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From the moment we’re born, society starts handing us a script. Our parents have dreams for us. Our teachers have expectations. Our friends, partners, and even social media seem to whisper—or shout—what we should be doing, how we should look, and who we should become.
But here’s the thing: how often do we stop and ask ourselves, “Is this what I want? Is this truly me?”
The scary truth is, many of us are living someone else’s version of our lives. We’re chasing dreams that aren’t ours. We’re following rules we never questioned. And we’re molding ourselves into shapes that fit other people’s expectations—while slowly losing sight of who we really are.
The Wake-Up Call Imagine this: You’re on your deathbed, looking back on your life. What would haunt you more—failing at something you loved or succeeding at something you hated?
It’s a hard pill to swallow, but too many people reach the end of their journey only to realize they’ve been living someone else’s dream. They stayed in a career because it looked good on paper. They followed a path because it was “safe.” They ignored their passions because they didn’t fit the mold.
Here’s the truth: If you don’t decide what your life should look like, someone else will decide for you. And spoiler alert—it won’t feel fulfilling.
Reflection Exercise So, how do we break free from living someone else’s version of our lives?
Here’s an exercise for you. Take a moment and ask yourself these three questions:
- What do I truly love to do? Forget what’s “practical” or “logical.” What lights your soul on fire?
- What would I pursue if nobody was watching? If there were no likes, no judgments, no external opinions—what would you do?
- Whose opinions am I prioritizing over my own? Be honest. Is it your parents? Your friends? Society at large?
Write down your answers. This isn’t about judging yourself; it’s about waking up to the influences shaping your life.
The Courage to Choose Yourself Living your life takes courage. It’s scary to step away from the expectations of others. It’s uncomfortable to forge your own path. But here’s the reward: When you start living authentically, your life begins to align with who you truly are.
You wake up with purpose. You make decisions that feel right in your gut. And you start to attract opportunities, people, and experiences that resonate with the real you.
Remember, the people who truly love and support you will celebrate your authenticity—even if it takes them time to understand it.
Closing Thought So, I’ll leave you with this: Life is precious. Don’t waste it living someone else’s dream. You have one shot at this, and the world needs the unique, unfiltered version of you.
As you move through your day, I challenge you to notice the moments where you’re choosing someone else’s version of your life over your own. Pause. Reflect. And ask yourself, “What would it look like to choose me instead?”
Because the moment you start living your life—on your terms—is the moment you truly begin to live.
Jan 23 202510 mins