Ironically, one of the most effective ways we've found to sabotage our relationships is to try to be a "good partner." By investigating these shoulds and where they came from, we give ourselves a greater chance at being in truly fulfilling relationships.

Using the podcast as a living lab, we explore some feedback we received on how our sneaky habits quietly erode our relationships without us realizing it. How can we catch the habits we don't see?

While we've come into an Infinite Relating renaissance, getting there wasn't pretty. This week we share more of our struggles of the last four months, and the ways that we got ourselves out of the darkest moments. Join us here and coming soon IRL for our Infinite Relating Community Circle on the second and 4th Thursday nights 7-9pm in Santa Cruz, starting Dec 12, location TBD. More info soon at infiniterelatingpodcast.com and on Facebook.

Bez and Freyja are back! Through many transformations, we catch up on the last several months and explore our diverse responses to relationship changes and how Infinite Relating encompasses all of it.

As we go deeper with Infinite Relating, we discover truth and reality live on a spectrum rather than at a set point. Moving along the spectrum between catastrophe and wishful thinking empowers us to appreciate what we have while also going after what we want.

From parenting to work to romantic relationships, there are infinite ways to be in connection. How do we explore this infinite gray area while having boundaries so we don't get lost?

What does it mean to be partners? Why is it different? Choosing the shared label is only the first step to being in a partnership. Here are some tools we're exploring to actively participate in this living, dynamic co-creation.

As we stretch and expand our minds in this growth work of relating, our nervous systems can still get stuck in old fear patterns and sensations. This week Bez and Freyja share some new magic spells to heal and train our nervous systems that we are safe to explore new edgey ways of connecting.