• Episode 47: Narcissism 2025 Notice The Disconnection
    Jan 6 2025
    Narcissism is a personality trait or characteristic that exists on a spectrum, ranging from healthy levels of self-confidence to more extreme and problematic expressions, such as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). At its core, narcissism involves an inflated sense of self-importance, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. Here’s a breakdown of what narcissism entails: 1. Healthy Narcissism Definition: Healthy narcissism involves a positive self-image and self-confidence, allowing individuals to assert themselves, pursue goals, and maintain a sense of personal worth. Characteristics: Belief in one’s abilities and value. Setting boundaries and self-care. Striving for success while respecting others. Healthy narcissism is essential for self-esteem and resilience. 2. Narcissistic Traits Definition: Narcissistic traits can manifest in behaviors or attitudes where individuals prioritize themselves excessively, often at the expense of others. Characteristics: Craving attention and validation. Overestimating one’s abilities or achievements. Reacting poorly to criticism. Struggling to recognize others’ needs or feelings. Many people may display narcissistic traits occasionally without meeting the criteria for a disorder. 3. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) Definition: NPD is a diagnosable mental health condition characterized by pervasive and extreme narcissistic traits that impair relationships, work, and daily functioning. Characteristics: Grandiose sense of self-importance. Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, or beauty. Belief in being “special” or unique, deserving of special treatment. Exploiting others for personal gain. Lack of empathy and difficulty recognizing others’ emotions. Intense envy of others or belief that others envy them. Arrogant or haughty behaviors. Note: NPD affects only a small percentage of the population and is diagnosed by a mental health professional. 4. Root Causes of Narcissism The origins of narcissistic tendencies or NPD often trace back to childhood experiences, such as: Parental Influence: Over-praising or excessive criticism. Trauma or Neglect: Feelings of insecurity or inadequacy. Cultural Factors: Societies that emphasize individualism, status, or competition. 5. Impact of Narcissism On Relationships: Narcissistic individuals may struggle with empathy, leading to conflicts, feelings of neglect, or manipulation in personal and professional relationships. On Mental Health: Narcissistic traits can contribute to feelings of emptiness, depression, or anxiety, particularly if the individual’s need for admiration is unmet. On Others: Friends, family, or coworkers may feel devalued, manipulated, or exhausted by dealing with narcissistic behaviors. 6. Managing Narcissism Self-Reflection: Developing self-awareness and understanding one’s behavior. Therapy: Psychotherapy, particularly Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), can help individuals with narcissistic tendencies or NPD manage their emotions and relationships. Empathy Building: Practicing empathy and considering others’ feelings can reduce negative impacts on relationships. In sum, narcissism is a complex personality trait that can manifest positively or negatively depending on its intensity and context. When managed, it can empower self-confidence; when extreme, it can harm personal growth and relationships.
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    58 mins
  • Episode 46: 2025 Word Of The Year... Lean On God
    Dec 29 2024
    In 1 Samuel 17:37, David declares that "the Lord who delivered me from the paw of the lion and from the paw of the bear, he will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine," essentially stating that his past victories over dangerous animals demonstrate God's power and protection, giving him confidence to face the giant Goliath, signifying that he trusts in God's ability to help him overcome seemingly insurmountable odds; it is a statement of faith and reliance on God's strength rather than his own. Key points about this verse: David's past experiences: David references his previous encounters with lions and bears as proof of God's protection, highlighting his belief that God will be with him in the upcoming battle against Goliath. Faith and confidence: By stating his reliance on God, David expresses unwavering confidence in the face of a seemingly impossible challenge. The metaphor of "paw": The "paw" of the lion and bear symbolizes the danger and power of these wild animals, further emphasizing the magnitude of the threats David had previously faced.
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    28 mins
  • Episode 45: Yah's Way Or The Highway - Son or Bastard?
