In this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of queer history with Dr. Justin Bengry, a leading historian and pioneer behind the world's first MA in Queer History. From exploring historical gaps to addressing modern queer representation, Justin offers thought-provoking insights, blending academic expertise with personal stories.

🎓 Queer Academia & Research
Justin talks about launching the MA in Queer History, its significance, and the ongoing challenges of preserving queer narratives.

📜 Defining Queerness Through History
What does "queer" mean across time and space? Justin shares the complexities of applying modern labels to historical contexts and why representation matters.

🏳️‍🌈 Filling the Gaps
We discuss the intersectionality of queer history, highlighting the need for diverse voices and stories, including Black queer history and trans narratives.

💡 The Queer Spidey Sense
How does a historian "discover" queerness in historical records? Justin shares surprising stories, including decoding hidden queer lives through archives.

💍 Love & Academia
On balancing personal and academic life, Justin reflects on his journey of coming out, his marriage, and his long-term relationship with his partner.

Grab a cup of tea and prepare for an episode that’s as educational as it is enlightening.

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This week, we’re diving headfirst into the world of K-pop, exploring wild alien theories, and reflecting on the randomness of life. It’s fun, it’s deep, and just a bit chaotic—just the way we like it.

🎶 K-pop Craze: We break down the hype around K-pop and the intense training that shapes these global stars. Is the West ready for K-pop-style pop groups?

📚 Bridget Jones Revisited: A nostalgic yet critical dive into Bridget Jones, examining how its themes have aged and what’s still relevant (or not) today.

👽 Alien Theories: From the dark forest theory to multiverse musings, we tackle some of the universe’s biggest mysteries. Are we alone, or just too loud for our own good?

🌈 Pride Plans: Comparing Pride festivals and why Brighton might just have the edge over London when it comes to good vibes and inclusivity.

🎉 Celebrating a Year: Reflecting on our podcast journey, sharing laughs, and looking ahead to what’s next.

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In this episode, we’re back after a little break, and things get hilariously messy as we dive into what’s been happening in our lives. From attachment styles to a dramatic take on decorating our apartment, nothing’s off the table.

🏡 Decorating Chaos: We’ve been sprucing up the apartment, and let’s just say Faris doesn’t love my (Josh’s) taste. We spill all the tea about our “discussions” (read: arguments) over colours and furniture. Are you Team Blue or Team Orange?

🧠 Attachment Styles IRL: We break down how his anxious attachment and my avoidant tendencies clash (and occasionally harmonise) in everyday life. Spoiler: It’s not always smooth sailing.

🎥 Reality TV Obsessed: We couldn’t help but rant about Real Housewives, Bling Dubai, and how scripted reality shows have gotten. If you love or hate Made in Chelsea, you’re going to relate to this one.

❤️ Arguments & Growth: Why we actually love our hard conversations and how they help us reconnect, even when we’re being extra.

✨ 2025 Energy: We’re entering the year of “not giving a f*ck” (but with a sprinkle of PMA—Positive Mental Attitude). If we’re going down, we’re going down fabulously.

👉 Join the chaos and let us know your thoughts in the comments (but don’t pick a favorite—we’ll know). Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend.

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In this episode, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Morgan Rees for an honest and entertaining conversation about comedy, identity, and queer joy. From chasing the comedy dream to embracing body positivity, Morgan takes us through his journey with humor and heart.

🎭 Chasing the Comedy Dragon
Morgan shares the highs and lows of being a comedian, from his first open mic to learning the science behind making people laugh.

🏳️‍🌈 Queer Community & Identity
How moving to London shaped Morgan’s connection with queer spaces, his thoughts on labels, and the joy of finding community.

🪞 Body Positivity & Beauty Standards
Morgan’s candid reflections on body image, navigating pressures in the LGBTQ+ scene, and the liberating joy of queer spaces like the Scottish Bear Society.

💔 Coming Out Twice
Morgan opens up about coming out at 21, going back into the closet, and how he finally embraced his true self.

👨‍👨‍👦 The "Daddy" Discussion
What does being called "daddy" mean in the queer community? Morgan talks about his evolving feelings on the term, with a side of humor.

Grab your favorite drink and enjoy this lively and heartfelt episode. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more!

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In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, we continue our Christmas special with family members Sam and Sass. From hilarious science "facts" to cultural debates and growing up in two worlds, this episode has it all — heartfelt moments, sibling banter, and festive cheer.

🎄 Christmas in Jordan vs. England: The group dives into their experiences navigating traditions and family dynamics across cultures during the holidays.

🎁 “Science with Sass”: Get ready to laugh as Sass attempts to explain everything from how planes fly to why we can't travel at the speed of light.

🌍 Life Between Two Worlds: The siblings reflect on their upbringing in Jordan, their move to England, and how they’ve carried traditions (or not) into their lives today.

🤔 Body Positivity Battles: The crew shares how they’ve stood up against rude relatives and old-fashioned expectations to embrace self-love and confidence.

Join us for an episode packed with laughter, cultural insight, and plenty of festive family fun. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and ring that notification bell! 🎉

In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, Faris and Josh are joined by family members Sam and Sassy for a hilarious Christmas special. From chaotic gift exchanges to childhood stories of sneaking out and sneaking back in, this episode is full of laughs, awkward moments, and festive fails.

🎄 Sibling Chaos: What happens when siblings can't wait to open Christmas presents? Faris shares a childhood memory that will make you laugh (or cringe).

🎁 Worst Christmas Gifts: From unwanted love lamps to confusing puppets, the group recounts their most bizarre Christmas gifts and family reactions.

🎅 Meeting Santa... For Real?!: One of the most heartwarming stories — or was it just a dream? Listen to find out!

Tune in for festive fun and family mayhem! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and ring that notification bell! 🎉

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In this episode, we're joined by the brilliant Connor Minney for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about LGBTQ+ community dynamics, fitness culture, and personal growth.

🏋️‍♂️ Gym Culture & Gay Spaces: Why do gay and queer communities have such a conflicted relationship with gym culture? Connor dives into the legacy and evolution of these spaces.

👀 Validation & Body Image: A deep dive into the quest for physical perfection, the double standards of fitness ideals, and how this affects self-worth and community interactions.

🏳️‍🌈 Creating Inclusive Spaces with "Gayns": From founding "Gayns" to discussing the need for queer-friendly spaces outside of nightlife, Connor talks about building community, friendships, and wellness.

💊 Addiction & Community Impact: An open conversation about the realities of addiction within the LGBTQ+ community and how it shapes lives and connections.

Grab a drink and tune in for this insightful episode! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more.

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This week, we’re diving deep into the cultural shifts that have shaped the world around us:

💄 Kardashians & Beauty Standards
How did one family redefine beauty—and at what cost? We break down the ripple effects of their influence on today’s society and self-image.

🇺🇸 The Fall of the American Dream
As kids, it was the ultimate goal, but Hollywood scandals and societal shifts have made us question everything. Is the American Dream still alive, or has it crumbled?

🪄 Our Harry Potter Reboot Wishlist
Imagine a series that takes us back in time to explore the origins of Hogwarts’ founders—Salazar Slytherin, Godric Gryffindor, and the drama behind the four houses. We pitch our perfect reboot!

📰 True or Fake News?
In this hilarious game, we try to spot the real headlines from the absurdly fake. Can you guess better than us?

Hit play for thought-provoking convos, pop culture hot takes, and some laughs along the way. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week! 🎙️

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