Episodes

  • RE-PUBLISHED- S4-Campfire #2 Enough Is Enough

    RE-PUBLISHED- S4-Campfire #2 Enough Is Enough
    Apr 21 2024

    In this campfire we explore the impact of hostile environments ️urging listeners to delve deeper into its effects on individuals and society. From systemic discrimination to personal attacks, hostile environments create spaces where individuals (victims) feel marginalised, oppressed, and unsafe.
    Recent discussions, like Vinicius Junior's experience at Real Madrid and Diana Abbott's struggle to be heard, shed light on the pervasive nature of hostility in professional sports and politics. These instances underscore the challenges faced by those navigating discriminatory spaces.
    Alarming statistics reveal the daily discrimination faced by black women, emphasizing the urgent need for action to address systemic injustices and foster inclusive environments where all individuals are valued.
    While the challenges are daunting, simple actions like promoting diversity, implementing anti-discrimination policies, and fostering open dialogue can help combat hostile environments. Together, we can dismantle structures that perpetuate injustice and create a society where everyone can thrive.
    As Donna Summer's iconic song "Enough is Enough" reminds us, it's time to stand up against injustice. Join us in this important conversation, follow us for updates on future campfires and share your thoughts with friends and colleagues. Together, let's create a more inclusive and equitable world. Stay curious, and keep striving for positive change.

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    26 mins
  • Season 4 Campfire #1 - We're Back

    Season 4 Campfire #1 - We're Back
    Feb 25 2024

    Patsy and Lydia take you through 2023 in summary format where they were missing from the cosy campfires of The Shelf but front and centre in all things called life. There were many highs and celebrations for them in 2023, but there were also some sad times. Pull up your favour tipple of choice, sit back and take a listen. You'll also get a glimpse of what's to come in 2024
    Credits

    Produced by X Block Studios

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    18 mins
  • S3 Campfire #13- GBU: Clothes Shopping + Decluttering = Deep Joy (mind, body & soul)

    S3 Campfire #13- GBU: Clothes Shopping + Decluttering = Deep Joy (mind, body & soul)
    Jan 16 2023
    Its a New Year, its a new day and we're feeling good......We look back at memories made in 2022 with mixed emotions.... happiness, pain and some apprehension of what's to come. We commit to ' moving & showing up differently' we take an 'honest' look at 'How' we looked...I'm thinking of my own Christmas/NY pics/selfies, especially so where I've not felt that great and its all captured within that 'stilled' memory for life, we've all been there, after all 'a pic/selfie tells a thousand words'. Maybe like the many you're thinking a wardrobe revamp would help as you're tired of struggling to find things you love and fit you like they did 'way back when'. If that's you and you're wanting to gift yourself a late NY 'treat' that's a guaranteed investment in YOU, take some time and explore the services of a Personal Stylist. Like Cinders your 'fairy clothes mother' will be there to 'hold your hand' and take away the noise, pain and drama of the mystery that is, ‘what to and what not to wear' to coach you so you’re more aware of YOUR ‘own’ personal style. A signature style just for YOU to make YOU feel and look amazing and ‘ready to do’ in any situation on any given day, week, month or year. Buzz words such as Style Personality & Style Recipe these 'phrases' will be revealed in this humorous but informative campfire. Joining 'The Shelf 'conversation today we have The lovely soul, Claire. A business owner, wife, mother of two sons and a dog. who I quote "loves living life to the full, with fun, fashion and style". Claire is everyday glam, just take a look at her website. Supporting her clients to invest in their own self-esteem and confidence - "Transformation of mind & style accessing power to become UNSTOPPABLE!' "The clothes you wear speak volumes about you - even before you say a word". I Got Style is an inclusive business empowering all genders and non-conforming genders through coaching & transformation of your mind and style. Taking you on a journey to explore you within a safe space, working from the inside out. Curious, Intrigued? Get your self 'Shelf ready, armed with your tipple of choice and The Shelf’s latest Campfire. Sit back, relax and join us as we discover how 'style therapy' saves YOU time, money and frustration, educates you about colours so you can become your own personal Stye Director. After all, "Fashions fade, style is eternal" - Yves saint laurent www.igotstyle.co.uk
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    50 mins
  • S3 Campfire #12 - Simply Francesca-

    S3 Campfire #12 - Simply Francesca-
    Nov 15 2022
    “fly like a butterfly, sting like a bee metamorphosis day by day to become the best ME” Join us as we once again connect the generational dots as we like to do over a curious conversation full of laughs and ‘nuggets’ of wisdom left and right mingled with a ‘breath of freshairness’ - is that even a word! We gain ‘personal’ insight into a dynamic, focused young woman full of Mantra ‘gems’ one of my fav’s being “don’t tell us, show us” We talk all things: 1.’Prenurship’ - Selling ‘choc’s for change to Luxury Customs. 2. Education- mixing it up to get YOUR win/win 3.Spoken Word - What The Almighty first blessed & the church nurtured. 4.Modelling - Striking the balance and still being comfortably you. It’s an eclectic mix and very much worth the listen. We loved recording but listener opinion is encouraged and welcomed. If you’re a ‘new fan, first timer, the ‘occasional listener’ aka - ‘the toe dipper’ or hanging with us with us since ‘day’ - special thanks...this latest Campfire ‘drop’ is guaranteed to be an awesome guilty pleasure, a midweek discovery or just you taking 5 for a ‘Shelf’ break....whatever expression fits best. Let us know what you think Feedback is a gift and we’d love to hear yours. Until the next time Stay Curious Patsy & Lydia
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    52 mins
  • S3 Campfire #11 - 2 wheels just aren’t enough - Roller Skatey Katy Joins The Shelf

