Should Have Listened to My Mother Podcast

By: Jackie Tantillo
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  • Host Jackie Tantillo is proud to announce that "Should Have Listened To My Mother " has won a 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award for best podcast in the Society and Culture Category. SHLTMM is also a 2024 Nominee in two additional categories including, "Best Female" Hosted Podcast & "Best Podcast" in the Kids and Family category. SHLTMM is an ongoing conversation about mothers/female role models and the role they play/played in ones life. The mother/son, mother/daughter bond is unique for each of us and it is like no other. "You'll be amazed at human nature and how we can overcome our obstacles, says the podcast host. Our mother/son--mother/daughter relationship is such an integral part of who we are. What we choose to do with it, is up to us, not our mother. "Did your mom influence you by her actions or words or both? Are you who you are today because of or in spite of, your mother? What would you say to your mother if you could speak with her again today? This is a once in a lifetime opportunity to learn from others about who and/or what shaped their life. My guests, some of which share similar backgrounds, interestingly enough, had completely different outcomes in their future. Why is that? I hope you enjoy these timeless oral history recordings of the role mothers and maternal figures have played throughout society. The impact these women have on our lives is insurmountable. What the women that preceded us overcame has undeniably given us liberties and knowledge enabling us to have the bright future that we have. They opened so many doors regardless if they were in the eye of the nation or merely in the hearts of their children, and they should be given a voice. Yes hindsight is 20/20, but by sharing these stories now, we can help the next generations of mothers and give them the tools they need to stay healthy, balanced and strong for the betterment of their children and themselves.
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  • Her Magic and Kindness Touched Not Only her Family But Also Those In Need With Guest Family Patterns Expert, Systemic Coach and Author, Judy Wilkins Smith

    Her Magic and Kindness Touched Not Only her Family But Also Those In Need With Guest Family Patterns Expert, Systemic Coach and Author, Judy Wilkins Smith
    Jan 21 2025
    In 2024, Judy released her book, "The Hidden Power in Your DNA." She's also published "Decoding Your Emotional Blueprint," and you can get more information about placing an order on her website. The information is below.Judy immediately told me that she's not one that doesn't love her mother. She and her mother are very close and she can't say enough great things about her experience as a child. Shirley created a wonderful environment to experience as a child. "Her parents were strict but loving. Judy says she knew what her boundaries were in terms of not just outward but inward. I never felt like it was so strict, I couldn't breathe. I knew what discipline looked like." Shirley used to say "if you're going to do something, do it properly or don't bother." And Judy interprets that by saying, "there's a whole bunch of magic in doing something really, really well. Invest in yourself and it makes soul magic. Investing in yourself through that process, it makes soul magic."Judy goes on to describe how when her mum was working in the garden, she put her two daughter's in a wheelbarrow when they were little girls. Shirley lined the wheelbarrow with a blanket and filled it with snacks, drinks, books and things to play with and it is to this day one of Judy's fondest memories. Again, Shirley