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In today’s episode, I’m answering our first listener question from Anna, a fellow Zen Friend, who’s struggling with her own anxiety triggered by her daughter’s anxiety.

✨ Here’s what we’ll cover in this episode:

Why your anxiety makes sense – Understanding the emotional connection between you and your child.
The Anxiety Feedback Loop – How your child’s anxiety can trigger yours, and how to break the cycle.
Practical strategies – Tips for managing your anxiety so you can better support your child.

I’ll also share relatable stories and practical tips for lowering anxiety in your home. 🙌

✨ What’s Bringing Me More Zen:
Stay tuned until the end of the episode when I share What’s Bringing Me More Zen—Here’s a hint: it’s related to Little House on the Prairie! If you ever loved the books or television series then you are sure to love this!

💌 Let’s Connect!

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• Email: yourzenfriendpod@gmail.com
• Instagram: @YourZenFriendPod
• Join our private Facebook group: Your Zen Friend

If you’re finding this podcast helpful, please share it with a friend—it’s the best way to support the show and help parents like you! 💛

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.

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Welcome to your Zen Bonus Boost! This is a short (and hopefully sweet) episode designed to offer support, strategies and tips for parents of anxious tweens and teens.

On this episode I'll tell you why it is important and helpful to validate your own feelings as well as your children's. I'll give you examples of how you can practice self compassion as well as offer your children emotional support.

If you are looking for support for your tween or teen and live in Connecticut, check out my private practice, Firefly Counseling and Wellness: https://www.laurencounseling.com/

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.

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In this episode, we’re diving into 3 ways to bring more balance to you and your tween/teen in 2025! 🎉

✨ Here’s what we’ll cover in this episode:
1️⃣ Reducing the pressure (on yourself and your kids)
2️⃣ Tackling overscheduling to create more room for connection
3️⃣ Valuing relaxation, creativity, and movement

I’ll also share relatable stories (including some parenting wins and lessons learned) and practical tips for lowering anxiety in your home. 🙌

✨ What’s Bringing Me More Zen:
Stay tuned to the end of the episode when I reveal my word for the year and my goal inspired by my love for reading and how I’m using it to create more balance. 📚

💌 Let’s Connect!

• Website: YourZenFriend.com
• Email: yourzenfriendpod@gmail.com
• Instagram: @YourZenFriendPod
• Join our private Facebook group: Your Zen Friend

If you’re finding this podcast helpful, please share it with a friend—it’s the best way to support the show and help parents like you! 💛

Remember, parenting an anxious tween or teen can be tough. Take time today (and every day) to do something kind for yourself. 💕

Enjoy the episode! 🎧✨

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.

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In this episode, I’m diving into routines and predictability—how they can help (and sometimes hinder) your anxious tween or teen—and exploring the joy and connection that holiday traditions bring. I’ll also share a peek into my family’s Christmas traditions, both past and present.

Traditions are powerful—they create connection, foster joy, and give us something to look forward to ☺️

💬 Stay Connected:

• Visit yourzenfriend.com for more resources.
• Join our private Facebook group, Your Zen Friend! 💌
• Follow me on Instagram @yourzenfriendpod.

Enjoy the episode and share it with a friend—it’s the best way to help the podcast grow! 🎙️

Parenting an anxious tween or teen is challenging, so I hope you'll take some time today and every day to do something kind for yourself ✨

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.

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Feeling overwhelmed with all the holiday to do's? Guest and friend of the pod, Vicki Smith will help us to clear our schedules of the stuff that doesn't serve us so that we have more time to do the things we enjoy. Self care isn't just about lighting candles and wearing cozy socks. One terrific way to care for yourself, especially during the holidays is to set healthy boundaries. Vicki is here to help us do that!

It's not always easy to distinguish between a 'hell yes' and a 'no' when it comes to invitations or requests. Vicki tells us how we can feel into our body to better guide decisions. Vicki talks about how we often make decisions from a place of fear, obligation and guilt. She helps us identify when we are acting from these emotions and how we can make choices that we don't later regret.

For any of us with people pleasing tendencies, saying no can be super uncomfortable. Vicki helps us to decrease and manage our uncomfortable feelings. This starts with knowing how to politely decline an invitation. Vicki will give us a strategy for this that she calls, "a boundary sandwich." We'll also explore how having more time for yourself to do what you enjoy, will improve your overall holiday experience. This is your chance to create a holiday season that is truly merrier, without some of the unnecessary stress and pressure.

