Episodes

  • Sex Toys 101

    Sex Toys 101
    Dec 2 2023
    Shopping for sex toys can be super stressful especially if you have no idea what you’re looking for! This episode gives you all of the information that you need to make the best decision for you this holiday season. You will learn all about materials, types of toys, tips, and tricks on how to use them, lubricants, and much more! If you have any questions about any specific toys, you were more than welcome to message me on Instagram @iamJocelynSilva or email me at me@jocelynsilva.com. Enjoy the episode!
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    55 mins
  • #11 Can you love the people you casually date?

    #11 Can you love the people you casually date?
    Jul 24 2023

    Hello you gorgeous thing!


    Thank you so much for being here! I am so excited for you to listen to this episode as this topic has been weighing heavy on my mind lately. My hope for you is that you will use this information to support you on your dating journey, or to help you see the dynamics in your life just a tad bit differently. Feel free to DM me on Instagram or shoot me an email sharing your thoughts on this episode. I hope you're having an amazing day. Enjoy!



    Instagram: @iamjocelysilva

    Website: www.jocelynsilva.com

    Email: me@jocelynsilva.com
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    30 mins
  • #10 Dating Doesn’t Have to Suck!

    #10 Dating Doesn’t Have to Suck!
    May 5 2023
    Welcome back my love! In this episode I'm going to share with you my journey of transforming my mindset about dating. NEWSFLASH: DATING DOESN'T HAVE TO SUCK! For a long time, I found myself in dating scenarios with people who were emotionally unavailable, and I would often feel anxious and unsettled. I was ignoring the signals my body and intuition were sending me, and I was settling for less than what I truly wanted and deserved. However, in the last few months, I've gone through a transformative experience that has led me to fall in love with dating. So I'm going to share with you some of the tips and tricks that I've learned along the way, to help you navigate the dating world with more ease and confidence. One of the key things I've learned is that in order to have a successful and enjoyable dating experience, you must first love yourself. This means taking care of yourself and your needs, and being aware of your self-worth. When you value yourself, you attract people who also value and respect you. I'll also be sharing my experiences with setting boundaries, learning to say no, and focusing on your own happiness rather than relying on a people you date to fulfill it. Another important aspect of successful dating is learning to listen to your intuition. Often, our intuition is the voice that tells us when something doesn't feel right. By ignoring our intuition, we can find ourselves in relationships that are unhealthy and unfulfilling. I'll share some of the techniques that have helped me tap into my intuition, and how to trust and act on the signals it sends. So, if you're tired of settling for less in your dating life, and you're ready to embrace a more positive and self-loving mindset, this episode is for you. By the end, I hope you'll be inspired to start valuing yourself more, setting boundaries, and listening to your intuition. I'm excited to share my tips and tricks with you, and I hope that they will help you fall in love with dating just like I did. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive into the world of loving and enjoyable dating. Thank you so much for listening! Psssst... let's keep in touch: Instagram: @iamjocelynsilva Tiktok: @iamjocelynsilva Website: www.jocelynsilva.com Changing the world one orgasm at a time,  Jocelyn
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    30 mins
  • #9 Unicorn Weekend in Tulum

    #9 Unicorn Weekend in Tulum
    Apr 28 2023

    Welcome back! You know the drill love, grab a snack and your favorite drink because we're getting in deep into my solo-polyamorous adventures! 4 hour head in a teepee? How I stopped obsession spiraling? How I met the wife of the guy I've been dating recently? A new sex boundary? All great questions that I answer in this spicy episode!

    I really hope you resonate with only wanting hot and fiery people and situations in your life and saying no to luke warm feelings. Reciprocity is so beautiful and you deserve it! The goal isn't to not get triggered but to feel safe enough to move through those triggers!


    Especial shout out to Joe and Joanna! I love you so much 💕


    Thank you so much for listening!


