• Becoming Conscious (with Dr. Shefali) #30
    Sep 3 2024

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    Show Notes:

    Have you ever lashed out at your child and wondered "Where did that come from? Why am I so triggered?"

    Spoiler for this episode, it's your childhood... and the reason we do this is because most of us are totally unaware of this unwanted inheritance.

    Jon is joined by Dr. Shefali, the pioneer of conscious parenting, who shares her insights on how our childhood experiences shape our parenting styles. Together, they delve into the concept of the subconscious contract between parent and child, exploring how implicit memories and unresolved issues from our past often resurface in moments of stress.

    Dr. Shefali emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and healing in parenting, offering practical advice on how parents can break free from harmful patterns and create a healthier environment for their children.

    The conversation touches on spirituality, neuroscience, and the essential role of self-awareness in raising emotionally healthy kids.

    Timestamps:

    • 0:00 - A Saturday morning meltdown: Jon’s story of losing his cool
    • 2:43 - Introduction to Dr. Shefali and the concept of conscious parenting
    • 7:57 - The power of implicit memories: How the past shapes our reactions
    • 13:53 - The subconscious contract: Understanding toxic parenting dynamics
    • 22:19 - Practical steps for conscious parenting and breaking the cycle

    Resources Mentioned:

    • The Conscious Parent
    • The Parenting Map
    • Dr. Shefali's Podcast


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    38 mins
  • How to Get Your Toddler to LISTEN #29
    Jul 12 2024

    Get the Autonomy Guide HERE

    Episode Title: How To Get Your Toddler to LISTEN!

    Episode Number: #29

    Host: Jon @wholeparent

    Timestamps:

    • 0:00 - Introduction and Setting the Scene
    • 0:38 - The Frustration of Kids who WON'T LISTEN!
    • 2:40 - Why Toddlers Have Selective Hearing
    • 7:17 - Understanding Toddler Development and Autonomy
    • 16:18 - Effective Communication with Toddlers
    • 22:24 - Tips for Improving Toddler Listening Skills
    • 33:50 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

    Key Takeaways:

    • Toddlers often exhibit selective hearing due to their developmental stage of seeking autonomy.
    • Consistent routines are crucial in helping toddlers feel secure and understand expectations.
    • Effective communication with toddlers involves giving clear, positive instructions and allowing time for them to process.
    • Saying "yes" as often as possible can foster a more cooperative relationship with your child.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • PDF on Autonomy-Seeking Activities for Toddlers
    • How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

    What episode should you listen to next?

    • Episode #22: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids
    • Episode #1: How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids

    Call to Action:

    • Never miss an episode! CLICK HERE to subscribe.
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    Contact Information:

    • Follow Jon @wholeparent on all social media platforms.
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    34 mins
  • The Bedtime Hack That Saved My Sanity #28
    Jul 4 2024

    Struggling with bedtime battles? Discover an incredible bedtime hack that transforms chaos into connection, making bedtime one of the best parts of your day.

    Episode Number: #28

    Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the challenges of bedtime routines and reveals a transformative hack to turn bedtime battles into moments of deep connection with your child. He discusses the reasons behind kids' resistance to bedtime and shares a practical, brain-based technique that not only helps kids fall asleep faster but also strengthens the parent-child bond.

    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Introduction And Importance Of Bedtime
    02:04 - Personal Anecdotes About Bedtime Chaos And Routines
    04:56 - Common Bedtime Resistance Issues And Practical Solutions
    06:31 - The Bedtime Story Hack Explained
    18:21 - Practical Steps For Implementing The Bedtime Story Hack
    26:12 - The Importance Of Sleep For Children's Development
    35:28 - Closing Remarks And Call To Action

    Key Takeaways:

    • The Bedtime Story Hack:
      • Tell your child the story of their day in a calm, soothing voice to help them transition to sleep.
      • Engage their memory and language centers to regulate their emotional state.
      • Consistently use this technique to turn bedtime into a positive, connecting experience.
    • Why Kids Resist Bedtime:
      • Novelty and learning: Kids resist sleep because they are constantly learning and don't want to stop.
      • Routine and regulation: Maintaining a consistent bedtime routine helps prevent resistance.
      • Hormonal factors: Avoiding overtiredness and managing cortisol levels is key.
    • Benefits of Sleep:
      • Essential for physical, mental, and emotional development.
      • Improves memory, emotional regulation, and overall health.
      • Creates opportunities for deep attachment and bonding with your child.

    Links to Resources Mentioned:

    • The Highly Sensitive Child by Elaine Aron
    • Kinetic Sand

    What episode should you listen to next?

    • Effective Discipline Without Punishment
    • Understanding Your Child's Brain

    How to Connect:

    • Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERE
    • Subscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform.
    • Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.
    • Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who struggle with bedtime routines.

    Episode Transcript: The full transcript of this episode is available here.

