In this reflective and empowering episode, we dive deep into the subtle yet loud voice of self-doubt and how it impacts your relationships, mindset, and growth. Starting in our brand-new recording space, we explore the art of creating hope for the future and the wisdom behind Lao Tzu’s Tao Te Ching (Ep. 9). Along the way, we uncover insights about recognizing coincidences (shoutout to Dr. Joe Dispenza), embracing gratitude—even at Thanksgiving dinners—and reading signs from the universe.

Key takeaways include:

How to spot and shift negative self-talk, whether in your daily routines or during workouts.
Why meaningful relationships are essential and how to evaluate friendships with honesty and love.
The importance of releasing unhealthy dynamics and supporting others' creative ventures.
A timely reminder: You can’t take on new opportunities while clinging to the past.
And yes, we’ll discuss why ruling a country might actually be like cooking a small fish. 🐟

From tackling self-doubt to navigating personal growth with grace, this episode is packed with relatable moments, ancient parables, and actionable advice to help you take things less personally and live with more intention. Plus, Lola sneezes (adorably), and we solve the mystery of whether house phones still exist!

0:40 New recording space
3:50 Creating hope for future episodes
4:40 Book club LIVE!
6:45 Verse 9 “Tao Te Ching” by Lao Tzu
7:45 Noticing coincidences - Dr. Joe Dispenza
8:50 Thanksgiving / Be grateful for your family / Don’t yell at your uncle
10:00 Signs from The Universe
11:46 Learning to not be hard on yourself
13:20 Seeing progress keeps us going
14:00 Negative Self Talk while running and working out
16:10 This too shall pass
18:50 That old bitch known as Self Doubt”
20:20 Did you have an entirely bad day or a rough 10 minutes?
21:57 Noticing negative self talk in the moment
23:30 Resistance is loudest when you are following your passion
25:30 The importance of meaningful relationships and connections
27:15 The difficulty of honestly analyzing the relationships and friendships in your life
29:07 Addiction plays a part in unhealthy dynamics with people in your life
30:23 There’s no hard feelings in growing apart
32:00 Having hard conversations is part of the deal on this podcast
33:14 Making your circle smaller can be the best thing for you
35:15 Discovering the driving forces in your life
36:12 You’re lying to yourself about prioritizing your time
38:23 “You have to release people with love”
41:06 The importance of supporting your friends in their creative ventures
42:01 Lola sneezes #adorable
42:35 You can’t take on new and exciting opportunities while still clinging to the past
43:10 House phones still exist?!? No way
44:00 Solving the puzzle of what does and does not belong in your life
45:10 How to respond a

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In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of self-awareness, personal growth, and creative evolution, exploring themes that resonate with anyone navigating change or creative pursuits.

We kick off by defining what this podcast truly represents and drawing inspiration from the likes of Rich Roll and other influential voices. Conversations center around embracing awareness and taking the necessary steps toward change, reflecting on JP’s “dharma,” and exploring abundance with a nod to Deepak Chopra.

We challenge black-and-white thinking, tackle self-doubt, and discuss the importance of doing video content for the right reasons. The episode also touches on protocols for personal discipline, cringing at past work while owning growth, and staying grounded by comparing our journeys to no one else's.

Humor lightens the episode with a bee-in-the-face moment and Jerry Seinfeld-esque callbacks. At the same time, we delve into deeper truths—why morals guide what we really want, the ongoing sacrifices in personal evolution, and how the universe often points us in the right direction when we start small.

We explore the impact of consuming purposeful content, staying off our phones, and fostering non-alcohol-centric social experiences. JP shares a vulnerable moment of messing up, but it’s met with levity, reflection, and a commitment to growth.

The episode wraps with shameless affiliate plugs, talk of a “Whoop” group, and a teaser for Will’s upcoming episode.

Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or both, this episode delivers a thoughtful and entertaining mix of insight and inspiration.

0:33 episode 43
2:30 uncut episodes
3:20 defining the podcast
4:00 rich roll
4:40 episode 673
5:20 awareness, taking steps
6:20 JPs dharma
7:00 abundance deep ask chopra
8:00 doing video for the right reasons
9:15 black and white thinking
10:30 comparing your journey
11:55 rewiring self doubt
12:15 bee in jps face
13:00 protocols with yourself
13:55 cringing at our past work
15:00 what I actually want to do / morals
16:30 there’s always something more to give up
17:10 pedaling poison
18:30 the universe will show you what you’re supposed to be doing
19:10 start w the small stuff
19:40 i like being the belle of the ball
20:25 creating a social exp that doesn’t revolve on alcohol
20:50 Jerry Seinfeld from bee movie is back
21:30 dealing w comparison
23:11 consuming purposeful content
23:25 getting off your phone
27:39 break
27:50 JP fucked up
29:12 we’ll fix it in post
30:05 the old me would’ve lost my shit
31:30 we’re definitely recording
31:50 I don’t wanna be mad all the time anymore
32:30 cultivating awareness
33:20 comment it’s ok that JP fucked up
33:40 shameless plugging of affiliates
34:40 whoop group
35:00 preview of wills episode

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