This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn give you our top ins and outs for 2025.

We also missed updating you on what’s got us wet and dry lately so here’s an update🙃

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This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the findom kinks and findom jobs.

Is findom sex work? Is it easy? Can findom become an addiction for subs? Can findom be a sexuality?

We’re talking: The creativity of findom, #findom trending on TikTok, scams, the ethics of findom courses, a tangent on the Lily Phillips controversy, misconceptions about findom, the over-saturation of financial domes, findom wannabes, glamorizing findom, Alpha Kings, are male sex workers censored less?, Mistress Marley, the problem with naivety in sex work, Peggy and Ceechynna’s findom experiences, the mental and emotional tax, the ethics of financial domination, pay pig heartbreak and pay pigsupport groups, shadow banning, feminists against findom, audience polls, listener stories and more!

Related episodes:

The glamorization of sugar dating: https://youtu.be/zTebH_8E688?si=BZfnUL8Oa-Z2f0D6

A gender wars analysis: https://youtu.be/-9yr89y4_Uk?si=IfftNIJeDiPwH67C

Domming and sex parties: https://youtu.be/_YzM45Xs_P4?si=k1Pc8ebXhe0ta9JT

We highly recommend @FD for more on the gender wars.

Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/11qbWJYgGm019SK_V7hpjLkwkC7Nh1bc1Y3r1k_AQHHg/edit?tab=t.0

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This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 3 of this 3-part series.

Should we really blame algorithms for the gender wars? How does self-improvement content effect the gender wars? Do we need more censorship? Are the gender wars all the manosphere’s fault? Can feminism get toxic? What does bell hooks have to say about all of this? How does loneliness and heartbreak play a role in the gender wars?

Part 1: https://youtu.be/2XOze-LgmY0?si=ExT1SQn3VAGKSO2n

Part 2: https://youtu.be/O3zyci01cN0?si=8_m5kQ3LufuJxdHE

Suggested episodes:

Sprinkle Sprinkle: https://youtu.be/iAP_TAUd4ME?si=2Srcz6r9bONz8bEE

Dating paranoia content: https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=5JemidZEqPI6lhbu

The male loneliness epidemic: https://youtu.be/bWGww4hdgp4?si=IlI8ZIWANiCQZYk3

Men and vulnerability: https://youtu.be/VxltakZaKG0?si=Ga5f6mI8Qp9Vu8N3

We highly recommend @FD for more on the gender wars.

Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Db4QdlREDNdJ-BUKrfL8XwZirnnZPOCEW_q1jFogKQc/edit?tab=t.0

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This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 2 of this 3-part series.

From the me too movement and rise of Andrew Tate to the popularity of The Wizard Liz and SheraSeven, we’re running through an intersectional timeline of the gender wars to see how tf we got here.

Part 1: https://youtu.be/2XOze-LgmY0?si=ExT1SQn3VAGKSO2n

Part 3 will be out next week for a full analysis of the political and dating gender wars.

We WILL leave things out because we couldn’t possibly fit everything into one episode, but if there is a pivotal moment that you think we left out please please comment below and share. Our goal is to start a conversation and share insights🫶🏻

Suggested episodes:

Gender Wars: https://youtu.be/ZYv4Zs03Ysg?si=KDAfH4PZvo8wtujg

Sprinkle Sprinkle: https://youtu.be/iAP_TAUd4ME?si=2Srcz6r9bONz8bEE

Humiliation content and onlyfans: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=1qxBpIM1K_WgGXta

Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P

We highly recommend @FD for more on the gender wars.

Sources:

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This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 1 of this 3-part series. From the first wave of feminism and the men’s liberation movement to the birth of the manosphere and girlboss feminism, we’re running through an intersectional timeline of the gender wars to see how tf we go here. Part 2 comes out next week where cover the gender wars from Me Too and the rise of Andrew Tate to the present day. Part 3 will be out the following week for a full analysis of the political and dating gender wars. We WILL leave things out because we couldn’t possibly fit everything into one episode, but if there is a pivotal moment that you think we left out please please comment below and share. Our goal is to start a conversation and share insights🫶🏻 Suggested episodes: Gender Wars: https://youtu.be/ZYv4Zs03Ysg?si=KDAfH4PZvo8wtujg Bumble was never for women: https://youtu.be/cYz6BjjTZwM?si=yBGkVlD58oJzZqzO Humiliation content and onlyfans: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=1qxBpIM1K_WgGXta Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P We highly recommend @FDSignifire for more on the gender wars. Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/103pKZ8kBbGjWVDd1RdDcp6IJvhyApaxFWQBnX9iIFRc/edit?tab=t.0 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive Lily Philips and Bonnie Blue.

