Episodes

  • The Power of Gratitude! Happy Thanksgiving

    The Power of Gratitude! Happy Thanksgiving
    Nov 28 2024

    The Power of Gratitude!- Happy Thanksgiving from all of us here at Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli and The Family Reformation Project!

    Disccover the POWER of Gratitude in your family in this Thanksgiving Day Special Podcast.

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    Join the FRP TRIBE an online community of families who love Jesus and are committed to doing family as God designed... together. click HERE.

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    Learn about how the FRP is helping families heal, grow and thrive through The Family School and Raising up Family Coaches based on the insights found in the best selling book by Dr Randall Bixby - The Family Legacy- Shaping Culture from the Inside Out... How to heal your family, live your legacy and shape culture in the process.

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    31 mins
  • Love and Money: Tackling Financial Stress in Families

    Love and Money: Tackling Financial Stress in Families
    Nov 26 2024
    Welcome To Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli. "Today, we’re discussing one of the leading causes of stress in marriage—money—and how couples can work together to overcome financial challenges." Quick fact or statistic: About 64% of Americans cite inflation as a major challenge, while financial strain often leads to marital discord and higher divorce rates Scott Free CliniDid you know financial issues are one of the top reasons couples argue?"Preview the episode structure: common causes of financial stress, its impact on relationships, and practical solutions for managing money as a team. Join the FRP TRIBE, an online community of families who love Jesus and are committed to doing family as God Designed... together. Segment 1: Understanding Financial Stress in Marriage Definition and Signs:What does financial stress look like? Examples: frequent arguments, avoiding money talks, or feeling overwhelmed by bills. Why It's Common in Marriage:Differing money habits (spender vs. saver). Not in agreement, making financial decisions as one.External pressures (student loans, childcare costs, medical bills).Lack of communication about financial goals or priorities. Share a relatable anecdote or listener story illustrating financial stress in action. Segment 2: The Emotional and Relational Impact of Financial Stress Emotional Effects:Anxiety, resentment, guilt, or feelings of inadequacy. Lack of trust and security…. FEAR - Relational Consequences:Increased arguments and tension.Lack of intimacy due to stress or feelings of disconnection.Power dynamics: when one partner earns significantly more or less. Example: “One partner feels controlled because they have to ask for money, while the other feels burdened by financial responsibility.” Segment 3: Common Money Mistakes Couples Make Avoiding Money Conversations: Ignoring finances until there’s a problem. Living Beyond Means: Overspending on homes, vacations, or lifestyle to "keep up." Not Having a Budget or Plan: Operating without clear boundaries or goals. Individual vs. Shared Accounts Tension: Miscommunication about what’s “yours,” “mine,” and “ours.” Failing to Save or Invest for the Future: Lack of emergency funds or retirement planning. Segment 4: Solutions for Managing Financial Stress Together Open and Honest Communication: Regular “money meetings” to discuss goals, bills, and progress.Share feelings about money without judgment. Create a Joint Budget: List income, expenses, and savings goals together.Use budgeting apps or tools to stay organized. Define Financial Roles: Decide who manages which aspects (e.g., paying bills vs. long-term planning). Set Short- and Long-Term Goals: Examples: Paying off debt, saving for a house, or planning a dream vacation.Celebrate small wins together. Emergency Fund and Debt Reduction: Save at least 3–6 months of expenses.Pay down high-interest debts with a snowball or avalanche method. Seek Professional Guidance: Financial advisors or counselors for tailored advice.Use therapy if money issues are deeply affecting the relationship. Agree on Spending Limits: Set a threshold for purchases that require joint approval. Our Solution: Equipping our family with actual tools on how to steward our hearts and teach our children how to steward there’s. PI tool, Fact-Story Tool…Social Coveneant. Conclusion and Call to Action Recap: Financial stress is challenging but manageable with teamwork, communication, and planning.Encourage listeners to take one step today: start a budget, schedule a money meeting, or talk openly about financial goals.Share a success story of a couple who overcame financial stress.Invite listener questions or stories for a future Q&A episode.Tease the next episode topic: “How to Build Wealth Together as a Couple.”Closing message: “Love and money don’t have to clash. With the right tools and teamwork, you can thrive together.”
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    39 mins
  • Broken Communication: Bridging the Gap

    Broken Communication: Bridging the Gap
    Nov 22 2024

    The Top 10 Challenges that Families Face: Poor communication is one of the most common issues. Couples may misunderstand each other or struggle to express needs and feelings openly, leading to resentment and arguments.

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    Here is what it looks like when there is broken communication in the Family.

