• Power, celebrity and the aftermath of abuse with Olivia Petter, journalist and author of Gold Rush
    Sep 5 2024

    In this episode, Emma-Louise sits down with journalist and author, Olivia Petter, to discuss Petter's debut book of fiction, Gold Rush.

    The book covers so many vital and indeed urgent themes surrounding sexual abuse, trauma and the toxicity of celebrity culture, all of which they delve into during what is a totally fascinating interview.

    “We give celebrities a power they don’t deserve," Petter writes, "a Power they haven’t earned. What happens when they exploit it?”

    You can purchase tickets to the next live event here.

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    *Trigger warning: this episode discusses themes around sexual abuse and assault. Please see below for resources and where you can access support if you've been affected by anything discussed.*

    For more information about reporting and recovering from rape and sexual abuse, you can contact Rape Crisis on 0808 500 2222.

    If you have been sexually assaulted, you can find your nearest Sexual Assault Referral Centre here. You can also find support at your local GP, voluntary organisations such as Rape Crisis, Women's Aid, and Victim Support, and you can report it to the police (if you choose) here.

    If you are worried that you or someone you know is being groomed, you can access Victim Support’s Children and Young People Services. You can contact your nearest Victim Support office, call the 24/7 Supportline, contact them via live chat, or if you are 16 or older, you can create a My Support Space account.

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    51 mins
  • Solo pod! How to re-wild your sexual landscape (and close the orgasm gap!) according to Emily Nagoski
    Aug 31 2024

    In the second solo Sex Talks pod Emma-Louise delves into the topic of last week's newsletter: new research on the orgasm gap, what it reveals about our broken sex culture, and, importantly, how we fix it.

    Touching on the work of sex educator and author, Emily Nagoski, Emma discusses how we can re-write our sexual script in order to foster a better, individual relationship to sex, and why this is so important in improving our overall sexual landscape.

    You can subscribe to the Sex Talks newsletter here and keep up-to-date on forthcoming events here.

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    28 mins
  • Celibacy, boundaries, self-trust and... learning how to flirt with comedian and author Sofie Hagen
    Aug 8 2024

    Sofie Hagen is a multi award winning, queer, non-binary comedian, author and podcaster.

    Their debut book was called Happy Fat: Taking Up Space in a World That Wants to Shrink You and they have just published their second book ‘Will I Ever have Sex Again.’ In it, they examine our broader sexual landscape in an attempt to understand why they haven’t had sex in some 3000 days and counting.

    Sofie joins Emma to discuss everything they’ve learned from over nine years of (involuntary) celibacy, what it’s taught them about their own body, boundaries, and queerness, and why they’re not all that bothered if they go another nine-years without sex. Plus, find out what Sofie learned about 1800 other people’s sex lives, not to mention the lessons imparted by a renowned flirtologist.

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • The first solo pod! Discussing situationships, comparison culture in sex, and why the grass is always greenest where you water it
    Jul 25 2024

    In this solo episode of the Sex Talks podcast, Emma discusses three main topics: her experience watching a play called 'After Sex' and the dating lessons it reminded her of; her brand new mantra 'the grass is greenest where you water it' and how we can apply it to both work and relationships; and, finally, the negative effects of comparison culture, particularly in relation to sex.

    The final Sex Talks Live podcast recording of the summer will take place on July 30th at The London Edition. You can purchase tickets here.

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    31 mins
  • Conversation On Love with author Natasha Lunn - "The mystical version of love I had on a pedal stool in my head stopped me from actually finding it...."
    Jul 18 2024

    We're on a podcast break this week so we're reposting one of our fave old episodes featuring author, Natasha Lunn, discussing her bestselling book 'Conversations on Love'.

    We hope you enjoy this as much as we did.

    Our usual Thursday podcasting schedule will resume next week and the final Sex Talks Live podcast recording of the summer will take place on July 30th at The London Edition. You can purchase tickets here.

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    1 hr and 33 mins
  • Tackling sex misinformation with Sophia Smith Galer, author and journalist
    Jul 4 2024

    In this episode, Emma sits down with multi-award-winning journalist, TikTok creator and author of Losing It: Sex Education for the 21st Century, Sophia Smith Galer.

    Together, they delve into the many sex myths Sophia tackles in her book; what Sophia refers to as the ‘sex misinformation crisis’ we’re currently facing; what initially drew her to explore this topic-area within her reporting; the challenges she and other journalists face in getting editors to take this subject matter seriously, and how we can all have a better relationship to sex overall.

    It’s an episode jam-packed with fascinating sex insights and we hope you enjoy it as much as we did.

    This was recorded in front of a live audience at the Zults pop up store in Soho.

    Launching in collaboration with Sexual Health London (SHL), aka the NHS’s free STI testing service, Zults is the brand-new and first-of-its-kind app that aims to provide a super easy way for individuals to test, manage, and communicate sexual health results if and when they want.

    Go an check out what they’re doing on Myrezults.com.

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    48 mins
  • Reclaiming the power of the pussy with Regena Thomashauer, aka 'Mama Gena'.
    Jun 27 2024

    In this episode of the Sex Talks podcast, Emma is joined be Regena Thomashauer, otherwise known as ‘Mama Gena’.

    She is a teacher, best-selling author, mother and founder and CEO of the New York-based School of Womanly Arts where she teaches women how to get (re)connected to their bodies and to their sensuality. “For as long as women are disconnected from their pussy they are disconnected from their power,” she tells us.

    Her book ‘Pussy: A Reclamation’, has been recommended to the team so many times we had to have her on the podcast to find out what exactly the School of Womanly Arts is all about. We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did.

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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Sex, boundaries, dating and orgasms with Sharmadean Reid, Stack World founder and author of New Methods For Women
    Jun 13 2024

    On this week’s live recording of the podcast Emma’s joined by the founder of The Stack World, Sharmadean Reid, ahead of the publication of her new book, New Methods for Women.

    True to form, this book is the culmination of everything Sharmadean’s learned from over 10 years of healing and self-development work, laying out her tried and tested approaches to dealing with all of the most important things in life. From setting boundaries to defining what you want in life, to questioning and rewriting the stories you tell yourself about yourself, it is rich with insights and learnings.

    The topic of sex and relationships is not one Sharmadean has ever talked about publicly before, so think of this conversation as a mega exclusive as we hear her explain how we can apply the methods laid out in her new book to the way we think about, and approach, sex and dating.

    You can purchase tickets to the event here.

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    1 hr and 32 mins