Episodes

  • 26. Wine, Wealth & Your Work Week

    26. Wine, Wealth & Your Work Week
    Aug 2 2021

    Alisa shares about her virtual wine tasting adventures and how to think about your week. Michael talks about investments and the elements of building wealth.

    If you have questions for Michael or Alisa (or both of us), please submit them for “Serious Fam Q&A” at seriouslythoughpodcast@gmail.com or @seriouslythoughpod.

    More from Alisa: Happy Cactus Club | @thehappycactusclub

    More from Michael: @michaeldm
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    33 mins
  • Bonus Episode: Talkin’ About Fresno’s Best

    Bonus Episode: Talkin’ About Fresno’s Best
    Jun 15 2021

    Every city has their unique charm. For us and our hometown of Fresno, CA, we brought in one of Fresno’s newest fans, Jordan Maddox. Jordan hosts Fresno’s Best Podcast, a podcast showcasing the movers, shakers and changemakers of the Central Valley. Join us as we discuss booze, books, and some Fresno faves.

     

    Serious Talking Points:

    • The best options for non-alcoholic beers
    • Why you should go to Lodi, CA for wine-tasting
    • Beet roots - good for lattes or the best farmers market finds?
    • Fresno’s new Mediterranean spot: Mayd
    • Is Me n Ed’s really the best pizza?
    • The one book Michael has kinda sorta read but knows a lot about: Orthodoxy
    • How Martha Stewart leveraged her prison time for a book on entrepreneurship
    • Fresno’s Best: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fresnos-best/id1495138106

     

    If you have questions for Michael or Alisa (or both of us), please submit them for “Serious Fam Q&A” at seriouslythoughpodcast@gmail.com or @seriouslythoughpod.

    More from Alisa:

    • The Happy Cactus
    • @thehappycactusclub

    More from Michael:

    • @michaeldm
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    28 mins
  • 24. How to Find Your Spark and Create Your Path

    24. How to Find Your Spark and Create Your Path
    May 6 2021
    We are all unique beings with unique skills and talents. At some point in your journey through life, someone might have urged you to “find your spark.” But what does this truly mean? Some discover their path early in their lives, while others continue to search in vain. We even doubt ourselves without realizing only we steer our lives. So create what you want to create — and that goes the same with our life journey. In this episode, Alisa talks about her journey toward becoming a Vision Producer. She delves into the story behind finding her spark and eliminating her “shoulds.” She also shares the meaning behind her company's name, The Happy Cactus, and what entrepreneurs can take away from it. If you want to know how you can find your spark, then this episode is for you. Here are three reasons why you should listen to this episode Discover what being a vision producer is all about.Find out how getting stuck in the land of shoulds hinders your journey as an entrepreneur.Learn the idea behind being a happy cactus. Resources Beenspiration by GeraldinaMore from Alisa: Happy Cactus Club | @thehappycactusclubMore from Michael: @michaeldm Episode Highlights [00:52] The Impact of the Pandemic The pandemic has highlighted what is important to people.The important answers Alisa got in her conversations are spending time with family, making their home nice, and making sure their time is well-spent.People who have gotten the "entrepreneurship itch" have realized this is an excellent time to start a business. [01:35] Beenspiration It's a podcast all about entrepreneurship by Alisa's friend, Geraldina. Geraldina has a photo booth business in Florida and has an educational background.Geraldina asked the question, “What’s your spark?” to prepare for her interview. [02:13] Find Your Spark Alisa: “When I think about the word ‘spark,’ I think about what lights me up.” As a Vision Producer, Alisa’s job is all about helping people find their spark and do something with it.More than the discovery process, her job is action-based. If you want to eliminate your "shoulds", then you need to get super clear on what you want and what's important to you.What’s important to you? Find your spark! [03:41] Her Job as a Vision Producer Alisa: “If your brain feels like spaghetti, I'm the person that's gonna come and help you take all of your ideas noodle by noodle, and help either separate them or bring them all together.” Alisa is a vision producer at The Happy Cactus, helping women untangle ideas they have in their heads.People who have big visions often think they have too many, and nothing connects. However, many times, everything connects because of who we are. [04:26] Alisa’s Background About a year ago, she was in the corporate world and had been working in executive coaching for almost ten years.   She knew she wanted to be in that world and move up the ranks and eventually become an executive herself. But then, she started getting bored.She didn't want to become a full-time executive coach because there are a lot more things she wanted to do.Working with her coach, she started rediscovering things she loved doing in her career. She discovered it was working with visionary people. [05:26] Alisa’s Journey Toward Becoming a Visionary Producer Tune in to the full episode to find out about Alisa’s first visionary jobs!Throughout her career, she realized that she could help put pieces together for visionary people to make things happen.Her coach compared this to being a producer, which birthed the title, Vision Producer.Here, she brings back her marketing savvy from her corporate experience and thinks above the surface for visionary women. She helps them see the bigger picture.She uses all of her skills in her job to create her path and career.In the future, she would like to have her vision production agency and create other vision producers. [07:24] The Land of Shoulds Alisa: “There are a lot of shoulds that have stopped me along the way.” She always had identity crises because she realized her identity is not about following a specific path. Once she realized that she creates her journey, it gave her permission to continue to create as an entrepreneur.For her, entrepreneurship was not a big vision or choice. It was a realization of who she is.After getting laid off from her corporate job, she got to the point where she had to make it happen for herself. [08:32] The Happy Cactus Her company's name is The Happy Cactus because when she was stuck in her "shoulds," she thought about her cute bunny ear cactus.She owns one that she adored and wanted to post on Instagram. But as months went by, it started growing weird and sometimes ugly ears.One day, while looking outside her patio window, she saw the cactus out there taking all the sun. It’s growing weird ears whenever and however it wants.She realized that the cactus was happy doing what it wanted. And she wanted to be like that happy ...
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    11 mins
  • 23. Bad Vermouth, Bee’s Knees, and Balance Sheets