    Psssst... let's keep in touch: Instagram: @iamjocelynsilva Tiktok: @iamjocelynsilva Website: www.jocelynsilva.com


    Changing the world one orgasm at a time,  Jocelyn
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    29 mins
  • #8 Travel Story Adventure #1

    #8 Travel Story Adventure #1
    Apr 21 2023

    Welcome back my love! Get ready because this episode is spicy! I've been a full time digital nomad for two years now... and with lots of traveling comes lots of adventures and lots of crazy story-times! I'm so excited to welcome you to the first of many travel adventures I'll be sharing in this space.

    So, grab a snack and your favorite drink, because I'm telling you all about when I was 23 years old and I did a trip to Europe in which... wait for it... my friend ditched me for her boyfriend! But little did I know that was the beginning of one of my most exciting experiences I've ever had, I could even call them the best three weeks of my life. This story contains a little bit of everything: transportation snafoos, nude beaches and sex bloopers!

    Thank you so much for listening!


    Psssst... let's keep in touch: Instagram: @iamjocelynsilva Tiktok: @iamjocelynsilva Website: www.jocelynsilva.com


    Changing the world one orgasm at a time,  Jocelyn
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    28 mins
  • #7 Why the "Fearful" Goddess

    #7 Why the "Fearful" Goddess
    Apr 14 2023

    Welcome back! In this episode, I'll be sharing the story of why I chose to name this podcast the Fearful Goddess, and how my own journey with fear led me to become the sex coach I am today!

    For a long time, I had a dream of starting this podcast, but I found myself facing a wall of self-resistance. This is what fear looks like for me sometimes, and after a lot of time I learned I need to push through that wall in order to achieve my goals. Because in terms of my goals, I'm not really afraid of failure - in fact, I love failure - but I realized that my fear was rooted in the possibility of success. The idea of being vulnerable and open on this podcast was scary for me, but I know it is necessary for my growth.

    My journey to becoming a sex coach also came from a place of fear. Through this work, I learned that it's not about waiting to stop feeling scared - it's about doing things scared. It's about pushing through the fear and recognizing that growth comes from discomfort. To think that fear, something we normally see as negative, led me to my practice which is making me and my clients happy, opens my eyes to appreciate being fearful. This is why my every day mantra is "feel the fear and do it anyways".

    I hope that this episode inspires you to reflect on your own relationship with fear. Whether you're trying to start a new project, take a risk in your personal life, or simply face your fears head-on, remember that it's okay to feel scared. The important thing is to keep pushing forward and trusting in yourself. Join me on this journey to embrace our inner fearful goddesses and conquer our fears together. Thank you so much for listening!


    Psssst... let's keep in touch: Instagram: @iamjocelynsilva Tiktok: @iamjocelynsilva Website: www.jocelynsilva.com


    Changing the world one orgasm at a time,  Jocelyn
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    17 mins
  • #6 I'm back!

    #6 I'm back!
    Mar 31 2023
    Let's catch up! Welcome back to the podcast! I know it's been a while since we last connected, but I'm thrilled to be back and share a life update with you all. During my break, I took some time to reflect on my journey so far, and I realized that I've been struggling with being transparent. I've always prided myself on being honest with my audience, but I've come to realize that there are aspects of my life that I haven't been sharing, and it's been weighing on me. So, today, I want to open up and talk about some of the things that have been going on in my life. So grab a snack and your favorite drink cause I'm telling you a well needed life update! I want to be transparent with you all because I think it's essential to be authentic and vulnerable in our interactions with others. It's easy to present a curated version of ourselves online, but it's not always the most accurate representation. I want to challenge myself to be more honest and open with you all, even if it means being vulnerable and uncomfortable at times. Thank you for listening! Psssst... let's keep in touch: Instagram: @iamjocelynsilva Tiktok: @iamjocelynsilva Website: www.jocelynsilva.com Changing the world one orgasm at a time,  Jocelyn
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    18 mins
  • #5 My Sex Life Is Not Perfect

    #5 My Sex Life Is Not Perfect
    Oct 2 2022
    A few recent sexual experiences taught me some very valuable lessons. Listen in to find out what they are!
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    19 mins