The provided text explores the reasons behind divorce from both male and female perspectives. The author initially shares insights from women who initiated divorce, highlighting common themes such as husbands prioritizing work over family, lack of empathy, and unbalanced sexual experiences. However, the main focus shifts to men who initiated divorce, revealing their experiences with infidelity, controlling wives, midlife changes, lack of intimacy, and the consequences of early marriages. The article concludes with advice from a podcaster on crucial questions to consider before entering marriage.