    S3 Campfire #11 - 2 wheels just aren’t enough - Roller Skatey Katy Joins The Shelf
    Oct 28 2022
    Hey, Hey Welcome back Today we’re joined by the fabulous Katy O'Brien (@rollerskaty) who shares with us her love for roller skating, a hobby she discovered a couple of years ago.  We were amazed by how beneficial this hobby is for wellbeing (you know how important this is to us middle-young), the benefits are bountiful & endless, here are a few we touched on during the Campfire:  1. Easy on the joints 2. Great as a cross training exercise 3. Calorie burning  4. Good for your mood 5. Works both the arms and legs 6. Strengthens the heart 7. Improves endurance 8. Improves balance, agility and co-ordination 9. Great social activity 10. Can be done anywhere (which one of the host's will be trying out her skating boots in her house and what item of clothing will she wear?) This is a great, light-hearted, and fun campfire that will get you in the mood to at least ‘thinking’ about taking up the skates - whether in your house or at a skating park (there are many situated around the country). We hope you enjoy listening to this Campfire as much as we did recording it.  If you want to find out the specific event that got Katy skating, check out her Insta page @rollerskaty #wellbeingforall #middle-young #rollerskating  Thanks for all contributors bringing you another Campfire Patsy, Lydia, Margaret & Hellen #stay healthy #curious #blessed
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    39 mins
  • S3 Campfire #10 - Equal Pay Day & The Gender Pay Gap 2022

    S3 Campfire #10 - Equal Pay Day & The Gender Pay Gap 2022
    Oct 2 2022
    For over 25 years, Equal Pay Day has helped draw attention to gender-based pay disparities by highlighting how far into a new year a woman must work, on average, to earn what a man did in the previous year. This year, Equal Pay Day fell in March 2022, the earliest date ever in the calendar to mark the occasion. This campfire see's the Shelf have a 'personal' conversation centred on The Who, the impact of Equal Pay Day and The Gender Pay Gap, The pledges and organisational commitments that can be considered to actively address the challenge. This is a campfire where Pay, Respect and Value takes centre stage and we 4 black women discuss where we place in the ranking. #equalpayday #thegenderpaygap #theshelf #bhm #moreofuseverywhere thefawcettesociety #righttoknow #endsalaryhistory
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    38 mins
  • S3 Day 1 - Intro - Black History Month(BHM) - The Shelf’s 31 day Challenge

    S3 Day 1 - Intro - Black History Month(BHM) - The Shelf’s 31 day Challenge
    Oct 1 2022
    ‘Time for change’. ‘Action not words’ is the theme for this year’s Black History Month and the Shelf are doing just that. Celebrating all that ‘We’ we’re are and will always be….black and uniquely beautiful. Join us across all our socials as we get Conscious and of course Curious. #theshelf31daybhmchallenge #fyp #blackhistorymonth #moreofuseverywhere #staycurious #patsyandlydia
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    2 mins
  • S3 Campfire #9 - **DB** Serena - 'Evolving Into' & **DB** A'levels 2022 - ‘It is time'

    S3 Campfire #9 - **DB** Serena - 'Evolving Into' & **DB** A'levels 2022 - ‘It is time'
    Aug 21 2022
    noun. 1. Evolution is an ongoing process, defined as the growth and development or the theory that organisms have grown and developed from past organisms, its how we view the universe and how we think about ourselves in relation to the world around us. G.O.A.T - Serena Williams announced her intention to retire - "it's never easy to leave something you love madly. I love tennis, but its time to take a different direction.....Evolving away from tennis". Today's campfire explores just that. Join us as we 'unpack' what 'evolution into' really means. A levels 2022 - 'It is Time' - https://youtu.be/GVHnT2R72Q8 This Thursday witnessed a 2 year end of hustle. Our own 'shelfie' - Sofia, along with 18 year old's up and down the country received their A level results, we take a 'quick' look at the high and low 'take aways' for this cohort - Was 2022 a Tragedy, injustice or just “another brick” in an already existing wall? Big shout out to those awaiting GCSEs this Thursday........All the best Ammara https://anchor.fm/patsy-christian/episodes/S2---Campfire-1-Bonus---Black-History-Month-Wrap-up-with-Sofia-Cardoso-e19ifi9 Enjoy:-) Patsy & Lydia Host Credits: Margaret & Hellen Edit Credits: Che Cardoso #serenaw #evolution #GOAT #tennisGOAT #Alevel2002 #gcse2022 #education #pharmacology
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    1 hr and 2 mins