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  • 9 Covert Ways to Outsmart a Narcissist

  • Beat the Tools He Uses to Mind Control You
  • By: Jamie Keller
  • Narrated by: Pete Beretta
  • Length: 29 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (13 ratings)

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9 Covert Ways to Outsmart a Narcissist

By: Jamie Keller
Narrated by: Pete Beretta
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If you downloaded this book, it is no doubt that you are dealing with a narcissist on a regular basis. He or she is probably driving you crazy. They gaslight you and try to make you believe that you're crazy. They blame and shame you for everything that goes wrong in their lives. They destroy and damage everything that others have because of their constant envy. They want to always be on top, and they don't care who they step on to get there.

I have dealt with narcissists for years in my family environment and my work environment. I have learned a few tricks in dealing with a narcissist that I would like to share with you. I have experienced their behavior firsthand. I feel that non-narcissists deserve tools to equip them in dealing with a narcissist better so that we don't fall for their malicious mind games.

Narcissists employ a tactic called triangulation which causes jealousy and competitiveness in those around them. They pit two people against each other in order to make both pay more attention to him or to cause them the urge to compete against each other for his attention or for a common goal.

Triangulation can be used as a tool by a narcissist for one of many reasons. He might use triangulation in order to make his partner jealous and fear losing him. Her jealousy will naturally then cause her to hang onto him much tighter and to ignore his bad behavior instead of dumping him for being a jerk. He can cheat and then blame the cheating on the person that he cheated with, pitting his girlfriend and mistress against each other to keep him out of the line of fire.

©2015 Jamie Keller (P)2015 Jamie Keller
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very useful tips

very useful tips for people who have to deal with Nars in any form of relationship.

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read it!

if you're struggling with a manipulative person in your life, if sometimes you feel like you're the crazy one, you're the abuser...just read it. it's short enough that you could keep it and read it once a week just to remind yourself why you should stay disengaged.

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Practical Help

Actual help! I will listen to this on repeat until my cognitive dissonance evaporates. Thank you.

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A very quick and interesting read!

The book is very short and get be read within 30mins, this will give any busy person the knowledge they need quickly.

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Simplistic nonsense

These 'tips' could only work ion the very early stages of a relationship, in which case the best advice would be to get out as soon as possible. 'Don't return calls', 'Make yourself unavailable' etc. Better to read a teenage magazine advice column, or just google for a free article.

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