This episode explores how positive habits can help people navigate menopause, reconnect with themselves, and build stronger relationships, as Kat chats with menopause coach and educator, Adele Johnston, about confidence, and finding joy.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Part of my menopausal symptoms is that I get cold bones and shivery, so when I go inside the sauna it’s heaven for me. I feel safe, like I’m having a big warm hug, my bones are happy.

• We, as women – females born female at birth with reproductive organs – are the majority percentage of the world that will appease others. By us sitting silent and not voicing what we do and don’t want (like guys talking in the sauna when I went in there to relax) we won’t get it.

• When we think of relationships it’s wider than marriages or partnerships, it’s relationship with self, within professional settings, friendship settings, children. Within the space of work that I do as a menopause coach I work with a lot of women who are no longer in a relationship with themselves. That’s the challenging foundation to build upon to have structured, strong relationships in all other senses.

• Losing a relationship with self is really sad to witness and I went through it. I went into early menopause in my mid-30s and I lost my relationship with myself. Everything from changing body shape and the ability to feel comfortable and confident in that new body composition. You start to question yourself, like if you’re good enough for that promotion, so why put my name in the hat?

BEST MOMENTS

“Sometimes we just have to ask for what we want.”
“In romantic relationships, when we start to feel less than, not sexy and sensual we stop dressing that way and we don’t feel our best possible self, that confidence that oozes out of us that our partners fall in love with isn’t there anymore. That became a big divide between me and my husband.”
“We can get swept up in the whirlwind of life, we can be at the forefront of our career in our 30s and 40s and we can become a slave to life and forget about ourselves and stop doing the things that bring us joy.”
“What’s in your joy jar? Where do you like to go? What do you like to experience with your senses? It’s about re-learning you.”

ABOUT THE GUEST

Adele Johnston is a menopause coach and educator for health coaches, PTs, Aesthetics practitioners, dentists and coaches, specialising in women’s health and happiness. She specialises in empowering women to navigate perimenopause, menopause, and beyond with health, happiness, and success.

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ABOUT THE HOST

Kat started her career as a teacher, before moving into Tech where she worked in different executive roles within teaching and consulting working across the globe, both in the public and private sector. Despite appearing 'successful' on the outside, she paid a heavy ‘life’ price. In 2016, her whole world collapsed. The reason? The compound effect of years of unhealthy and toxic habits that destroyed her health, relationship and career. She suffered a severe breakdown and lost everything. In the middle of this she got headhunted for her first CEO role. She rebuilt herself by changing just one small habit, and built a series of positive habits which has transformed her professional and personal performance, resulting in becoming the healthiest and happiest version of herself.

She is a positive habits international keynote speaker and teacher, giving talks and delivering high impact programmes to organisations across the globe.

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In this episode, Kat chats with sports commentator Harry Everett about his own mental health journey and the challenges men face in opening up about their struggles. Harry shares some personal stories, tips for getting through the winter blues, and how being real with others can make a huge difference.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• I used to hate this time of year when you’d go to work and come home in the dark. Now I do outdoorsy things like going for a run or a cycle during the day and I’ll go to gym when it’s dark. I’m lucky, being self-employed, that I can do that others might not be so lucky. But, if you’re employed and can’t run, cycle of exercise during the day, simply making sure you get outside on your lunch break can be enough to overcome seasonal affective disorder.
• In recent years I’ve not been very good in my own company, I get bored easily and have to ring people to talk to someone. Maybe I’m too extroverted or ADHD but feel like I need to be busy all the time or around people. I’d like to be more comfortable with just myself on my own and I’ve started testing myself when I’m away for work by going out to eat on my own, but it’s a work in progress.
• My best mate, Max, killed himself when he was 19. I never got over it and always wanted to try to help and support him. At my wedding recently I didn’t have a best man because Max was always supposed to be my best man, luckily I had some very understanding and supportive groomsmen! Instead we had a charity box set up for people to donate to MIND which was a positive way to honour him.
• If you give up an hour of your time to talk to someone, on a podcast for example, and show your vulnerability – it might make you feel uncomfortable, embarrassed or cringey, but that doesn’t matter. You never know, your conversation could end up saving someone’s life.

BEST MOMENTS

“During the Winter one of my friends has started to go to bed at 10pm and get up at 7pm to make the most of the daylight hours.”
“There have been nights where I’ve woken up and taken myself to A&E because I’ve been considering doing what Max did. Probably because he did it is why I haven’t done it because I’ve seen the pain it caused his family and friends.”
“I want to raise awareness of mental health because it’s an elephant in the room and a subject that people don’t talk about enough.”
“Anyone can do Movember for free, it costs nothing not to shave.”

ABOUT THE GUEST

Harry Everett is a freelance sports journalist, compere, host and coach who spends a lot of time commentating on Somerset cricket on their award-winning livestream and for BBC Sport on football and cricket amongst other more niche sports media roles such as Media Manager for Badminton England and work in pickleball too. He has also commentated on England Lions and Sri Lanka and South Africa's international sides and is regularly invited on other sports podcasts.

He also tries to be a positive advocate for mental health and in getting young men speaking particularly too, you can donate to his Movember page here:
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ABOUT THE HOST

Kat started her career as a teacher, before moving into Tech where she worked in different executive roles within teaching and consulting working across the globe, both in the public and private sector. Despite appearing 'successful' on the outside, she paid a heavy ‘life’ price. In 2016, her whole world collapsed. The reason? The compound effect of years of unhealthy and toxic habits that destroyed her health, relationship and career. She suffered a severe breakdown and lost everything. In the middle of this she got headhunted for her first CEO role. She rebuilt herself by changing just one small habit, and built a series of positive habits which has transformed her professional and personal performance, resulting in becoming the healthiest and happiest version of herself.

She is a positive habits international keynote speaker and teacher, giving talks and delivering high impact programmes to organisations across the globe.

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