always created magic.Judy loves everything Disney, again because it's magical. And Judy suggests you "watch Encanto and Frozen because you are the magic, you are the imagineer, you are the one who can make it happen. You are the creator of what's possible."As we were saying goodbye to one another, Judy professed, "mothers are amazing. "And every single gift your mother ever gave you was meant for you, because it grows you the way that you can be and only you can be, don't forget it. Even when the gift doesn't look great."Hope you enjoy the episode. There's so many more wonderful stories about Judy, her mother and Judy's step daughter and their loving relationship. Judy is so grateful for all that her mother taught her and how she was raised.Explore the Transformative World of Systemic Constellation Work!For two decades, Judy has been assisting high-performance individuals, Fortune 500 executives, organizational teams and legacy families to create lasting breakthroughs and peak performance with systemic constellation work.-Learn how to literally see, hear, feel, and interact with previously invisible patterns and unconscious loyalties you’ve inherited from your family system and society that have been holding you back.-Create powerful perceptual “reframes” that will rewire your brain, creating new affirming patterns that will support greater success, healthier relationships, and overall wellbeing.-Transform your inherited emotional DNA, and access the tools to start walking into the greatest future possible. -You were not put on this earth to play small. There is greatness in you. Let Judy show you how to break free from limiting family and social patterns and open the door to possibilities and unlimited potential with the power of Systemic Constellation Work.WHAT IS SYSTEMIC COACHING: https://judywilkins-smith.com/systemic-coaching/JUDY SAYS -*”DON’T BE INTIMIDATED BE CURIOUS”-SYSTEMIC WORK AND ORGANIZATIONAL CONSTELLATIONS, GENERATIONS AT WORK FOR FAMILY. YOUR PROBLEMS DIDN’T’ NECESSARILY BELONG TO YOU. YOU INHERENT EMOTIONAL DNA, IE HOLOCAUST SURVIVORS-IT’S ALL PASSED DOWN. BREAK CYCLES OR PATTERNS. I DON’T WANT TO DO WHAT DAD DID AND HE DIDN’T MAKE IT.- LOOK AT YOUR FAMILY PATTERN, HOW IS IT AFFECTING YOU.-JUDY SAYS-THE UNIVERSE HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR.-FATHER KILLED AS HE WAS PLANNING FAMILY IMMIGRATION WHILE IN THE UNITED STATES. DESTABILIZED THE FAMILY. SHE BEGAN TO UNDERSTAND, THE POWER OF LOOKING AT FAMILY SYSTEM, POWER THAT LOOKS LIKE REJECTION OR FRACTURES. HOW FAMILY FRACTURES BEGIN TO SEE EVERY EVENT/ELEMENT OF YOUR LIFE IS IN SERVICE OF YOUR HIGHER GOOD. -BORN AND RAISED IN SOUTH AFRICA. MOVED TO THE UNITED STATES AS AN ADULT.-JUDY SHOW’S PEOPLE HOW TO MAKE THEIR OWN MAGIC.-I CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE WITH MY VOICE, I’M NOT SMALL OR INCAPABLE.-FEEL UNSTUCK-WHEN YOU COME TO A WORKSHOP, HIGHLY INTERACTIVE, EXPERIENTIAL, ALL ABOUT YOU-MOVE FROM WHAT IF TO WHAT’S POSSIBLE.Judy Wilkins SmithSocial Media Links:WEBSITE: https://judywilkins-smith.com/• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judywilkinssmith/ • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/judywilkinssmith • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/judywilkinssmith/ "Should Have Listened To My Mother" is an ongoing conversation about mothers/female role models and the roles they play in our lives. Jackie's guests are open and honest and answer the question, are you who you are today because of, or in spite of, your mother and so much more. You'll be amazed at what the responses are.Gina Kunadian wrote this 5 Star review on Apple Podcast:SHLTMM TESTIMONIAL GINA KUNADIAN JUNE 18, 2024“A Heartfelt and Insightful ...
