Hey y’all, and welcome back to another episode of This is for Us. As always, I am so freaking excited and thankful that you’re here with me today.

Do you ever find yourself wondering what guys are really thinking? Are they checking out our outfits or just there for the beer? Today, I’m so excited because we’re doing something totally new—our very first interview episode! I’ve gathered three single, successful guys in their 20s to ask all the burning questions you sent in about love, dating, and everything in between. From whether they notice the shoes we obsess over, to how they feel about ghosting, you’re about to get an honest look into the male mind.

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This conversation is real, raw, and unfiltered, touching on everything from first-date fashion choices to their thoughts on marriage. Whether you're single, dating, or married, there's something here for all of us to learn. And trust me, it’s full of some surprises you’re not going to want to miss.

In This Episode:

• Are Guys Really Paying Attention? What goes through their minds when they’re out with their friends? Are they noticing us or just there for the fun?
• Ghosting, Texting, and Games: Why do some guys take hours (or days) to reply? Is it a game, or are they just not that into you?
• First Impressions: What actually matters to them when they meet someone new—outfit, personality, or both?
• Social Media and Relationships: How they handle the temptation of Instagram and why they think social media is ruining relationships.
• Marriage and The "Right" Age: When do guys really start thinking about settling down, and why age 30 feels like a deadline.

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I hope you love this episode. xoxo