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    • Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.com
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    37 mins
  • Gentle Parenting with KJ from Big Life Journal #27
    Jun 20 2024

    Episode Number: #27

    Description: In this guest episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon welcomes KJ from Big Life Journal. They discuss the transformative power of reparenting, the difference between gentle and conscious parenting, and the resources available to support parents on their journey. KJ shares her personal experiences transitioning from authoritarian parenting to gentle parenting, offers her top reparenting tip, and explores how journaling can help parents and children develop resilience and growth mindsets.

    Timestamps:

    • 00:00 - Introduction to KJ and Audio Disclaimer
    • 02:34 - Conversation with KJ begins
    • 03:12 - KJ's background and journey in reparenting
    • 04:21 - Difference between gentle parenting and permissive parenting
    • 06:15 - Importance of questioning authority and fostering safe challenges
    • 09:09 - Explaining the difference between gentle and conscious parenting
    • 14:48 - The necessity of effective and conscious parenting today
    • 16:21 - The role of journaling in reparenting and parenting
    • 19:26 - Discussion on the downloadables and free resources from Big Life Journal
    • 23:33 - KJ's number one reparenting tip: Recognizing what’s happening in your body
    • 30:22 - Conclusion and final thoughts on reparenting and gentle parenting

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Reparenting: A crucial step in becoming a better parent by understanding and addressing one’s own triggers and reactions.
    2. Gentle vs. Conscious Parenting: Gentle parenting is what children experience, while conscious parenting involves the internal work parents do to improve their interactions with their children.
    3. Journaling: An effective tool for parents and children to develop resilience, growth mindsets, and critical thinking skills.
    4. Big Life Journal Resources: Offers journals and free printables to help children and parents on their growth journey.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Big Life Journal: Website
    • KJ’s Instagrams: @gentlehealingmom and @biglifejournal
    • Free Printables and Sign up for the Big Life Journal Newsletter

    What to listen to next?

    • How to Stop Yelling at your Kids #001

    Calls to Action:

    • Subscribe: Subscribe to the Whole Parent Podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
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    Contact Information:

    • Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.com
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    Thank you for tuning in to this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast. We hope you found it insightful and helpful in your parenting journey. See you in the next episode!

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    33 mins
  • Collaborative Consequences (Discipline Part 2) #26
    Jun 18 2024

    Episode Number: #26

    Take the quiz to find our if your kid is Highly Sensitive

    Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the concept of collaborative consequences, explaining why this method is a powerful tool for effective parenting, especially for highly sensitive children. As a strong advocate for the abolition of punishment in parenting, discusses how to differentiate between punishment and consequences and introduces the idea of working with children to set boundaries collaboratively. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Jon illustrates how this approach fosters a child's growth, understanding, and self-discipline.

    Timestamps:

    • 00:00 - Introduction to the Whole Parent Podcast and the highly sensitive kid quiz
    • 02:24 - Definition and importance of collaborative consequences
    • 03:53 - Difference between punishment and consequences
    • 05:27 - Why punishment is ineffective
    • 06:48 - Explanation of consequences and their role in teaching
    • 07:29 - Steps to implement collaborative consequences
    • 11:58 - The importance of seeking a child's input
    • 13:44 - The significance of a child's buy-in in the discipline process
    • 16:10 - Long-term goals of using collaborative consequences
    • 17:37 - Personal example: Collaborative consequences for cleaning up messes
    • 26:18 - Personal example: Collaborative consequences for managing screen time
    • 32:52 - Conclusion and final thoughts on collaborative consequences
    • 33:09 - Call to action: Subscribe, rate, review, and join the email list

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Collaborative Consequences: Involve your child in setting boundaries and consequences to ensure they understand and agree with them, which increases their effectiveness.
    2. Difference from Punishment: Unlike punishment, which is retributive and ineffective in the long-term, collaborative consequences focus on teaching and guiding children to make better decisions.
    3. Child's Buy-In: When children have a say in their own discipline process, they are more likely to adhere to the agreed-upon boundaries and learn self-discipline.
    4. Practical Examples: Jon shares real-life examples of implementing collaborative consequences in his household, providing a clear model for listeners to follow.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Take the Highly Sensitive Kid Quiz
    • How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk

    Recommendations for the Next Episode:

    • Episode #11: Discipline Part 1

    Calls to Action:

    • Subscribe: Subscribe to the Whole Parent Podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
    • Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review to help other parents find the podcast.
    • Share: Share this episode with fellow parents who might benefit from learning about collaborative consequences.
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    Contact Information:

    • Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.com
    • Instagram: @wholeparent
    • TikTok: @wholeparent

    Thank you for tuning in to this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast. We hope you found it insightful and helpful in your parenting journey. See you in the next episode!

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    34 mins
  • Parenting a Highly Sensitive Child #25
    Jun 11 2024

    Want to know if your child is Highly Sensitive? TAKE THE QUIZ!

    Parenting a Highly Sensitive Child

    Episode Number: #25

    Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the world of highly sensitive children. He explains what high sensitivity is, how it manifests in kids, and shares practical strategies for parents to help their highly sensitive children thrive. Jon also highlights the groundbreaking work of Dr. Elaine Aron, who introduced the concept of high sensitivity, and provides insights into the emotional, physical, and social needs of highly sensitive kids.

