In this podcast episode, we delve into the second half of the book "Parental Alienation: A Contemporary Guide for Parents, Practitioners, and Policymakers." We explore common mistakes made by parents during divorce that exacerbate parental alienation. The discussion highlights how societal norms and expectations influence these behaviors, often unintentionally leading to harmful outcomes.

One of the key points emphasized is the need to challenge stereotypes and re-evaluate the rules of engagement surrounding separation and divorce. While some behaviors may seem harmless or natural in the midst of emotional turmoil, they can contribute to a pattern of alienation over time. We also take a deep dive into how the legal system plays into the fact that it can make alienation cases worse.

The episode also explores the role of extended family members in mitigating parental alienation. While it's natural for family members to support their own, the discussion highlights the need to prioritize the child's best interests above personal biases. Through empathy, understanding, and a focus on the child's needs, family members can play a crucial role in supporting healthy parent-child relationships amid divorce and separation.

Overall, this episode offers valuable insights into recognizing, addressing, and preventing parental alienation, promoting healthier outcomes for families navigating divorce and separation.

Professor Ben Hine

https://www.uwl.ac.uk/research/research-impact/family-breakdown

Parental Alienation: A Contemporary Guide for Parents, Practitioners, and Policymakers

Kindra Riber, your co-host of this podcast, was interviewed by the ladies on Obsessed. This podcast focuses on the real struggle of parents who are alienated from their children during divorce.

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Tom, a law enforcement officer for 27 years, shares his harrowing journey through a brutal divorce filled with false accusations of domestic violence. He unveils a shocking statistic: nearly 1 in 3 law enforcement officers facing divorce encounter such accusations, highlighting the depth of manipulation during family disputes.

His narrative delves into the hidden vulnerabilities within law enforcement, revealing the adverse impact of domestic violence allegations on officers' careers and finances. Tom reflects on his transition from enforcer to falsely accused, shedding light on the immediate repercussions officers face in such situations.

Amidst discussions about shared parenting arrangements and the importance of presumption of shared custody, Tom's resilience shines through. He recounts his personal struggles navigating the legal system, from unjust restraining orders to enduring incarceration, all while suspended without pay.

Tom's turning point comes with his involvement in Fathers and Children's Equality (F.A.C.E.), a nonprofit supporting parents through custody battles. His journey from victim to instructor within the organization demonstrates the transformative power of turning adversity into advocacy.

Through Tom's story, listeners gain insights into the complexities of family court, the importance of support networks, and the necessity of advocating for reform within the legal system. His journey serves as a beacon of hope for those facing similar challenges, inspiring them to find strength in solidarity and to transform their suffering into meaningful action.

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at theaftermathhealing@gmail.com and let your voice be heard.

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