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    33 mins
  • In Spite of Childhood Challenges, Life Inspired Millie to be Grateful and Selfless with Guests, Creators of Millie’s Sipping Broth, Lori Peha Kezner and Llance Kezner

    In Spite of Childhood Challenges, Life Inspired Millie to be Grateful and Selfless with Guests, Creators of Millie’s Sipping Broth, Lori Peha Kezner and Llance Kezner
    Jan 14 2025
    Both Llance and Lori share that Milly was a generous and wonderful person. "There was a real strength about her" continues Lori," and I didn't see her cry very often."Again, Milly had wonderful qualities about her even after major setbacks . Lori's mother and father had four children and raised them in the Seattle, WA area. Lori's youngest brother, is developmentally disabled which, Lori says, "it gave our family a different dynamic. All my mother wanted was the best for her kids. I think of how hard my mom worked to just give us a normal life, in spite of the challenges." So in honor of Milly, they named their soups after her.The broths came to fruition because Lori was a long time teacher and for years would bring a bouillon to work with her and add hot water for a nutritional snack. That's when Llance said, I'm going to try and make you something more nutritious and with less salt. And the creation of Millie's Sipping Broth had it's beginning.I don't know if you're familiar with the podcast "How I Built This" with host Guy Raz. Well I listened to an episode and Llance was a guest on the show. Guy also had an entrepreneur cohost, Jim Koch, Founder of Samuel Adams Beer. The two hosts talk through a business venture idea with each caller and give advice. Well Llance got some great feedback from both gentleman and things really seems to be taking off for Milly's Sipping Broth.Llance created a discount code for SHLTMM podcast listeners. The code is " mom20" for 20% off anything at milliessippingbroth.com. A link for the offer is attached here; https://milliessippingbroth.com/discount/mom20Thank you so much for listening. I hope you enjoy this episode. FACEBOOK: Milly's Sipping Broth INSTAGRAM: @sippingbroths LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/sippingbroth Lori Peha Kezner, Llance Kezner, Millie’s Sipping Broth OTHER: WEBSITE: www.sippingbroth.com "Should Have Listened To My Mother" is an ongoing conversation about mothers/female role models and the roles they play in our lives. Jackie's guests are open and honest and answer the question, are you who you are today because of, or in spite of, your mother and so much more. You'll be amazed at what the responses are.Gina Kunadian wrote this 5 Star review on Apple Podcast:SHLTMM TESTIMONIAL GINA KUNADIAN JUNE 18, 2024“A Heartfelt and Insightful Exploration of Maternal Love”Jackie Tantillo’s “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast is a treasure and it’s clear why it’s a 2023 People’s Choice Podcast Award Nominee. This show delves into the profound impact mother and maternal role models have on our lives through personal stories and reflections.Each episode offers a chance to learn how different individuals have been shaped by their mothers’ actions and words. Jackie skillfully guides these conversations, revealing why guests with similar backgrounds have forged different paths.This podcast is a collection of timeless stories that highlight the powerful role of maternal figures in our society. Whether your mother influenced you positively or you thrived despite challenges, this show resonates deeply.I highly recommend “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast for its insightful, heartfelt and enriching content.Gina Kunadian"Should Have Listened To My Mother" would not be possible without the generosity, sincerity and insight from my guests. In 2018/2019, in getting ready to launch my podcast, so many were willing to give their time and share their personal stories of their relationship with their mother, for better or worse and what they learned from that maternal relationship. Some of my guests include Nationally and Internationally recognized authors, Journalists, Columbia University Professors, Health Practitioners, Scientists, Artists, Attorneys, Baritone Singer, Pulitzer Prize Winning Journalist, Activists, Freighter Sea Captain, Film Production Manager, Professor of Writing Montclair State University, Attorney and family advocate @CUNY Law; NYC First Responder/NYC Firefighter, Child and Adult Special Needs Activist, Property Manager, Chefs, Self Help Advocates, therapists and so many more talented and insightful women and men.Jackie has worked in the broadcasting industry for over four decades. She has interviewed many fascinating people including musicians, celebrities, authors, activists, entrepreneurs, politicians and more.A big thank you goes to Ricky Soto, NYC based Graphic Designer, who created the logo for "Should Have Listened To My Mother".Check out our website for more background information: https://www.jackietantillo.com/Or more demos of what's to come at https://soundcloud.com/jackie-tantilloLink to website and show notes: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/Or Find SHLTMM Website here: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/Listen wherever you find podcasts: https://...
