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  • 2. Get to know Kyle

    2. Get to know Kyle
    Feb 2 2025

    Episode 2: Get To Know Kyle

    What if the voice in your head telling you you're not good enough was louder than the applause you receive?

    In this raw and thought-provoking episode of The Impodsters, co-host Kyle opens up about his lifelong battle with imposter syndrome in the first installment of a three-part series. While co-host Jeff is away due to a family emergency, Kyle and the host dive deep into the inner workings of self-doubt and its profound impact on Kyle's personal and professional life.

    Kyle shares how his challenging childhood, marked by abuse and poverty, shaped his harsh inner critic. From rapidly climbing the corporate ladder in cybersecurity to pursuing creative passions like comedy and writing, Kyle recounts how imposter syndrome has influenced his journey. He reflects on overcoming self-doubt while rewriting an 80,000-word memoir, navigating 250 literary rejections, and learning to embrace personal achievements rather than focusing on external validation.

    Listeners are treated to an empathetic exploration of coping mechanisms, including the importance of mentorship, self-awareness, and celebrating small wins. With a mix of vulnerability, humor, and actionable strategies, this episode sheds light on the resilience behind imposter syndrome and the potential it can unlock when faced head-on.

    Key Takeaways

    Imposter Syndrome Origins: Rooted in Kyle's difficult childhood, his inner critic stems from formative experiences of abuse and neglect.


    Creativity as a Coping Tool: Music and writing served as emotional outlets for Kyle, helping him process his past and channel self-expression.

    Unintended Career Growth: Despite not aspiring to leadership roles, Kyle climbed the corporate ladder, fueling feelings of inadequacy.

    Creative Resilience: His rewriting of an 80,000-word book in just three months showcases persistence despite rejection.


    Value of Mentorship: Kyle highlights the wisdom of seeking guidance from mentors who have overcome similar struggles.


    Self-Celebration: He emphasizes the need to acknowledge personal achievements and let go of constant comparisons.

    Timestamps

    00:00:07 - 00:00:54
    Introduction to The Impodsters and the episode's structure.

    00:01:04 - 00:02:34
    Adjustment to the format due to Jeff's absence, followed by Kyle's greeting and first question introduction.

    00:02:37 - 00:05:45
    Kyle reflects on imposter syndrome, linking it to personal voices and career experiences.

    00:05:45 - 00:09:11
    Discussion of Kyle's unexpected cybersecurity career and the connection between music, creativity, and IT.

    00:09:13 - 00:14:44
    Kyle shares his creative journey, including memoir writing, literary rejection, and self-reflection.

    00:14:45 - 00:20:21
    Coping mechanisms, the role of preparation, and celebrating small wins.

    00:20:23 - 00:27:35
    Kyle emphasizes the importance of self-recognition and offers advice for overcoming imposter syndrome.

    00:30:00 - 00:36:32
    The impact of comparison, mentorship, and learning from older mentors.

    00:36:32 - 00:43:38
    Kyle reflects on his childhood struggles, upbringing, and their impact on his inner critic.

    00:46:49 - 00:48:30
    Conclusion, acknowledgments, and encouragement for listeners to embrace their growth.



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    49 mins
  • 1. Why.

    1. Why.
    Jan 5 2025
    Ever feel like a fraud, no matter how much you've achieved? You're not alone. In the debut episode of The Impodsters, hosts Jeff, Kyle, and John dive deep into their personal battles with imposter syndrome—the nagging voice that tells you you're not deserving of your success. From Jeff’s life-changing mentorship experience to Kyle’s raw reflections on using his challenging upbringing as fuel for success, and John’s transformative chat with business coach Kris Kelso, this episode explores the realities of imposter syndrome. Tune in to hear how vulnerability, mentorship, and shared stories can help quiet the inner critic and offer tools to manage self-doubt in your career, relationships, and beyond. 00:00:04 - John introduces The Impodsters podcast, highlighting its focus on self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and personal stories. 00:00:26 - The hosts share the purpose behind the podcast: exploring struggles with imposter syndrome and helping listeners feel less alone. 00:02:13 - John defines imposter syndrome using the Oxford Dictionary, explaining its connection to high achievement and self-doubt. 00:05:05 - Jeff emphasizes the difference between self-doubt and imposter syndrome and highlights the role of shared experiences in overcoming it. 00:09:56 Jeff recounts how his mentor, Charlie, helped him navigate imposter syndrome and inspired him to support others. 00:12:09 Kyle shares his story, discussing his traumatic upbringing, the drive it created, and the crippling self-doubt he faces. 00:16:30 - John reflects on the paradox of external success and internal struggles, comparing it to a duck gliding on water. 00:22:20 - Jeff talks about building resilience through challenges and how it helps improve responses to future obstacles. 00:27:10 - John shares how a pivotal conversation with kris Kelso introduced him to imposter syndrome and shifted his perspective. 00:34:52 -The hosts preview future episodes, promising interviews, practical tools, and strategies for navigating imposter syndrome. Resources Mentioned: Adam Grant and Scott Galloway on Imposter Syndrome – Gain valuable insights from their conversation. Watch here Kris Kelso’s Overcoming the Impostor – Explore tools to reframe and manage imposter syndrome. Learn more Connect With Us: Facebook: LinkedIn:
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    43 mins