    • Examples of broken communication:
      • Silent treatment.
      • Constant arguments without resolution.
      • Talking past each other or feeling unheard.
      • Assumptions - thinking you know

    Common Causes of Broken Communication

    1. Unspoken Expectations:
    2. Assumptions
      • Discuss how unmet or unclear expectations lead to resentment.
      • Example: Partner assumes the other "should know" their needs.
    3. Emotional Baggage:
      • How past experiences (from childhood or previous relationships) impact communication styles.
    4. Stress and External Pressures:
      • Work, finances, or parenting can shift focus away from meaningful conversations.
    5. Differences in Communication Styles:
      • Verbal vs. nonverbal communicators; introvert vs. extrovert dynamics.
    6. Tech and Distractions:
      • Over-reliance on phones or screens instead of face-to-face dialogue

    The Impact of Broken Communication (5 minutes)

    • Explore emotional and relational consequences:
      • Increased misunderstandings and conflicts.
      • Emotional distance and lack of intimacy.
      • Erosion of trust over time.
    1. Empathetic Listening:
      • Practice repeating back what you hear to ensure understanding.
      • “Seek to understand before being understood.”
    2. Set Aside Dedicated Time:
      • Create a “check-in” routine free of distractions.
    3. Use “I” Statements:
      • Reduce blame by expressing feelings without attacking your partner.
      • Example: “I feel hurt when you don’t respond to me” instead of “You never listen!”
    4. Body Language and Tone Awareness:
      • Nonverbal cues often matter more than words.
    5. Clarify Expectations:
      • Regularly discuss roles, responsibilities, and emotional needs.
    6. Pause During Conflict:
      • Step away to cool down instead of escalating. Return to the issue with a clear mind.
    7. Seek Professional Help:
      • Couples therapy or communication workshops as an investment in your relationship.
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    34 mins
  • The Top 10 Challenges Families Face

    The Top 10 Challenges Families Face
    Nov 21 2024

    The Family is being shaken to the core and "as goes the family... so goes the culture." Join us as we launch into our new series The Top 10 Challenges Families Face and how to overcome them together.

    We work with a lot of families and hear their struggle and the pain that these challenges bring. But we don't stop there.

    At The Family Reformation Project, we don't just regurgitate the pat answers of pop psycology. Rather, we work to heal and restore families to God's design by equipping them to get to the root cause of WHY they are having a challenge and how to be transformed to overcome it!

    Join us for this 10 episode series where we take on each of the top 10 challenges Families face offering empathy and solution with practical "how tos".

    Share with your family and friends. This series will help your family.

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    33 mins
  • Special Election Recap with Sloan Adams from TPUSA FAITH

    Special Election Recap with Sloan Adams from TPUSA FAITH
    Nov 14 2024

    With a historic election in the record books and a fresh opportunity to advance the Kingdom of God, what exactly do Christians do now? What can we not afford to do with the opportunity God has provided? How do we "show up" in our families to pray, engage with our communities, and be a part of the great awakening that is coming?

    Today we talk with Sloan Adams from TPUSA Faith (Turning Point USA) about what he experienced in the run up to the elections and where the body of Christ needs to go from here.

    Sloan also has invited to to attend the huge Amerifest 2024 Event in Phoenix Dec 19-22 . use the promo code FAITH for a 25% discount off of your event registration. www.tpusafaith.org

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    39 mins
  • Family Expert and World Changer Segment: with Craig Norton from Beyond the Known International helping families in Costa Rica

    Family Expert and World Changer Segment: with Craig Norton from Beyond the Known International helping families in Costa Rica
    Nov 12 2024
    Ever wondered how to bring the Kingdom of God to a nation in ways that actually transform people, families, and culture? How is this done practically? Hear how it's being done in Costa Rica from Craig Norton, Founder and Chief Executive Officer of Beyond The Known International, a faith based, non-profit organization that exists to develop and support relational based training solutions that empower business and community leaders locally and around the world. Learn more HERE:

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    If you believe in our mission at FRP- Help us restore families to God's design by giving your best financial gift HERE. THANKYOU!

    To learn more about our The Family Reformation Project and The Family School click HERE
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    36 mins
  • Marriage and Money: How to Stop the Arguing.

    Marriage and Money: How to Stop the Arguing.
    Nov 8 2024
    Do you argue over finances with your spouse? Are you hiding your spending from each other? Have you decided to separate "your" money and "my" money? Are you angry, frustrated, or afraid because you are facing financial stress and taking it out on each other? Today's podcast is for you. Dr Randy and Lesli talk about the "real problem" and how to solve it. The tool they share today is a transformation tool that will give you a process for finding agreement with God and each other around money. And the fighting can STOP! Join the FRP TRIBE, our online community of families that love Jesus and are committed to helping each other do family as God designed. www.tribefamily.org
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    29 mins
  • Introduction to Season 3 Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli

    Introduction to Season 3 Transforming Families with Randy and Lesli
    Nov 7 2024
    Here we go! Season 3 starts now! With 154 Episodes under our belts in Seasons 1 and 2 and nearly 10,000 downloads in 40 nations a part of the Transforming Families Podcast audience, we are set for Season 3. We're bringing New guests, new segments, and new solutions for all aspects of Family life; marriage, parenting, finances, communication, forgiveness, conflict resolution, identity, and so much more. Join the FRP TRIBE, our online community of people who love Jesus and are committed to doing family as God designed. Go HERE www.tribefamily.org
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    14 mins