We’re talking: Pleasure activism, sex work under patriarchy, Lily Philips and her 101 men in one day vlog, why Lily Philips got into porn, the physical realities of porn, kink vs reality, vlogging behind the scenes as a sex worker and the backlash, shaming sex workers online, porn as performance, performer personas, what qualifies as a body?, breaking the fourth wall in porn, amateur porn vs professional porn, aftercare, do all sex workers have trauma?, the problem with Bonnie Blue, Lily Philips and Bonnie Blue’s beef, the barely legal porn category, the ethics of kink, the paradox of sex work, owning your sexuality vs over-sexualizing yourself, the decentralization of the porn industry, porn entrepreneurs, the rise of web cam work, how much is too much on social media, when sex work becomes your entire personality, porn addiction, listener stories, and more!👀

Intro 00:01:15 - 00:02:39

Putting sex work into perspective 00:02:39 - 00:10:37

Lily Philips: 101 guys in one day 00:10:37 - 00:49:50

The problem with Bonnie Blue 00:49:50 - 01:39:23

The paradox of sex work 01:39:23 - 01:56:37

The integration of porn and social media 01:56:37 - 02:18:31

Porn addiction 02:18:31 - 02:31:18

What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 02:31:18 - 02:55:41

Suggested episodes:

Sugar dating: https://youtu.be/zTebH_8E688?si=P-ZsVtwFxIucKn60

Humiliation content and onlyfans: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=1qxBpIM1K_WgGXta

Stripper stories: https://youtu.be/ncTa7JTXDhw?si=0QeDa-nIfA-aWK4b

Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P

Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Gcb2L0dugzpwoFsYz2U-zOHi4K61KUVOJw6cBiQdDI8/edit?tab=t.0

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This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive purity culture and Disney channel’s purity ring era.

We’re talking: The Silver Ring Thing, True Love Waits, purity rings, abstinence pledges, purity balls, father daughter abstinence pledges, Disney’s purity era, the fetishization of virginity, purity culture, abstinence only sex ed, Demi Lavato, The Jonas Brothers, Miley Cyrus, Vanessa Hudgens, Jordan Sparks, Russel Brand, Hilary Duff, The Mickey Mouse Club era, the wholesome disney brand, the disney star formula, 2008 VMAs, should child stars be role models?, audience polls, listener stories, and more!👀

Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:26

Breaking Down the Purity Movement 00:02:26 - 01:01:46

Purity Culture and Shame 01:01:46 - 01:11:10

Disney Channel and the Purity Culture Era 01:11:10 - 01:40:44

Why did Disney Encourage Purity in their Stars? 01:40:44 - 02:02:43

What’s got us Wet, Dry, and Still Confused about the Topic 02:02:43 - 02:18:09

Suggested episodes:

Sex education in America: https://youtu.be/MerEM56GaGo?si=GPzZ12QMpZWc0QXl

ovulation: https://youtu.be/nw-TNrYj4CU?si=El7EM_kyNLMFKbyM

Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P

Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Gcb2L0dugzpwoFsYz2U-zOHi4K61KUVOJw6cBiQdDI8/edit?tab=t.0

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This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive liberal white women and their adoption of the 4B movement and blue bracelets post election. We’re talking: Decentering men, white women divorcing and breaking up with their husbands and boyfriends that voted for Trump, the dark side of the 4B movement, the problem with blaming men for everything, calling white men in, TERF, white feminism, the dangers of exclusionary feminism, how women uphold patriarchy , blue friendship bracelets, virtue signaling, performative activism, white women centering themselves in their advocacy, talking to our own white communities listener stories, and more!👀 Share this video with a white woman who voted for Trump: https://youtu.be/rabPfnuuHqU?si=kmj6L-Z7OhuDGNU6 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:03:04 The 4B movement’s growing popularity among liberal white women post-election 00:03:04 - 01:18:52 Trump’s feminism: white feminism and TERF 01:18:52 - 01:53:39 White women and the blue friendship bracelet debacle 01:53:39 - 02:25:18 What can we do instead? Pain Aversion and Getting Started 02:25:18 - 03:03:34 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 03:03:34 - 03:22:11 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/MerEM56GaGo?si=B3JA1BATIrW3roP1 https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=HVKOeD_kb0_5GYkA https://youtu.be/iAP_TAUd4ME?si=h9w_C9f0WGJXoXB4 https://youtu.be/bWGww4hdgp4?si=cnBNK3xxuh3ne7TW Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...