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This episode is PERSONAL.

*Trigger warning - serious tough love ahead*

Let’s cut the bullshit—if you’re still stuck, still waiting for the "perfect time", still making excuses about why you can’t go after the life you want… then guess what? The only person holding you back is YOU.

This episode is a wake-up call. I’m breaking down exactly why we self-sabotage, the lies we tell ourselves, and—most importantly—how to finally stop being our own worst enemy. No more playing small. No more waiting for permission. It’s time to take control and move—even when you’re scared.

Inside this episode:
- Why fear, self-doubt, and comfort zones are keeping you stuck
- The excuses you tell yourself—and why they’re complete bullshit
- How to stop waiting for motivation and build discipline instead
- A no-nonsense action plan to get out of your own damn way

Plus, my Tough Love Transformation Masterclass is happening TOMORROW. If you’re serious about changing your life, this is where you need to be. You’ll get lifetime access to the replay and an exclusive offer at the end. Drop TRANSFORM in the comments, and I’ll send you the link.

No more waiting. No more excuses.

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Trigger Warning: This episode contains some unfiltered truth-telling.

Comparison—it’s the ultimate thief of joy, confidence, and progress. In this episode of Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay, we’re diving headfirst into the hard truths about why comparison is keeping you stuck. I’ll expose the lies we tell ourselves when we scroll social media, compare our messy lives to someone else’s highlight reel, and let insecurity run the show.

I’ll share personal stories of how I broke free from the toxic cycle of comparison and explain why the only competition you should care about is with the person you were yesterday. Together, we’ll unpack where comparison comes from, how it paralyzes us, and—most importantly—how to stop it in its tracks.

This isn’t about sugarcoating; it’s about taking action. I’ll give you practical steps to break free from comparison, reclaim your power, and start focusing on what really matters—your own damn life.

And don’t forget, my Tough Love Masterclass is just over a week away! If you’re ready to ditch self-doubt, set boundaries, and take charge of your life, this is your sign to join. You’ll get the replay for life and exclusive access to something special at the end of the session.

Tune in for a reality check you didn’t know you needed and walk away ready to own your journey.

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In this episode, we’re diving deep into the beliefs that shape your reality—both the empowering ones and the ones that hold you back. This is your chance to confront the stories you’ve been telling yourself and rewrite the narrative for good.

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why you believe you’re “not good enough,” “too old,” or “not capable”? In this episode, we’ll explore where these limiting beliefs come from, how they’ve been reinforced over time, and—most importantly—how to dismantle them using the powerful Table Leg Method.

I’ll share personal stories about how I overcame the belief that I wasn’t smart enough to succeed, and we’ll break down real-life scenarios that might hit a little too close to home. Together, we’ll work on identifying the beliefs keeping you stuck and take actionable steps to shift your mindset from “I can’t” to “Watch me.”

**Bonus Reminder:** My masterclass is happening in just over a week! If today’s episode resonates, this masterclass is the next step to fully transforming your mindset, building unshakable confidence, and finally taking control of your life. Don’t miss the chance to join at 50% off for the next 4 days. Plus, you’ll gain lifetime replay access and exclusive offers only for attendees.

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This episode is your wake-up call to break free and reclaim your power. Don’t just listen—act. Your transformation starts now.