    23. Bad Vermouth, Bee’s Knees, and Balance Sheets
    Mar 25 2021

    And being yourself! When you focus on your natural gifts instead of what you think you should be doing, you’ll run into a wall every time. Alisa and Michael talk about strengths and weaknesses and financial assets and liabilities to help you find balance in your life and in your pocketbook.

    Serious Talking Points:

    • PSA: Vermouth is only good for three months
    • Focus on working from your strengths, not your weaknesses
    • Keep a balance sheet! Know your Net Worth
    • Total Assets (own) - Total Liabilities (owe) = Net Worth
    • Review your balance sheet regularly to know where you stand (pulse check)
    • Ask yourself the tough questions. What areas of your balance sheet need your attention? Do some research, retrace your steps
    • Your balance sheet, spending plan, and financial goals should all be in alignment
    • Self-reflection will help you understand your strengths/assets and deficits/liabilities
    • Be your awesome self by living in your strengths/assets

    Bee’s Knees cocktail recipe

    Social Media Picks:

    Michael: Carl Richard's IG post
    Alisa: @thehappycactusclub's IG post

    If you have questions for Michael or Alisa (or both of us), please submit them for “Serious Fam Q&A” at seriouslythoughpodcast@gmail.com or @seriouslythoughpod.

    More from Alisa:

    • The Happy Cactus
    • @thehappycactusclub

    More from Michael:

    • @michaeldm
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    31 mins
  • 22. Take Your Money For A Walk

    22. Take Your Money For A Walk
    Feb 24 2021
    Summary:
    In today’s episode, Michael and Alisa get right down to business! Michael discusses the importance of creating and using a spending plan to reach your financial goals. Alisa shares other powerful benefits of going for a walk to beat work-from-home burnout.   Serious Talking Points:
    • Spending Plan vs. Budget
    • With a spending plan, you get to decide and direct where your money goes and how it is spent
    • Give your money a “job” and make it work for you
    • Do the more important things more and the less important things less!
    • 5 reasons why you should seriously consider going for a purposeful walk
    • Want your strengths to work for you? Sign up to join Alisa’s 3-month group experience for modern professionals to learn, grow, and live in your strengths starting March 11.
    Social Media Picks:
    Alisa: @beenspirationbg’s IG post 
    Michael: @thegrowinginvestor’s IG post    If you have questions for Michael or Alisa (or both of us), please submit them for “Serious Fam Q&A” at seriouslythoughpodcast@gmail.com or @seriouslythoughpod.   More from Alisa:
    • The Happy Cactus
    • @thehappycactusclub
    More from Michael:
    • @michaeldm
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    35 mins
  • 21. The Bachelor, Goal-Setting & Leaning into Your Strengths

    21. The Bachelor, Goal-Setting & Leaning into Your Strengths
    Feb 3 2021

    In this episode, Alisa and Michael talk beer (and of course, wine), The Bachelor, and music. Seriously though, Alisa and Michael also share ideas on learning, growing, living in your strengths, and financial goal-setting as an important component of creating your own financial plan.

    Music Picks:
    Michael: Classical music all the way, but a bit of Muse here and there pumps him up.
    Alisa: Anything to slow her down, like Classical Chill on Apple Music or Minimalist Classical.

