laredo, owner of Law & Mediation, PLLC, with over 25 years of experience as an Administrative Law Judge, arbitrator, collaborative lawyer, mediator, and trainer. Carolyn is known for her exceptional ability to guide families toward collaborative divorce resolutions. Her passion for this work stems from her own experience growing up in the midst of her parents’ bitter divorce and the lasting silence that followed. Carolyn turned that challenging chapter into a mission: to help families prioritize healing, collaboration, and their children’s well-being during divorce. In this episode, she shares her journey, insights, and practical tools for navigating divorce with grace and compassion. Whether you’re a parent, co-parent, or simply looking for a healthier approach to divorce, this conversation offers a fresh perspective and valuable guidance. Let’s get started!"

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In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Carolyn Laredo, a seasoned mediator and attorney, about the importance of amicable divorce resolutions. They discuss the collaborative mediation approach, the impact of personal experiences on professional practices, and key strategies for navigating divorce with grace and compassion. The conversation emphasizes the significance of prioritizing children's well-being, maintaining open communication, and the transformative potential of divorce as a path to personal growth.

• Amicable divorce is possible and beneficial for families.
• Collaborative mediation can lead to better outcomes than litigation.
• Understanding the difference between uncontested and contested divorce is crucial.
• Having both male and female mediators can enhance communication.
• Nesting arrangements require clear boundaries and communication.
• Emotional readiness is key to successful mediation.
• Seek professional advice tailored to your unique situation.
• Divorce can be a transformative experience if approached positively.
• Open communication can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.
• Divorce is not a failure, but an opportunity for growth.

"We measure success by what we give."

"You can always ask for a refund."

"You will get there, I promise."

00:00 Introduction to Collaborative Divorce

06:29 Understanding Uncontested vs. Contested Divorce

12:26 The Concept of Nesting in Divorce

20:09 Carolyn's Personal Journey and Motivation

33:59 Top Tips for a Successful Divorce Process

39:13 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

40:42 Resources for Support and Growth

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Thanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach .

Our guest for today's episode:

Rachel Pedersen

Rachel Pedersen is a Social Media and Digital Marketing Strategist who partners with entrepreneurs to create disruptive, creative campaigns that generate exponential returns. Pedersen overcame the statistical odds as a college dropout, alcoholic, and single mother in poverty and has dedicated herself to creating life-changing business growth that emulates the radical change in her personal life. The reason that Rachel has been invited today is based on her story of her parents divorce, and how her parents contentious divorce was what took her down the path of self-destruction - so what can we learn from this? What has she learned from this? What is her message to my audience? Believe what IS possible.

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@themrspedersen on Instagram

In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter interviews Rachel Pedersen, a social media strategist who shares her journey from a tumultuous childhood marked by her parents' divorce to becoming a successful entrepreneur. The conversation covers essential topics such as the importance of communicating with children during a divorce, the long-term effects of divorce on children, and practical tips for managing relationships and finances during and after divorce. Rachel emphasizes the need for self-empowerment and the potential for personal growth, even after significant life challenges.

• Deliver divorce news to children together as parents.
• Divorce can have lasting effects on children's mental health.
• Trust your instincts when choosing a partner.
• Complacency can lead to relationship breakdowns.
• Open communication is key in family discussions.
• Divorce can be financially devastating for families.
• Learning new skills can empower individuals post-divorce.
• Networking can lead to unexpected job opportunities.
• Embrace change and adapt in relationships.
• Monetizing skills online is a viable option for many.

"Sometimes divorce might be the right choice."

"Relationships die because of complacency."

"Do not add rebuttals in conversations."

00:00 Introduction to Rachel Peterson's Journey

09:42 Lessons from Divorce: Awareness and Patterns

20:42 From College Dropout to Entrepreneur: Rachel's Rise

29:35 Monetizing Skills: Tips for Content Creators

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Thanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach .

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Our guest for today's episode:

Brynn Ungerleider

babysitting so I could afford to buy CDs at the mall—talk about aging myself! What began as a fun way to earn cash soon turned into a 20+ year career in nannying and household management. I realized nannying is about providing enrichment, coaching children, and supporting families through life’s ups and downs. I help kids recognize their potential, often reminding them, ‘Where there’s a will, there’s a way,’ while also guiding parents to stay grounded when challenges arise. Helping others has always been my purpose. From my first babysitting gig to working with families across the country, I’ve supported parents through both the joys and the chaos of home life. With over two decades of experience, I created this agency with career-driven mothers, divorced families, and everyone in-between in mind. Someday, I too hope the love and support I’ve given will come full circle when I juggle motherhood and my career.

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In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Brynn Ungerleider, founder of Premier Nanny Network, about navigating amicable divorce and the impact it has on children. They discuss personal experiences with divorce, the importance of communication in co-parenting, and how nannies can provide stability and support for children during this challenging time. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to prioritize their children's emotional well-being and to foster a cooperative environment for co-parenting.

• Divorce can be navigated amicably with the right support.
• Children are deeply affected by their parents' divorce.
• Communication is crucial when informing children about divorce.
• Nannies can play a vital role in providing stability for children.
• It's important to avoid disparaging the other parent in front of children.
• Parents should work together to create a consistent environment for their kids.
• Healing and forgiveness are essential for parents post-divorce.
• Children need to feel loved and supported during transitions.
• Co-parenting requires effort and understanding from both parents.
• Creating a family re-envisioned can help children adjust to divorce.

"Take care of yourselves during divorce."

"Communication is key in co-parenting."

"You are 50% your parents."

00:00 Introduction to Brynn and Her Journey

02:47 Navigating Divorce: Personal Experiences

13:21 The Impact of Divorce on Children

18:53 Lessons Learned from Personal Experiences

26:24 The Role of Nannies in Divorce Situations

33:48 Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts

39:24 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

40:53 Resources for Support and Growth

amicable divorce, co-parenting, divorce communication, nanny support, child stability, divorce impact, family dynamics, divorce resolution, parenting after divorce, emotional support

Thanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're...