Also check out my previous episode with Vicki Smith: Ep#41 - People Pleasing and Perfectionism with Vicki Smith
https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/people-pleasing-and-perfectionism-with-vicki-smith/id1646833026?i=1000619209880

Here's where you can connect with Vicki:

• Website - https://powertothepleasers.com
• Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100075839538976
• Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/power.to.the.pleasers/

Viki's Bio:
Vicki Smith is a licensed psychotherapist and a coach who specializes in people pleasing and perfectionism. She enjoys working with these issues because she loves seeing people discover their true nature and then share it with the world. Vicki brings both her personal and professional experience into her work with clients. Blending her experience as a mindfulness meditation teacher with her background in body-centered yoga therapy to help clients get to know the whole of their being. Her mission is to help folks not just TALK ABOUT the life they’ve always wanted, but to actually start LIVING IT OUT! When she isn’t working, she is hiking in the woods with her husband and two dogs or traveling to National Parks to explore outside her hometown of Atlanta Ga.

I'd love to hear from YOU! Here's how to connect with me:

💬 Stay Connected:

• Visit yourzenfriend.com for more resources.
• Join our private Facebook group, Your Zen Friend! 💌
• Follow me on Instagram @yourzenfriendpod.

Happy Holidays! 🎁✨

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.

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In this festive episode, I’m sharing how I’ve shifted my holiday traditions to create more peace and joy during this busy season. Whether you're juggling the magic-making or supporting an anxious tween or teen, it can feel like a lot (especially for us moms 🫠

🎧 Tune in for:

• The traditions I’ve let go of (goodbye, elf shenanigans and cookie parties!)
• What I’ve said YES to, like ordering Chinese food for Christmas dinner 🍜🎄
• How I set boundaries and prioritize meaningful moments with family and friends ❤️
• Tips for embracing imperfection and finding time for self-compassion ✨

If the holiday hustle has you feeling overwhelmed, this episode is here to help you take a breath, let go of the pressure, and enjoy what really matters.

💬 Stay Connected:

• Visit yourzenfriend.com for more resources.
• Join our private Facebook group, Your Zen Friend! 💌
• Follow me on Instagram @yourzenfriendpod.

Happy Holidays! 🎁✨

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.

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Welcome, Zen Friend! ✨ In this episode, we’re exploring why the holiday season can be particularly tricky for tweens and teens with anxiety. From high expectations to social stress and academic pressures, we’ll dive into what makes this time of year challenging and how you can help.

🎙️ In This Episode:

• The impact of high expectations and perfectionism during the holidays
• Why academic demands can feel overwhelming this time of year
• How social anxiety might show up at gatherings
• Strategies for supporting your child, like managing their schedule, encouraging downtime, and validating their feelings
• Why it’s important to help your child face challenges with courage and self-compassion

✨ What’s Bringing Me More Zen:
Stay tuned to the end of the episode to hear about a stress-reducing tool I’ve been loving! This is a bit high teach for a self-proclaimed luddite like me, but it’s been a game-changer for simplifying tasks and saving time.

💌 Let’s Connect!

• Website: YourZenFriend.com
• Email: yourzenfriendpod@gmail.com
• Instagram: @YourZenFriendPod
• Join our private Facebook group: Your Zen Friend

🌟 Thank You!
A big shoutout to our amazing editor, SuZen! If you’re finding this podcast helpful, please rate and review it on Apple or Spotify—or even better, share it with a friend.

Remember, parenting an anxious tween or teen is challenging. I hope you’ll take a moment today to do something kind for yourself—you deserve it! 💕

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.

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Welcome, Zen Friend! ✨ In this episode, we’re diving into perfectionism—how it ties to anxiety, how to spot it in your tween or teen, and what you can do to help.

Perfectionism isn’t just about wanting to do things well; it’s often driven by fear and worry. We’ll explore how this anxiety shows up in academics, extracurriculars, body image, and even social settings. I’ll share insights from my experience as a licensed therapist, including why perfectionism is so tricky to treat and how to approach it with compassion.

🎙️ In This Episode:

• Signs your tween or teen might be struggling with perfectionism
• Why perfectionism feels like a "sneaky" type of anxiety
• Practical tips for supporting your child, like fostering a growth mindset and challenging all-or-nothing thinking
• The importance of rest, balance, and modeling self-compassion

Plus, stay tuned for the segment, What’s Bringing Me More Zen—the item I talk about today are perfect for a fun and inexpensive gift (think stocking stuffer)! 🎁 It's also a great treat yo' self item that is perfect in the colder months ⛄️

Links to What's Bringing Me More Zen:
https://a.co/d/aq7s5o5: If you have a TJ Maxx near you this item is much cheaper there!

💌 Let’s Connect!

• Website: yourzenfriend.com
• Email: yourzenfriendpod@gmail.com
• Instagram: @yourzenfriendpod
• Join our private Facebook group: Your Zen Friend

Remember, parenting an anxious tween or teen is challenging—I hope you'll do something kind for yourself today and everyday ☺️

🌟 If you are enjoying this podcast please take a moment to rate and review it on Apple or Spotify. Or even better, share it with a friend! 💕

This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and not intended to be a replacement for diagnosis, mental health therapy or psychological treatment of any kind. Please consult with your doctor or mental health provider in order to care for your physical or mental health.