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  • Humor and Laughter Were Gifts From His Mother, Baroness Camilla with Guest Blockchain and P2P Consultant, Roberto Capodieci

    Humor and Laughter Were Gifts From His Mother, Baroness Camilla with Guest Blockchain and P2P Consultant, Roberto Capodieci
    Jan 7 2025
    He wasn't your average ordinary young child because of his knack for computer skills, coding expertise and love for video games, etc.Roberto calls himself an "IT Craftsman." He likes to know how each thing works down to the tiniest detail. He's a father, husband and wonderful co-worker. HIs clients have said, "Roberto's exceptional knowledge is only surpassed by his kindness and willingness to support others." My guest's passion lies in technology, Web 3, P2P, Blockchain and so much more. Roberto was so excited to join us and share stories of his mother Camilla who's mother was a Baroness and the title was eventually passed down to Camilla when her mother passed away. Roberto's parents were never physical when it came disciplining him. They were able to have conversations to clear any issues up. Often, Roberto's parents did his usual chores for him because it was just easier for them. Unfortunately, that "hands off attitude," had a bit of a down side to Roberto's experience. Had Roberto been accused of things, things he didn't do, his parents took other adult's word for truth and they never allowed Roberto to defend himself of any of these false accusations. He uses this experience as a big lesson especially in raising his own children. He's adamant about having these open and honest conversations with his children. False accusations have a lasting effect on all of us, especially when you're a young child. He's still waiting to get an apology from the Boy Scout leader.One big surprise for my guest was that he never had any idea that his grandmother was a baroness. He had no idea that nobility was in his genes. It was lucky for Camilla's family, because there was wealth in the family and that allowed them access to food during WWII. Roberto says that it shaped his mother's personality. "She would never throw away one gram of leftover food and use it the next day." Camilla wouldn't let anyone throw anything away, no waste, preserve everything. They enjoyed spending time enjoying simple things in life, like being out in nature and long bicycle rides in the mountains.Camilla grew up in the mainland of Venice, Italy. Both parents were into mathematics. Camilla continued her studies but didn't finish a degree. Shortly afterward she became a housewife and a full time mother. Many years later after her husband passed, Camilla became a tour guide and a teacher of English but Roberto says her English wasn't really that good so he was a little bit embarrassed.Roberto hasn't lived in Italy most of his life. He left at 18 years old and would return for holidays. Since his mom died almost two two years ago, Roberto has stopped going to Italy for Christmas.Roberto says he owes a lot to his siblings for taking care of their mom for so many years. According to Roberto, his mother would often start telling a very lengthy story so it would take yet two more hours in order to leave her apartment. Roberto and his mother both have/had a fantastic sense of humor and always find ways to be happy in life. She never really understood how Roberto could take care of himself and his businesses beginning at such a young age.Camilla had a remarkable intuitive ability to warn her son not to get involved with certain businesses or with a particular person. She was often right. She even suggested that he marry a particular girlfriend years ago. He didn't listen to his mother's advice and he definitely has regrets.linkedIn:RC10website:RCX.ITIf Roberto didn't work in computers and technology, he says he'd love to be a comedian. Humor, laughter and happiness was a common theme for he and his mom. "It's the biggest medicine to smile and laugh" Roberto reflects. "Whatever I do, I have to do it with a smile and with a joke in the middle." "Should Have Listened To My Mother" is an ongoing conversation about mothers/female role models and the roles they play in our lives. Jackie's guests are open and honest and answer the question, are you who you are today because of, or in spite of, your mother and so much more. You'll be amazed at what the responses are.Gina Kunadian wrote this 5 Star review on Apple Podcast:SHLTMM TESTIMONIAL GINA KUNADIAN JUNE 18, 2024“A Heartfelt and Insightful Exploration of Maternal Love”Jackie Tantillo’s “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast is a treasure and it’s clear why it’s a 2023 People’s Choice Podcast Award Nominee. This show delves into the profound impact mother and maternal role models have on our lives through personal stories and reflections.Each episode offers a chance to learn how different individuals have been shaped by their mothers’ actions and words. Jackie skillfully guides these conversations, revealing why guests with similar backgrounds have forged different paths.This podcast is a collection of timeless stories that highlight the powerful role of maternal figures in our society. Whether your mother influenced you positively ...
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    36 mins

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