When a parent is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia and the other parent begins their caregiving journey, the dynamic between the caregiving parent and child shifts dramatically. Through our experiences and conversations with families navigating this transition, we've developed six essential tips to help you support your parent as they take on the role of primary caregiver. Connect with us and share your tips: Website: https://www.thecaregiversjourney.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecaregiversjourney/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheCaregiversJourneys/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suearmstrongryan/, https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancytreaster/Email: sue@thecaregiversjourney.com, nancy@thecaregiversjourney.com Full Show Notes Takeaways Tip 1: Insert Yourself into the Journey The first step is making your presence and support known while respecting your parent’s role as primary caregiver. Key points: Increase visit frequency or phone callsPosition yourself to observe daily dynamicsAvoid judgment of decisionsListen more than adviseShow support without taking over Tip 2: Monitor Caregiver Health Ensuring your caregiving parent maintains their own health is crucial for sustainable care. Key points: Ask specific questions that can’t be answered with “I’m fine”Monitor medical appointmentsDiscuss challenges they’re facingWatch for signs of stress or exhaustionEncourage preventive health care Tip 3: Provide Emotional Support Help your parent maintain connections and avoid isolation while caregiving. Key points: Listen actively to what’s said and unsaidValidate feelings before offering solutionsMaintain normal conversations beyond caregivingEncourage outside activities and interestsHelp research support resources Tip 4: Share the Load Even from a distance, there are many ways to help manage caregiving responsibilities. Key points: Handle digital tasks remotelyCoordinate with local friends and familyCreate support networksHelp with scheduling and planning Tip 5: Participate in Care Details Get involved in both practical and legal aspects of care management. Key points: Obtain necessary legal documents earlySecure medical power of attorneyAddress privacy laws and documentationArrange financial access if neededSupport decision-making processes Tip 6: Support Through Grief Grief occurs throughout the journey, not just at its end. Key points: Acknowledge “drip grief” throughout the journeyHelp maintain connections during caregivingSupport through the final transitionAssist with post-care legal mattersBe sure to process your own grief Special Considerations When creating support systems: Develop emergency plans earlyCreate shared care plansDocument important informationKeep contact lists updatedMaintain flexibility in arrangements About Our Guest Expert This episode featured Andrew Phipps from Empathy Unbound, who shared his personal experience supporting his father as he cared for Andrew’s mother with dementia. Andrew created Empathy Unbound to promote the idea that empathy is one of our greatest superpowers — one that we often don’t recognize or use enough. As Andrew explains, “The ability to take on the experience or position of another to help understand them is invaluable. Putting ourselves in someone else’s shoes helps us understand their situation in a way we couldn’t otherwise.” You can find the Empathy Unbound podcast wherever you get your podcasts. Read More in This Blog here
