Episodes

  • The Cost of THE COST OF LOVE with Haley & the COL team

    The Cost of THE COST OF LOVE with Haley & the COL team
    Jul 28 2021
    Haley, her real life boyfriend, & the cost of love team get very personal, with a real time cost-benefit analysis of making this podcast.   Haley & Robert discuss the arguments they had writing the jingle together & their opposing views on weddings. Haley chats with producer/editor Maddie & assistant producer Eliza about their stand out moments. Plus we give you the HARD numbers on what this podcast actually cost to make in ££.

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • DJs & The Cost of Love with Queer House Party

    DJs & The Cost of Love with Queer House Party
    Jul 14 2021
    Born out of economic need in lockdown by three housemates, Queer House Party is an award-winning DJ collective, community platform & queer party that’s accessible, radical, DIY & punk AF.    QHP co-founders, DJs Nik and Seren (AKA passer and Wacha) let us in on the value of accessible online queer spaces & the ins and outs of how they built a community of thousands in isolation.   They dish on how their relationship has been tested by working & living together. What relentless DJing does to ones love of music. & what to do when our passion projects burn us out.  

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Adult Sex Ed & The Cost of Love with Evie Fehilly

    Adult Sex Ed & The Cost of Love with Evie Fehilly
    Jun 30 2021
    Sex Educator and award-winning Drag King, Evie Fehilly lets us in on the value of being connected to our own pleasure -- whoever we are and however we identify.    How can negative relationships with sex become joyful? Why is asking questions about sex so scary, even as a grown up? What is the value of starting conversations on parts of our life shrouded in shame? And when can we laugh about it all?   Evie is a treasure trove of knowledge and insight on sex toys, sex ed and sex clowns. Curious!? Dig in.   

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Bonus Episode: 'The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale' Book Launch Live Recording

    Bonus Episode: 'The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale' Book Launch Live Recording
    Jun 24 2021

    In this bonus episode you'll hear a live recording of Haley's book launch for 'The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale' featuring the most exquisite host, Haley's friend Hannah Maxwell. 

    Action-packed and a lot of fun, Haley reads from the book, Hannah peppers her with questions about it, the floor is opened up for questions from the crowd and finally we hear some amazing stories from out attendees about the cost of love in their lives.

    Truly -- we hear about crazy trips take and stupid money spent in the name of love and the weirdest things from exes that people still have, and Haley gives out some prizes. 

    To buy your copy of 'The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale' in the UK request it from your local bookshop or order here. 

    In Canada, you can wait till it comes out there (Feb 8 2022) or order it from the UK with free shipping from Blackwell's here.
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    1 hr and 26 mins
  • Reality TV & The Cost of Love with Alice Varma

    Reality TV & The Cost of Love with Alice Varma
    Jun 16 2021
    Reality TV Producer Alice Varma (First Dates, First Dates Teens, Flirty Dancing) rips the bandaid off on why we love -- or love to hate -- reality TV.   What are the complexities of 'producing' vulnerability for entertainment? How are some of our favourite reality programmes made? What is the dance between truth and drama? Who has the power, and at what cost?   Plus Haley and Alice answer a listener question about whether you should let your lover invest your savings in the stock market.

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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • Therapy & The Cost of Love with Mary Ellen Mahoney (Part 2)

    Therapy & The Cost of Love with Mary Ellen Mahoney (Part 2)
    Jun 2 2021
    Why do couples come to therapy? Why do we lose sexual interest in those we love? What techniques can grow intimacy within our relationships? How do we know when it’s time to move on?   Registered Psychotherapist, Mary Ellen Mahoney (Haley's IRL therapist) is a treasure trove of knowledge. Returns to the podcast to share what ingredients make for happy relationships and how therapy can give us the recipe. And delves deep into how we can know what we want and create more conscious relationships.   Plus they dig into you listener questions about love and money, and wow wow wow does Mary Ellen deliver.    And finally Haley reflects on her own experiences in therapy and what these episodes with Mary Ellen have taught her. 

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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Therapy & The Cost of Love with Mary Ellen Mahoney (Part 1)

    Therapy & The Cost of Love with Mary Ellen Mahoney (Part 1)
    May 19 2021
    Mary Ellen Mahoney, Haley’s real-life psychotherapist, shows us that “it's the relationship that heals” in this candid, warm & fascinating conversation about therapy when you’re single.
     Asking the tough, vulnerable questions, we explore: How can therapy help us break the patterns holding us back? What's the key to creating secure a base for ourselves so we can bravely walk into the unknown? How do our parents' relationships shape our love lives?   Read the SHOW NOTES here.
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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Ethical Hedonism & The Cost of Love with Jared Philippo

    Ethical Hedonism & The Cost of Love with Jared Philippo
    May 5 2021
    Sexual empowerment. Sensual exploration. Safety and consent. The value of discovering and indulging our desires — in and out of lockdown.    Behind some of the most ambitious, creative and wild parties pre-pandemic, founder of Pinky Promise Jared Philippo has a lot to teach us about how we draw and communicate boundaries in our work, our relationships and ourselves.  

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    1 hr and 28 mins