• Premium 2: Outtakes from On Using a Known Donor w/ Elaine
    Dec 2 2024

    Join Aisha and Elaine in this hilarious moment in the episode, where Elaine shares the contents of her insemination bag which contains everything from thermometer for temperature tracking to pregnancy kits and soft disks.

    The full episode: https://starttofinishmotherhood.com/blog/s1e18-on-using-a-known-donor-w-elaine

    Show More Show Less
    7 mins
  • Premium 3: Outtakes Black Hair w/ Clinton
    Dec 2 2024

    Aisha and Clinton discuss Black hair care.

    Related episodes:

    Show More Show Less
    13 mins
  • Premium 1: Getting to Know Your Host w/ Aisha
    Dec 2 2024

    Aisha opens up about her past, including the loss of her parents at a young age, experiences of domestic violence, and the impact of supportive teachers on her life. Through resilience and self-discovery, Aisha found strength in becoming a single mother by choice post-divorce.

    Show More Show Less
    22 mins
  • Bonus: Legal Side of Donor Conception w/ Regine and Morgan
    Sep 25 2024

    In this bonus episode join Aisha as she listens in on a legal conversation facilitated by Regine from SMBC Resources and attorney Morgan Schuman of Pineapple Law to delve into the legal intricacies of assisted reproductive technology for solo parents by choice. Discover essential insights on sperm, egg, and embryo donation, as well as surrogacy, with a comprehensive look at planning, donor agreements, and estate considerations. If you're on the journey to solo parenthood, this informative session is not to be missed!

    Email Morgan with your questions

    To book a consultation with Morgan

    SMBC Resources Directory

    00:00 Introduction to Start to Finish Motherhood

    00:27 Legal Insights on Assisted Reproductive Technology

    01:09 Welcome and Overview by SMBC Resources

    02:40 Legal Aspects of Using a Known Donor

    09:52 Considerations for Banked Gametes

    15:47 Myths and Realities of Donor Contracts

    24:27 Extra Considerations for Egg Donation and Surrogacy

    35:57 Top Tips and Choosing a Professional

    42:27 Conclusion and Contact Information

    Show More Show Less
    44 mins
  • S3E20: What's it Like Planning an Epic Trip as a Single Mother by Choice
    Sep 11 2024

    In the final episode of season three, Aisha reflects on a transformative year and shares her excitement for an upcoming epic trip (to Sri Lanka) with her two daughters. Aisha discusses the importance of living an extraordinary life, surrounding oneself with a supportive community, and the enriching experiences of travel. As she plans their journey to Sri Lanka with the help of a dear friend, Aisha provides practical tips and heartfelt advice for single mothers by choice. Tune in for an inspiring close to the season and follow the conversation on Instagram or via email to stay connected and share your own experiences.

    00:00 Introduction to Start to Finish Motherhood

    00:28 Reflecting on Season Three

    01:06 Planning an Epic Trip

    01:48 Living an Extraordinary Life

    03:48 Community and Support

    05:55 Preparing for a Sabbatical

    06:54 Challenges and Resilience

    10:59 Deciding on the Destination

    12:12 Travel Logistics and Considerations

    20:08 Final Preparations and Excitement

    21:58 Conclusion and Farewell

    Show More Show Less
    23 mins
  • S3E19: What to Consider When Seeking Fertility or Prenatal Care in US and Abroad w/ Dr. Natasha
    Sep 4 2024

    In this episode, we have an enlightening conversation with Dr. Natasha, also known as the Medical Tourism RN. We dive deep into important topics surrounding reproductive health, fertility options, and the growing trend of medical and fertility tourism. From understanding a basic fertility workup to navigating international healthcare systems, we cover a wide variety of topics that are crucial for women, especially those in the Single Mother by Choice (SMC) community. Whether you're considering IVF, looking for cost-effective healthcare options abroad, or just want to understand your reproductive health better, this episode is packed with valuable information. Don't miss out—tune in to empower yourself with knowledge and make informed decisions about your fertility journey!

    MedicalTourism RN

    Reproductive Health: Navigating Wellness For Black Women to Prepare to Go Abroad

    00:00 Introduction and Podcast Goals

    01:40 Introducing the Guest: Dr. Natasha

    02:19 Fertility Conversations and Advocacy

    06:10 Understanding Fertility Workups

    16:20 International Perspectives on Fertility and Healthcare

    25:08 Understanding Your Health Plan

    25:22 Preparing for Travel During Pregnancy

    25:42 International Coverage and Reimbursement

    26:17 Personal Experience with International Coverage

    28:25 Researching International Healthcare Options

    28:37 Accreditation and Quality of Care

    30:26 Key Considerations for Fertility Treatment Abroad

    32:24 Financial Feasibility of Medical Tourism

    33:27 Local Fertility Laws and Regulations

    39:17 Popular Countries for IVF Treatment

    41:31 Increasing Trend of Medical Tourism

    44:06 Final Thoughts and Resources

    Show More Show Less
    45 mins
  • S3E18: What's Involved in Breast Reconstruction Surgery w/ Erika
    Aug 28 2024

    Erika was gracious enough to return this week and share the often untold story of her breast reconstruction after a double mastectomy. She shares her thoughtful decision-making process, overcoming challenges, and the emotional highs and lows of her journey. This candid conversation offers invaluable insights into the decisions, surgeries, and considerations involved in breast reconstruction, all while highlighting the importance of support, self-awareness, and medical guidance. Tune in to hear her inspiring story and discover the strength and resilience that fuels her recovery. If you know someone on a similar path or seeking support, share this episode with them!

    00:00 Introduction to Breast Reconstruction Journey

    00:20 Choosing the Right Surgeon

    00:46 Deciding on Double Mastectomy and Implants

    01:26 Challenges and Delays Due to COVID

    02:33 Deep Flap Surgery Explained

    04:22 Nipple Reconstruction Options

    10:15 Chemotherapy and Radiation Differences

    13:03 Triple Negative Breast Cancer

    14:17 Deep Flap Surgery Details

    18:46 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

    Show More Show Less
    21 mins
  • S3E17: What's It like Parenting (as an SMC) Through and After a Breast Cancer Diagnosis w/ Erika
    Aug 21 2024

    In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Erica, a courageous member of the Melanated Single Mothers by Choice community, to discuss her powerful journey through single motherhood, adoption, and a breast cancer diagnosis. Erika opens up about her decision to become a single mom through adoption, the emotional impact of her cancer diagnosis, and the strength it took to fight for her life while raising two young children. She emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, the support of her loving village, and maintaining an optimistic outlook during tough times. Erika's story is one of resilience and hope—don't miss it!

    00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning

    00:33 Erica's Journey to Single Motherhood

    02:53 Breast Cancer Diagnosis

    03:20 Ground Rules for the Conversation

    05:45 Navigating the Diagnosis

    10:10 Understanding Triple Negative Breast Cancer

    11:57 Receiving the Diagnosis and Mobilizing Support

    19:42 Undergoing Treatment and Managing Life

    25:44 Support System During Treatment

    26:26 Parenting Through Treatment

    29:18 Coping with Hair Loss

    33:45 Life After Treatment

    41:30 Advocacy and Self-Care

    Show More Show Less
    47 mins