    Serious Talking Points:

    • Alisa, thanks to their last episode and the help of her assistant, gained awareness and a realistic view of her money, hopes, and dreams.
    • Financial goal-setting means aligning your dreams, your values, the most important things, with your money over a reasonable amount of time.
    • What do you want to do with your money? What are you saving for? How much do you need to reach your goals
    • Long-term goals first. Start big, aim high! The intermediate and short term goals will present themselves as you continue to brainstorm.
    • When pursuing your goals, course corrections are inevitable. Not to worry, keep moving forward!
    • “If you aim for nothing, you will hit it everytime!”
    • Join the Strengths Revolution: Imagine a society where your strengths are the focus, where they are fostered and where you could grow and thrive using your natural gifts
    • One study compared a city in China where people in the workplace focused on strengths to a city in the US where the focus was on weaknesses. Result: people in China were 30% more productive, they were happier and more fulfilled than in the US city. 
    • Knowing your strengths can help you grow in areas where you’re naturally gifted.
    • Everyone has a different skill set and set of strengths. Find out what your natural talents are so can use them effectively in your career and life.
    • Want to know your strengths for free? Try the High 5 Strengths Test.
    • Something to look forward to: Alisa is creating a 3-month group experience for modern professionals to live, grow, and learn their strengths starting February 24. Sign up to get the latest info!
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    If you have questions for Michael or Alisa (or both of us), please submit them for “Serious Fam Q&A” at seriouslythoughpodcast@gmail.com or @seriouslythoughpod.

    More from Alisa:

    • The Happy Cactus
    • @thehappycactusclub

    More from Michael:

    • @michaeldm
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    36 mins
  • 20. Create The Life Of Your Dreams & The Wealth To Go With It

    20. Create The Life Of Your Dreams & The Wealth To Go With It
    Jan 29 2021

    Alisa and Michael welcome 2021 by ditching the old intro that included Le Croix (sorry, not sorry) and announcing they’re streaming live in their new Facebook group: Seriously Though | Facebook. The celebratory mood continues as they share how they spent their New Year’s. (Michael donned a suit and had some French champagne while Alisa and their mom bonded over Gilmore Girls and a bottle of Prosecco)

    Seriously though, this episode is all about how to create the life of your dreams and the wealth to go with it. 

    Serious Talking Points:

    • Alisa takes a wealth assessment (join Seriously Though | Facebook for the link) to help her learn how to build wealth as an entrepreneur and she learned what type of team she needs to for her business
    • Alisa talks about using the Wheel of Life Exercise to begin creating the life of your dreams with Michael gladly participating in the activity and revealing which areas of his life he feels most and least satisfied 
    • Michael talks about the six areas of wealth you need to know to go along with the life of your dreams (Seriously Though Financial docs)

    If you have questions for Michael or Alisa (or both of us), you can reach us at seriouslythoughpodcast@gmail.com or @seriouslythoughpod. 

    Join Seriously Though | Facebook to watch us when we livestream and participate in our discussions and gain access to exclusive content.

    Follow Alisa @thehappycactusclub and Michael @michaeldm, too!
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    34 mins
  • 19. The Power of the Pause

    19. The Power of the Pause
    Nov 11 2020

    Summary: In today’s episode, Michael and Alisa discuss the importance of taking breaks, giving your brain a break, and stepping back to look at what’s crucial to move forward. With that comes a break for this podcast, too. The plan is to come back stronger than ever in 2021. Thank you for listening, Serious Fam! 

    Social Media Picks:

    Take a Break...Never Give Up by Beyond Endo
    Your Spending Habits Make You Rich, Not Your Salary by Clever Girl Finance

    Serious Talking Points:

    • Zero-Sugar Gatorade - yay or nay?
    • Register for Gearing Up for 2021 and Beyond Nov 18 by The Happy Cactus Club!
    • Alisa takes magnesium taurate for better sleep each night...ask your dr if this is right for you
    • How Do Work Breaks Help Your Brain? Article from Psychology Today
    • Recharging your brain with creativity when you’re doing left-sided activities
    • Minute Mindfulness Exercise by The Happy Cactus Club
    • Want a Seriously Though sticker? Send us your address!

    If you have questions for Michael or Alisa (or both of us), you can reach us at seriouslythoughpodcast@gmail.com or @seriouslythoughpod.

    More from Alisa:

    • The Happy Cactus Club
    • @thehappycactusclub

    More from Michael:

    • Bolt Wealth Management 
    • @michaeldm
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    27 mins