    Timestamps:

    • 00:01 - Introduction to highly sensitive kids
    • 01:24 - Acknowledging Dr. Elaine Aron's work on high sensitivity
    • 02:48 - Improved show notes and additional resources
    • 03:17 - Understanding what high sensitivity is
    • 05:14 - Symptoms and characteristics of highly sensitive kids
    • 07:40 - Evolutionary perspective on high sensitivity
    • 10:03 - Sensory amplification in highly sensitive kids
    • 12:31 - Behavioral signs of high sensitivity
    • 22:47 - Emotional, physical, and social needs of highly sensitive kids
    • 31:52 - Practical tips for parenting highly sensitive kids
    • 41:58 - Benefits of being highly sensitive (IT'S A SUPER POWER!)
    • 43:26 - Conclusion

    Key Takeaways: Jon's Three Practical Tips for Parenting Highly Sensitive Kids:

    1. Establish Routines: Create a predictable home environment to provide a sense of security for highly sensitive kids.
    2. Take Breaks: Allow for regular downtime to help highly sensitive kids process and cope with sensory input.
    3. Focus on Emotional Intelligence: Teach kids to recognize, label, and express their emotions to manage their heightened sensitivity.

    Links to Resources Mentioned:

    • Is Your Kid Highly Sensitive Quiz!
    • The Highly Sensitive Child by Dr. Elaine Aron
    • The Highly Sensitive Parent by Dr. Elaine Aron

    What episode should you listen to next?

    • Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids

    How to Connect:

    • Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERE
    • Subscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform.
    • Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.
    • Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who have highly sensitive children or might benefit from learning about high sensitivity.

    Connect with Whole Parent:

    • Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.com

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    • Instagram: @wholeparent
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    45 mins
  • Sibling Conflict (Siblings Part 2) #24
    Jun 6 2024

    Do you want to know how you can successfully navigate sibling conflict? This is the episode for you.

    Episode Number: #24

    Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the challenging topic of sibling conflict. He shares practical strategies for parents to navigate and resolve conflicts between siblings effectively. Jon also talks about the importance of fostering a team-centric environment and being a safe person for your children to express their frustrations.

    Timestamps:

    • 00:00 - Introduction and Jon's return to podcasting
    • 01:30 - Review of Raising Siblings Part One
    • 03:53 - Principle 1: Foster a team-centric environment
    • 09:49 - Principle 2: Be the safe person
    • 17:13 - Quick call to action: Subscribe and review
    • 20:24 - Principle 3: Be a mediator, not an arbitrator

    Key Takeaways: Jon's Three Principles for Handling Sibling Conflict:

    1. Foster a Team-Centric Environment: Emphasize that the family works as a team and avoid creating winners and losers among siblings.
    2. Be the Safe Person: Ensure that children can express their feelings without fear of punishment or judgment.
    3. Act as a Mediator, Not an Arbitrator: Facilitate communication between siblings to help them resolve conflicts themselves.

    What episode should you listen to next?

    • Raising Siblings Part 1
    • Adding a New Baby

    How to Connect:

    • Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERE
    • Subscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform.
    • Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.
    • Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who would benefit from learning about handling sibling conflicts.

    Links to Resources Mentioned:

    • Mr. Rogers' Song About Feelings
    • Siblings Without Rivalry Book

    Connect with Whole Parent:

    • Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.com

    Social Media Links:

    • Instagram: @wholeparent
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    28 mins
  • Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids #23
    Jun 4 2024

    Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids

    Episode Number: #23

    Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon discusses the importance of raising emotionally intelligent kids. Jon shares personal insights and practical steps on how parents can foster emotional intelligence in their children. Jon also opens up about his recent break from podcasting, the challenges he faced, and how taking time for self-care has impacted his parenting.

    Timestamps:

    • 00:00 - Introduction and Jon's return to podcasting
    • 00:34 - Focus on topical episodes and the importance of emotional intelligence
    • 01:32 - Understanding and processing emotions
    • 03:31 - Personal updates (Why I ghosted)
    • 08:43 - Step 1: Recognizing and understanding emotions
    • 17:56 - Step 2: Naming and labeling emotions
    • 30:03 - Step 3: Expressing emotions in a healthy way
    • 36:00 - Encouraging kids to express their emotions

    Key Takeaways:

    Jon's Three Step Process for kids

    1. Recognize Emotions: Check in with your body to identify physical signs of emotions.
    2. Name Emotions: Labeling emotions helps in processing and understanding them better.
    3. Express Emotions: Find healthy ways to express emotions, avoiding explosive outbursts.

    Links to Resources Mentioned:

    • Dr. Mark Brackett's work on emotional intelligence
    • Whole Brain Child by Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
    • Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

    What episode should you listen to next?

    • Punishment-Free Parenting with Tina Payne Bryson

    How to Connect:

    • Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERE
    • Subscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform.
    • Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.
    • Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who would benefit from learning about emotional intelligence.

    Episode Transcript: The full transcript of this episode is available here.

    Connect with Whole Parent:

    • Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.com

    Social Media Links:

    • Instagram: @wholeparent
    • TikTok: @wholeparent

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    41 mins