    Dec 29 2024
    In Hebrews 12:8 (KJV), the word bastard is used: "But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons." The use of the word bastard in this context is both cultural and theological. Here’s why the writer of Hebrews chose this term and its significance: 1. Historical Context of the Term "Bastard" In ancient times, the term bastard referred to a child born out of wedlock or to someone who did not have a recognized legal father. Such children were often excluded from the family inheritance and societal privileges. In the Old Testament, under Jewish law, bastards (Hebrew: mamzer) were excluded from the assembly of the Lord (Deuteronomy 23:2). This exclusion was symbolic of not belonging to the covenant community and being outside the blessing and discipline of God. 2. Theological Implication The writer of Hebrews uses the term metaphorically to emphasize the relationship between God and His children: Chastisement is evidence of sonship: In the passage, God’s discipline (or chastisement) is presented as evidence that someone is truly His child. Just as a loving father disciplines his legitimate children to correct and guide them, God disciplines those who belong to Him. No chastisement = no relationship: The term bastard is used to describe someone who does not have a legitimate claim to God as their Father. In essence, if a person is not experiencing God’s discipline, it is an indication that they are not truly His child. 3. Why Use Such a Strong Word? The word bastard carries a sense of exclusion and alienation, which drives home the seriousness of the point. The writer is making a stark contrast between those who are legitimate children of God and those who are not: A legitimate child enjoys the privileges of relationship, correction, and inheritance from their father.A bastard does not share in those privileges, signifying a lack of true connection to the family of God.This strong language was intended to encourage the audience (Jewish Christians undergoing trials) to endure God’s discipline, understanding it as evidence of their belonging to Him. 4. Application for Believers The use of the term bastard reminds believers of the importance of God’s discipline in their lives. It challenges them to: Rejoice in God's discipline: Rather than resenting correction, believers should see it as proof of God’s fatherly care and their secure place in His family.Evaluate their spiritual relationship: Those who live without any sense of God’s correction or guidance might need to examine whether they truly have a relationship with Him.Conclusion The word bastard in Hebrews 12:8 is not used to insult but to illustrate a profound spiritual truth: God’s discipline is a mark of His love and proof of our legitimacy as His children. Without it, we would be like illegitimate children, without a claim to His inheritance or His care. Thus, the word serves as a sobering reminder of the blessings and responsibilities of being in God’s family.
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Episode 44: Have You Realized You're Different?
    Dec 26 2024
    "Different" means not being the same as others, or having a unique characteristic. It can refer to a person's appearance, personality, beliefs, or other traits. For example, you might describe someone as different if they have a unique personality, interests, or talents. Here are some synonyms for "different": Contrary, Divergent, Diverse, Unlike, Dissimilar, and Heterogeneous.Here are some examples of "different" in a sentence:"This apple is different from the others in size and color". "Australia has its own cultural identity, which is very different from that of Britain". "The word 'flight' has two different meanings: a plane trip, and the act of running away".
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    52 mins
  • Episode 43: He Is In The Fire With You
    Dec 25 2024
    Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are three men from the Bible story in Daniel 3, who were thrown into a fiery furnace by King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon because they refused to worship a golden statue, demonstrating their unwavering faith in God even in the face of extreme danger; they emerged unharmed from the fire, leading the king to praise their God. Key points about Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego:The story:They were Jewish exiles in Babylon who held high positions in the court, but when ordered to bow down to a golden statue, they refused, leading to their punishment by being thrown into a superheated furnace. Their faith:Despite the threat of death, they trusted in God's protection and refused to compromise their beliefs. The miracle:When the king looked into the furnace, he saw not three men but four, interpreted as a divine presence protecting them from the flames. The outcome:Nebuchadnezzar was astonished and praised their God, promoting the three men to even higher positions.
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    9 mins
  • Episode 42: 48 Laws Of Power | Law 20 | Do not commit to the wrong person
    Dec 25 2024
    Law 20 of The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene is "Do Not Commit to Anyone". The law advises against committing to a person or group, as it can limit your options and make you vulnerable to manipulation or betrayal. Instead, it suggests maintaining your independence and keeping your options open. The law's principle is to foster self-sufficiency and adaptability. By not committing too closely to a person or group, you can open up many opportunities. You can also maintain a superior bargaining position when multiple parties are vying for your support. https://www.amazon.com/48-Laws-Power-Robert-Greene/dp/0140280197
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    1 hr
  • Episode 41: The Lesser Lights - A Genesis 1 Connection To Matthew 4
    Dec 23 2024
    Have you ever noticed that Genesis chapter 1 is connected to matthew chapter 4. If you look real closely you can see where God created 2 great lights in Genesis 1, the sun and the moon. Matthew 4 Christ is appearing to be that great light to the gentiles, and then goes straight to create lesser lights in Andrew and Peter. When we remember that we are the lesser lights, pride shouldn't be a problem. 'And God made two great lights; the greater light to rule the day, and the lesser light to rule the night: he made the stars also. ' https://www.bible.com/bible/1/GEN.1.KJV https://www.bible.com/bible/1/MAT.4.KJV Genesis 1:16 https://www.bible.com/bible/1/GEN.1.16
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    56 mins
  • Episode 40: 48 Laws Of Power | Law 19 | Discerning Relationships | Why They Don't Like You
    Dec 3 2024
    Law 19: Know Who You're Dealing With — Do Not Offend The Wrong Person. There are many different kinds of people in the world, and you can never assume that everyone will react to your strategies in the same way. Deceive or outmaneuver some people and they will spend the rest of their lives seeking revenge.
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    1 hr and 10 mins